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Re: Beating Your Wife : How Mr Sule Physically Abused His Wife To Death by beeevan: 2:52pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
1miccza: Am short of words, very pathetic... |
Re: Beating Your Wife : How Mr Sule Physically Abused His Wife To Death by Nobody: 2:56pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
May God guide and protect all the strong women on this thread who were able to survive turbulent marriages. Stories like this make me have less concern about marriage. That's y I am trying to be self reliant so as not to depend on any man, cuz this is what they use to trap the women. |
Re: Beating Your Wife : How Mr Sule Physically Abused His Wife To Death by soonest(f): 3:09pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
ephee:U r really a strong lady. I believe if u have some education or acquired skills u can sail through and be financially independent. U don't really need a man as a helper in that regards. If love comes knocking again pls open ur heart but not necessarily because he's a helper. I do hope u will understand my post. Stay blessed 2 Likes |
Re: Beating Your Wife : How Mr Sule Physically Abused His Wife To Death by bukatyne(f): 4:16pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
ireneidiva: Thanks. Blest is both past tense and past participle http://www.thefreedictionary.com/blest 1 Like |
Re: Beating Your Wife : How Mr Sule Physically Abused His Wife To Death by bukatyne(f): 4:21pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
beeevan: Lol of compound fish brain 2 Likes |
Re: Beating Your Wife : How Mr Sule Physically Abused His Wife To Death by ireneidiva(f): 6:04pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
bukatyne:Particle? Okay. 1 Like |
Re: Beating Your Wife : How Mr Sule Physically Abused His Wife To Death by bukatyne(f): 6:17pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
ireneidiva: Participle Ma kosi mi lopolo jo *Modifying my initial post |
Re: Beating Your Wife : How Mr Sule Physically Abused His Wife To Death by Nobody: 6:22pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
soonest: Tanks soonest am a graduate of english arts from olabisi onabanjo university nd av working experiences but since I had my baby due to the attention and fragile nature I couldn't work far away.I had no one to stay wit the baby even if I started work so I ended up in a private secondary school as a teacher taking english and literature subjects.it was quite stressful and discourageing coz they don't pay salaries and wen u end up collecting ur salary its either u av loads of debts or u get half of nothing and I had to pay for her creche fee to despite being a staff.I love singing and am a very good hair stylist and nail beautician. Coz of my baby I av to get a job that wil involve closing early and not far from home.that's y getin a job for now is a bit selective 2 Likes |
Re: Beating Your Wife : How Mr Sule Physically Abused His Wife To Death by kkjoy(f): 7:29pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
ephee: I love to hear/read about women being very strong, my own issolatted me from other family and friends but he never succeeded in seperating me from my mom, anyway the best is that we became stronger and moved on.. May God be wit us single mothers 2 Likes |
Re: Beating Your Wife : How Mr Sule Physically Abused His Wife To Death by 1miccza: 7:56pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
beeevan: So damn pathetic... 1 Like |
Re: Beating Your Wife : How Mr Sule Physically Abused His Wife To Death by Nobody: 8:31pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
kkjoy: Amen o.tanks |
Re: Beating Your Wife : How Mr Sule Physically Abused His Wife To Death by Arsenate(m): 8:57pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
personally, I believe abusive husbands always show some signs before the marriage but usually you ladies attribute such signs as manly. y'all like badass guys sheyy |
Re: Beating Your Wife : How Mr Sule Physically Abused His Wife To Death by Fant(m): 11:58pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
When you see a man hitting himself on the street, the usual thought will be 'this man is mad' because only a mad man will hit himself. Now, marriage means two people joined together as one. Hence only a mad man will beat his wife because they are one flesh. I hope many of the 'wife beaters' will understand this concept and change. |
Re: Beating Your Wife : How Mr Sule Physically Abused His Wife To Death by babestell(f): 8:07am On Jul 28, 2014 |
Unfortunately a lot of women get married for the wrong reason, mostly just so that they answer "mrs" and remove the shame of "singlehood". And also we have the girls who think marriage is an easy way to a meal ticket instead of trying to develop themselves Then when the abuse starts its difficult for them to react appropriately because this was suppose to be their dream come true. 1 Like |
Re: Beating Your Wife : How Mr Sule Physically Abused His Wife To Death by esthybam(f): 4:58pm On Jul 28, 2014 |
[quote author=onismate]Life seems to be strange, not because it is but because human beings tends to do strange things in life through their attitude. Mr. sule, had married sophie for over 5years. Sophie a 28year old lady married to about 47years old sule, to some people is quite a large age difference and very very odd, but for mr sule, he calls it “LOVE”. Sometimes I quite imagine the pain this woman sophie goes through in the hands of sule, for a woman who is 8 months pregnant. They both and their 3 kids living in an ancient one story building, the parlor is upstairs and the rooms are downstairs. Mr. sule had ordered his wife sophie that any time she wants to serve him food she dares not bring everything at once together. For instance if she wants to serve him pounded yam and egusi soup, she will take pounded yam in the plate upstairs alone, comeback to take the soup, next is the water to wash his hands then comes back to take the drinking water before coming to take the towel to clean his hands and mouth. And after eating she will come back to clean up the table and pack the plates, she will still follow the same procedure of carrying the plates downstairs one after the other. The day she doesn’t do it that way or misses it she will receive massive beating, Or maybe he called her and she wasted few more minutes before answering him, because he had warned her that let her not allow him call her twice, unless maybe she’s not at home ,but if she is at home once he calls her, even though she is doing any major work, she must leave the work to come answer him because, if she doesn’t, she will be beaten. It has happened many times, and after beaten her, mr sule doesn’t even regret it. Imagine this stress for a woman in her 8th month of pregnancy, climbing stairs with all the pains. All these made sophie scared and terrified the own house. Anytime she hears her husband’s thunderous voice, her heart will start beating fast, the whole of herself will be full of fear, her thoughts will be like “ hope I have not done anything wrong, hope he will not beat me again”. As the day breaks, the situation becomes worse. Each day she prays that God should bring an end to the union. She hopes that God will answer her prayers. She wants rest of mind, she wants peace of the mind. No NGO to report to, nowhere to run to even if he leaves that house. She is an orphan, sule married from the an orphanage home. The orphanage home were trying to give away all the children, teenagers and adults in their custody. Even if she runs out of the house, where will she run to, which NGO will fight for her? This faithful evening sophie had just prepared jullof rice with a good fish, she was rushing to serve sule the food. She believes he will be very hungry by then. As she rushed to meet his demands, She missed it! As she served him the food she came along with a drinking water along with the plate of jullof rice. Sule was like “what ! you still repeated it again today” sule shouted. By that time sophie had known that sule will beat her. She had been warned by her husband sule, when serving her food, she shouldn’t bring everything, both the food and drinking water together. She must bring the food first, then go back and bring drinking water. Standing and gazing into sule’ furious eyes, anger was written all over him. Seeing this, fear engulfed sophie. She knows that sule will surely come to beat her. She immediately dropped the food and started running downstairs, sule ran after her. Unfortunately, as she was running downstairs she fell at the last lap with head on the floor as she tumbled, even as she fell to the floor sule never gave up, he caught up with her, he lifted up his hand to hit her, luckily a visitor was just approaching towards the stairs to the parlor, he grabbed his hand, suspending it on air, “do you want to kill her?” he shouted. He grabbed him and pushed him away. Sule was still fuming in anger, the visitor doesn’t want him to beat sophie. The visitor reached out to sophie, he tries to lift her up, but she was not moving, she was still on the floor motionless. He moved her one more time if he could wake her up but still no response, immediately he shouted for help, sule was there standing, he hissed and left the place. The visitor rushed outside and called other neighbors to come help out. They took her to the hospital but unfortunately she was gone, she was dead. The matter didn’t end there. Sule was arrested and locked up and awaiting trial. This was when I was in primary school. Now am grown, I have finished my Degree, sule is still in prison awaiting trial. This story touched my heart because she never deserved all beating. She died a painful death in pregnancy. She was chased to her grave by a so called sweet heart {husband}. Please Lets come together to fight violence and physical abuse of women in Homes |
Re: Beating Your Wife : How Mr Sule Physically Abused His Wife To Death by bukatyne(f): 9:50pm On Jul 28, 2014 |
[quote author=esthybam][/quote] While the bottom of your post is sensational, who are the people to fight against abuse in homes? Did the women complain to you? Even if they did, are they ready to face it head on? Everybody is wired to remove themselves from harmful situations. What is harmful varies from person to person. We really do not know what we want in our society. We just mouth stuffs without building a foundation for it. A child that saw her mom beaten by her dad and they claim to be 'happily' married or have a successful home or lead the marriage committee, how can she dump an abusive boyfriend/fiancee? How can she see anything wrong in battery? We teach our kids that men & women are not equal and yet we complain men treat women like kids, playthings or properties? We never hold men accountable and we complain they do not lead by example? We don't let our sons do chores and we complain that our husbands do not help? We stayin shitty marriages without cautioning the men and we complain our kids esp. sons make lousy spouses? Husband = Lord & Chief commander and we complain they treat women as subordinates? We have sown the wind and are reaping the whirlwind. Women ain't seen nothing yet. We all should carry go and not train/caution the men around us. Goodluck in your women lib program 1 Like |
Re: Beating Your Wife : How Mr Sule Physically Abused His Wife To Death by cococandy(f): 9:45am On Jul 29, 2014 |
Truer words? Never been spoken. It is women's fault And the fault is ours to correct. bukatyne: |
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