chelseabmw: To me it's not a bad idea tho depends on the line of communication...

I called her on her birthday just to wish her longevity

She's on my bbm list... we only chat about her work n family

When I'm in nigeria I always see her esp at her bank because she's my account officer n I run most of my bank transaction through that particular bank


We don't discuss about our relationship way back because I have moved on n she's married


My opinion tho

Orikinla: Marriage cannot separate my ex-girlfriend from me, because our love is unbreakable.
She still comes to see me and I respect her marriage and her husband knows that we love each other.

Yomieluv: Best is to stay off,many can't pass the test...seems you talking about me,though not married,but have an Ex,that we chat on whatsapp,next thing,I went to see her,she was excited,one thing led to another,before you know it,clothes started flying off,till we got down..funniest things,she knows my fiancee,and I see her fiancee on her whatsapp dp...guess what-tonite,we are seeing again..fiancee is in school,and am bored....Am I a cheat?

BluePearls: For a minute there, I forgot what the subject matter was and got carried away with the simple but nice write up.

Back to the matter, not a good idea, especially for folks with little or no self control.

lynpetra: After marriage,I don't think I will remember his name even.
I will definitely change a lot of things after marriage,my phone number included.

smartchoice:
But you can't change the pathway down there!

makky: Speaking from experience Most men do this more than women. Why? Ladies will be hurt that the men left them for another, so they won't even think of anything else than to hurt the man. The man on the other hand remembers hoW great the sex may have been or how his ex treated him better in some way that his current aint doing and would wanna experience that one more time. I've had cases of my exes calling or wanting to keep in touch but its not possible cos once u give them that chance, they take it but at the end ur loosing cos he got a wife or a new girl and u are miserably alone. So the best advice I can give to any lady is stand ur ground, there's a reason it never worked and never will. Avoid meeting him in any way, keep the convo very simple, never talk about ur past or y u broke up, ask him about his wife and kids if any, that way he knows u aint into him anymore. Keep it very short and don't encourage his calls or texts or chats, don't even add him on any social site and even when u do, don't keep going to his profile to check on him, it will do u both a whole lot of good.

lynpetra:

I wish I could,but then some people don't like the stress .No need.It's still sweet and inviting .Smartchoice I don tell u make u bring One sales from ur car make we go chop,smarty u stingy o.You gocarry your Money enter hell fire

Exponental: Dis is nt totally true. Some men/ women are responsible and will always take their stand. Make friends in d public without any privacy

ifyalways: I will NEVER understand the fascination with ex's. Haaaa. I soooo dump/disconnect and move the hell on.

Forward ever, backward never. You cease to exist the moment our friendship/relationship goes sour.

Good Boi: Sure? This is the side effect of pre-marital sex. I wonder how people engaging in pre-marital sex, after several Ex-partners, think they can just stop it because they are "married". smh

rebella: Keeping in touch with an ex is a terrible idea. The whole ish has ended, both parties should move on! If there must be any form of communication it should be only on special occasions like birthdays, apart from that nothing, I won't even reply you

oamronnie:
I never said it was mine but thanks for the correction.

zeb04: Kikikikiki this is a sweet temptation but why not make it unisex?there ve been a lot of thread about women and their ex recently

breathless: @OP. Why on earth did you have to go dub jacknjilllive?
Bros Leke can sue you for this if he finds out. It called plagiarism
The least you could do was to give credit to the source and not make it look like yours.
Stop the copy cat syndrome and be original. You short change yourself and thwart your creativity.

Bazinga:

Wish everyone with an ex will learn from ur post. That's hw I live too. Once we done, den we done for good. Ur dead to me.
Btw I break up with any girl am datin dat is either friends wit her ex or still very much in touch wit him. Like chat often or receive his call

korel9:

It shows how jobless you are!

2baga:


"Culled from Leke Alder's Letter to Jack.
U can follow @Leke_Alder on twitter for more interesting articles."

I think op did the needful
and pls you are not inside leke's mind

makky: Speaking from experience Most men do this more than women. Why? Ladies will be hurt that the men left them for another, so they won't even think of anything else than to hurt the man. The man on the other hand remembers hoW great the sex may have been or how his ex treated him better in some way that his current aint doing and would wanna experience that one more time. I've had cases of my exes calling or wanting to keep in touch but its not possible cos once u give them that chance, they take it but at the end ur loosing cos he got a wife or a new girl and u are miserably alone. So the best advice I can give to any lady is stand ur ground, there's a reason it never worked and never will. Avoid meeting him in any way, keep the convo very simple, never talk about ur past or y u broke up, ask him about his wife and kids if any, that way he knows u aint into him anymore. Keep it very short and don't encourage his calls or texts or chats, don't even add him on any social site and even when u do, don't keep going to his profile to check on him, it will do u both a whole lot of good.

Bertbert: . One day one MONKEY go go market ,e no go return......bros wellldone oooo ,i dey hail thee oooo....