to me I see its d female gender... what's ur own take?

...depends on the type of relationship,depends on the extent of their break-up,depends on attached dey are emotionally,depends on several factors...mostly,its the female counterpart dat loses....she passes thru several emotional challenges.....

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The person that invested so much into the relationship

you

Yungwizzzy: you

You don turn female?

Emmydo360: to me I see its d female gender... what's ur own take?

Since u think it's d female, why are u asking

temigracie: ...depends on the type of relationship,depends on the extent of their break-up,depends on attached dey are emotionally,depends on several factors...mostly,its the female counterpart dat loses....she passes thru several emotional challenges.....

Really? Just because a guy reins in his emotions doesn't mean he isn't sad about the break up. How about the money, the gifts that the babe collected? What if the lady hurt his pride as she broke-up with him?

Woman, guys have emotions. Very deep emotions. But we don't show it. Maybe that is the reason you ladies are not sorry to toy with our emotions 'cos you believe "well, he is a guy" so he can eat dust.

dre11: The person that invested so much into the relationship

gbam!dats it

dre11: The person that invested so much into the relationship

Exactly

That other person that invested time and money.....

dre11: The person that invested so much into the relationship

I think it's female gender.
After break up,it's easier for a guy to get any type of girl he wants but in the girls case she has to wait until she meets another good customer(boyfriend).

In our clime, 98.4% of relationships are financed by guys. In terms of loosing money and time, it's the guy. In terms of loosing benefits, it's the girl. Over all, the female looses more.

In my own 3d view... Both sides hav somethin to lose but in a more realistic way, dat ladies av much to lose is on the high side if placed on a scale of rank.. Am talkin bout reasonable and average responsible ladies oooo ( I no dey talk abt al dis yeye slut wey dey claim classy babe up and down oooo)... As we al knw dat it is appointed unto men to chase ladies and we all knw dat men ar polygamous in nature... However, ladies ar alwz conscious of protecting their dignity and as we knw dat men dnt rili av any dignity to protect... Men ar not rili ashamed of flaunting ladies around while ladies ar alwz very careful and selective cos wen a lady changes bf lik 5tyms a year, she's tagged a slut... So dats y d rate at which dey ar afraid of guys is more dan d rate at which we ar afraid of dem simply because dey knw dey ar d losin side by default.... So lemme throw dis question to mak a stance... Y is it dat wen u promise to marry a lady and wen u eventually turn her down, she wld feel as if her world has com crashing down... Y is it dat in the recent time, ladies do not rely only on church weddin but wld also want court wedding ?... Y is it dat the marriage certificate is given to a lady ?... Al dis happens cos ladies ar on d losin side and al d afore-stated points ar done in favour of ladies so dat men wld be on d losing side

Depends who gave in its best & if both party did den both will b affected

Tymax:
Really? Just because a guy reins in his emotions doesn't mean he isn't sad about the break up. How about the money, the gifts that the babe collected? What if the lady hurt his pride as she broke-up with him?

Woman, guys have emotions. Very deep emotions. But we don't show it. Maybe that is the reason you ladies are not sorry to toy with our emotions 'cos you believe "well, he is a guy" so he can eat dust.

yes,i knw dey av emotions too..i knw dey might have invested one way or d oda...but give me reasons y dey forget easily,give me reasons y dey move on so quickly, give me reasons y dey dont look back atall...den i ll give u reasons y its d female dat loses mostly....guys may invest time,money n resourses...but ladies invest in deir emotions....do u knw dat falling out of love s one of d hardest thing to do on earth??

He who loved more!!

unarguably the females

temigracie: yes,i knw dey av emotions too..i knw dey might have invested one way or d oda...but give me reasons y dey forget easily,give me reasons y dey move on so quickly, give me reasons y dey dont look back atall...den i ll give u reasons y its d female dat loses mostly....guys may invest time,money n resourses...but ladies invest in deir emotions....do u knw dat falling out of love s one of d hardest thing to do on earth??

deer look back , only dt d girls don't notice ..... it can go both ways, depends on d 1 DT loved more.... my friend had his hrt broken in SS3(LOL yea SS3) n refused to date through 6yrs in medical skul.... yl d girl hu z a lawyer nw been changing dem ever since.

sexyexcalibur:
deer look back , only dt d girls don't notice ..... it can go both ways, depends on d 1 DT loved more.... my friend had his hrt broken in SS3(LOL yea SS3) n refused to date through 6yrs in medical skul.... yl d girl hu z a lawyer nw been changing dem ever since.

yes,it can b both ways but its very rare in guys..