carefreewannabe:

Life is not easy at the moment. Not everyone in good health in my family but I am a fighter my dear.

crackhaus:
Ooops, just saw this.. Maybe I should rest my boxing gloves for another day.

It'll get better for you and your family

carefreewannabe:

Saying that I have no point is your subjective judgement but it's ok.

I have no problem with men, not at all, but I DO have a problem with men telling me what I have to do and what I shouldn't do as a woman and trying to impose a certain role on me. I will NOT accept it.

crackhaus:
Lol...I was deliberately trying to get you rattled with that 'no point' bit, we cool.

carefreewannabe:

I am tired now but I will NOT forget it

dridowu: A woman from Zimbabwe who is already married to two men, wishes to tie the knot with two more.

The 57-year-old Emma Chaleka, who is a traditional healer, wants to be married to four men as it is her dream, according to Myzim.

The woman who is in a polyandrous marriage with two men claims that she wants to marry twice more as long as her husbands live peacefully under one roof and respect what she calls their 'duties'.

Chaleka also confirmed that her first husband Never Mudenda introduced her to her second husband, the 55-year-old Sikabenga Pendasi.

The polyandrous marriage has been the talk of the town in Gadzema heights suburbs.

The second marriage took place after Sikabenga Pendasi brought a chicken to her as a wedding gift and they exchanged vows in front of a winess, who was a neighbour.

However, the first husband got jealous of Chaleka's second husband. He and her children got together and attacked the new husband. However, Chaleka dissuaded Pendasi from filing a police complaint as she was scared that her kids would be arrested by the police.

The woman denied being a promiscuous wife.

Chaleka has 11 children from her deceased husband and two children from Never Mudenda.

crackhaus: I don't even want to imagine what her Kitty would look like right now, not to mention when she marries two more men to add to the bombardment
I got nothing but pity for her.

Efemenaxy1:

Haha! I love this woman!

You go girl!

So??

I don't see the men complaining...so why should you?

crackhaus:
Haha, you take certain things personal...this much I know about you on NL

carefreewannabe:

I don't, I am just allergic to, let's say, unqualified comments.

Efemenaxy1:
So??

I don't see the men complaining...so why should you?

crackhaus: I don't even want to imagine what her Kitty would look like right now, not to mention when she marries two more men to add to the bombardment

I got nothing but pity for her.

TV01:

Dude, this is almost certainly not about inter.course or procreation. A woman with 13 kids?
She needs more hands on deck to provide for them. Women always look to men to subsidise their sexual licence (where they have it).

If she was independentaly wealthy or if there was a decent welfare system in place she'd get rid of the ones she has sef.

Don't pity her, pity the manginas that fall for this nonsense.


TV

The woman who is in a polyandrous marriage
with two men claims that she wants to marry
twice more as long as her husbands live
peacefully under one roof and respect what she
calls their 'duties'.

crackhaus:
Okay clearly you're thinking from another perspective...that's fine.

But please pray tell, what do you think she means by this emboldened part.



Emphasis on duties, care to share what these duties are?

Also, is it the duty by law for a man to raise and provide financial support for children that aren't his in Zimbabwe or any other part of the world?

pickabeau1:

In such settings.. the children are not viewed from the male rather the female
Our children taken care ofby pooled funds

If they are happy,,,... good luck finding 2 men

Can we see d pic of the lady?

crackhaus:
Okay clearly you're thinking from another perspective...that's fine.

crackhaus:
But please pray tell, what do you think she means by this emboldened part.

The woman who is in a polyandrous marriage
with two men claims that she wants to marry
twice more as long as her husbands live
peacefully under one roof and respect what she
calls their 'duties'.

crackhaus:
Emphasis on duties, care to share what these duties are?

crackhaus:
Also, is it the duty by law for a man to raise and provide financial support for children that aren't his in Zimbabwe or any other part of the world?

crackhaus:
I'm using that instance to prove that any new man she marries will not be coming in because they want to provide for 13kids that aren't theirs...but because they will be getting a taste of her sexxually, hence my earlier comment in reference to her cooshie.

Regardless of whatever motive she has for marrying two other men, she will still be getting phucked constantly and be birthing more kids because clearly she enjoys that.

TV01:
Although I admit to not giving it that much thought, what could the relaity of a 50 something year-old women with 13 kids in a 3rd world country really be?

My guess is as good as yours. Duties could entail a number of things. Perhaps she has extensive farm holdings and need labourers. But I greatly doubt she has a ""round the clock rota for sex in mind". At her age, even if she isn't menopausal, she almost certainly has greatly reduced drives if any interest in sex at all.

A husbands main "duty" is to provide for her family. I'm guessing it's more about provision, which to a great degree has always been the male side of the bargain. She may also be hoping for a "medic" to help with her hot flushes - but that's still provision in a sense !

When you marry a woman it's implicit you take on paternal responsibility for her kids - even if they are not yours - especially if the childrens real father is deceased.


TV

crackhaus:
Hence my pity.


Another reason for me to be pitiful. She's a traditional healer, meaning not wealthy...heck I could bet she barely has enough to survive on. I seriously doubt she owns extensive farm holdings.


Okay let me agree it's about providing for the family...which still begs the question, what African man with plenty money or wealth would get into a marriage with a 50-something year old woman with 13kids from two men just to provide for her? Abi young fresh girls don finish for that village

I think these men she marries are as broke as her, probably more broke even...hence their eagerness to latch on to old overused cargo, no pun intended



Yes clearly.

pickabeau1:

Maybe she is a woman who is able to pay the dowry for the men so the men will not see himself paying too much for others children

She will be constantly pregnant hence the 13 kids...

She better pray for accelerated menopause

crackhaus:
She better pray for it man.

But honestly, I'm surprised I'm the one pitying this woman here, no female who commented on this thread has/wants to give birth to more than 3 or 4kids in their lifetime (and best believe they know why)....so how come they're hailing her on and are not bothered about elasticity, tearing, scaring, breakage, and to top it off, constant banging from three men total to add to the trouble of the blessed Kitty.

I think I'm a feminist.

crackhaus:
She better pray for it man.

But honestly, I'm surprised I'm the one pitying this woman here, no female who commented on this thread has/wants to give birth to more than 3 or 4kids in their lifetime (and best believe they know why)....so how come they're hailing her on and are not bothered about elasticity, tearing, scaring, breakage, and to top it off, constant banging from three men total to add to the trouble of the blessed Kitty.

I think I'm a feminist.

crackhaus:
She better pray for it man.

But honestly, I'm surprised I'm the one pitying this woman here, no female who commented on this thread has/wants to give birth to more than 3 or 4kids in their lifetime (and best believe they know why)....so how come they're hailing her on and are not bothered about elasticity, tearing, scaring, breakage, and to top it off, constant banging from three men total to add to the trouble of the blessed Kitty.

I think I'm a feminist.

pickabeau1:



The females who have commented are campaigning for equality in all forms which is admirable and should be encouraged to do so

I think im a feminist too

cococandy: Crackhaus why you dey pity person wey no dey pity herself?
Save your pity bro
The babe's balling

Godmystrength: just asking o but what difference does it make - constant banging from three men and constant banging from one man? 3 men each have sex with her once daily and one man has sex with her 3 times daily?


[size=5pt]i am not saying i support what she is doing. i just want to know whether it is any different.[/size]

crackhaus:
You tell me, I guess you're female.

cococandy: The idea is for any woman to have what makes her happy as long as it's within the law and not infringing on anyone's rights.

Maybe in their zimbabwe it's perfectly cool.shey the husbands dem complain give you?

The polyandrous marriage has been the talk of
the town in Gadzema heights suburbs.