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LADIES; 5 Things You Should Never Do For A Man Even When In Love! by Ruhbiee(f): 9:56am On Jul 26, 2014
1. Ignore Your Dreams
Just because he wants you to spend time with him or be around him always, should not make you feel guilty into turning down that big promotion or the chance to go for thyuat prestigious conference abroad. He should never ask you to make a choice between your dreams and him. There should always be a common ground to work on. Ask yourself, would you be happy in a relationship where you have to give up your hard-earned dreams? If he loves you, he will understand that your dreams and career are as important as his.
2. Modify your values
All of us have our own set of moral values and principles that we believe in. These values form our identity and individuality to a good extent. Never try to change your morals just because your man wants you to. Even if you two don’t share common values, he should always respect yours, rather than change them. This is not just about moral values; it is also about religion and beliefs. Such things cannot and should not ever be changed just because someone else wants you to do so.
3. Change Your Look
Woman should never change her appearance or the way she looks only because her man desires so. Subtle changes are acceptable, like dressing and styling ones. But if he wants you to go for surgeries to change certain aspect of your appearance then never agree to it. He should admire your natural beauty and not work towards changing it. Just because he doesn’t like the way your nose looks or if he finds your ears too pointy, it should not guilt-trip you into going for something as drastic as a surgery.
4. Sacrifice your personal space
Even your family and friends need your time and attention, and this is something even you enjoy, right? So, never sacrifice your personal space and time that you should be spending with them just because he wants you to. Try to divide it and strike a balance. Just because you are in a relationship does not mean that you do not need anyone else apart from him. And, he should understand and respect that.
5. Forget Who You Are
Never try to act what you are not. Do not show that you are less intelligent than him just to boost his ego or only because it will make him happy. Men like independent women, so acting stupid is not going to help at all. Also, you should not change your likes and dislikes for him. These things make you unique. So, do not lose your individuality and identity for a man. At least, not when you are being forced to do so.

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Re: LADIES; 5 Things You Should Never Do For A Man Even When In Love! by Nobody: 10:03am On Jul 26, 2014
The same goes for my guys but most importantly - Let your brain always do the thinking.

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Re: LADIES; 5 Things You Should Never Do For A Man Even When In Love! by stormybucci(m): 10:03am On Jul 26, 2014
op u dae vex oooo.... u get quarrel with uz?? some of ur views are correct shaa but i don't agree 2 all

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Re: LADIES; 5 Things You Should Never Do For A Man Even When In Love! by Ruhbiee(f): 10:15am On Jul 26, 2014
[quote author=stormybucci]op u dae vex oooo.... u get quarrel with uz?? some of ur views are correct shaa but i don't agree 2 all
LOL!
Re: LADIES; 5 Things You Should Never Do For A Man Even When In Love! by Nobody: 10:20am On Jul 26, 2014
stormybucci: op u dae vex oooo.... u get quarrel with uz?? some of ur views are correct shaa but i don't agree 2 all

Guy, swallow your balls. The chic is 100% correct.
Re: LADIES; 5 Things You Should Never Do For A Man Even When In Love! by stormybucci(m): 10:27am On Jul 26, 2014
kovak:

Guy, swallow your balls. The chic is 100% correct.
sharappp!!!dere!! every1 has his/her own view 2 things

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Re: LADIES; 5 Things You Should Never Do For A Man Even When In Love! by Nobody: 10:31am On Jul 26, 2014
stormybucci: sharappp!!!dere!! every1 has his/her own view 2 things

Lol grin

You are the kinda guy who would want his lady to live under his shadow.

Chauvinist pig grin
Re: LADIES; 5 Things You Should Never Do For A Man Even When In Love! by stormybucci(m): 10:45am On Jul 26, 2014
kovak:

Lol grin

You are the kinda guy who would want his lady to live under his shadow.

Chauvinist pig grin
u know nothing abt me so don't make cretinous assumptions nd i knw am far better than u when it comes 2 relationships

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Re: LADIES; 5 Things You Should Never Do For A Man Even When In Love! by Bootybuttchic(f): 10:53am On Jul 26, 2014
passwords for both men and women ....deres a reason its personal .....except ur willing to share sha.but it shldnt be tru force
Re: LADIES; 5 Things You Should Never Do For A Man Even When In Love! by Nobody: 11:03am On Jul 26, 2014
stormybucci: u know nothing abt me so don't make cretinous assumptions nd i knw am far better than u when it comes 2 relationships

You're So funny man grin

You'll do well if you do a collabo with basket mouth grin
Re: LADIES; 5 Things You Should Never Do For A Man Even When In Love! by stormybucci(m): 11:05am On Jul 26, 2014
kovak:

You're So funny man grin

You'll do well if you do a collabo with basket mouth grin
if u say so... gracias
Re: LADIES; 5 Things You Should Never Do For A Man Even When In Love! by DahtDopeBoi(m): 11:29am On Jul 26, 2014
stormybucci: u know nothing abt me so don't make cretinous assumptions nd i knw am far better than u when it comes 2 relationships
Relationship don turn competition grin
Re: LADIES; 5 Things You Should Never Do For A Man Even When In Love! by 30card(m): 12:13pm On Jul 26, 2014
Ceasar1: The same goes for my guys but most importantly - Let your brain always do the thinking.
how far sexkillz its been a long long time
Re: LADIES; 5 Things You Should Never Do For A Man Even When In Love! by Nobody: 12:22pm On Jul 26, 2014
30card: how far sexkillz its been a long long time
undecided Wrong number.
Re: LADIES; 5 Things You Should Never Do For A Man Even When In Love! by Nobody: 4:39pm On Jul 26, 2014
Very true,I know one live-in lovers back in school,when the guy graduated,the stupid girl left with him,without graduating,cos she has extra. Now,I heard the guy has dumped the f00l..her decision still baffles me till today.
Re: LADIES; 5 Things You Should Never Do For A Man Even When In Love! by iammodel(m): 7:15pm On Jul 26, 2014

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