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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by parasshivhare(m): 2:33am On Sep 04, 2017 |
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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Escape101: 8:51am On Sep 06, 2017 |
okay let's go on this issue please this message is for every guy who's an introvert in the room, Nigga being an introvert doesn't and shouldn't make you feel bad because most times its caused by nature not just your psychological state. sometimes nature has it that at our early stage as a guy walking up to the ladies and expressing on feelings seems very cumbersome and most times the thought alone makes us breathe fast than usual but I will help you all escape the world of introverts kings as I did with the following tips. Talking to a lady is a pretty cumbersome thing to do or even imaging especially when you sit next to her in a bus probably ,on a desk or even when she's few distance from you either in a club, restaurant,. Yeah i know some see it a big task because while trying to figure out what to start the conversation with they feel sudden increase in their heart beat. While some the main thing keeping them off it is just how to keep the conversation flowing after the first escaped successfully but i will ride you guys away from such feelings because i once encountered it while in my Teen period before i took a huge but simple step. While in my 17s and late 19s whenever i did try approaching a girl my heart pumps not just blood but like all my muscles down my stomach as i did think those days, i know some of you guys feel same way as i did, but the good news is that we will bypass that heavy tensions in our hearts after reading this artlicle. I know some of us has lost some of the girls we did love to have been with in High school,college and outside world. Let's go crush these negative feelings punching our mind for some time now, how to start up and maintain a nice and entertaining conversation even you will love never to end depends on just two things which i will discuss so that you will start winning opportunities each time you feel like doing so. The following factors will get you surprised because you've neglected them for sometime now. The first step is called "what's she like? Step This step is a very important step not to neglect because the success of your conversation and the free flow all lies here. Some may ask why is it so? It is so because a lady's mood probably depends on what she wants to discuss and whom she wants to talk to at that particular time. What's she like has to do with her physical appearance like Moody, happy, calm,relaxed etc. If a lady is relax while in a bus you will probably see her looking out the window sides or even playing music but if she looks stressed out you can also know how to pick a conversation with my dear. Read this example below and understand how looks helps in choosing initial conversation topic..... Me: hey dear,you looking stressed out can you please light up your cute face please........ Girl: (smiles), oka. thank Me: click the link to read the next step and comment your after reading if you have questions to ask..... link: https:///stats/post/20/myrelationshipdoctor. 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 8:44pm On Sep 07, 2017 |
Maybe we need a Mod to clean up this thread. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 12:45am On Sep 09, 2017 |
Ray1251: Shyness can be overcome. Shyness usually occur in childhood for two reasons; fear and low self esteem. I said it earlier, self-confidence and self-love answers it all. Being an introvert is another thing which I believe is cool. A recent study shows that introverts may be the best public speakers and motivators because they think things through thoroughly thereby avoiding rash decisions. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by charley94: 3:57pm On Sep 10, 2017 |
please guys I need your advice, any suggestions on how to overcome shyness towards approaching ladies. Am 23 done with school and currently working but I have never had a girlfriend.As much as I tell myself that having one is not my priority now. It's just doesn't feel right that i have never been able to ask any lady out 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Tigris007: 9:31am On Sep 12, 2017 |
Quintee: You'll be surprised how I found this...late though but truth resonates till the end of time. Let those words on your picture upload continue to be your shining guide....you'll never miss your way...permit me to say I love you... God bless you. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by rizingmoney(f): 12:05pm On Sep 13, 2017 |
corisande:well dear, i used to fink am d only one but here u are. Where are u now? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by corisande: 12:16pm On Sep 13, 2017 |
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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by rizingmoney(f): 11:25pm On Sep 13, 2017 |
corisande:alright, do u stay alone or with parents? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Windflower(f): 7:09pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Waow,just came across this thread,It's feels like home already. Am an introvert and i don't know if ones upbringing can cause one to be an introvert but for me,I guess it did. I was raised by very strict parent who instilled both fear along side morals. To the extent that now am grown up,but I can't bring myself to doing anything immoral cos its feels like I still see my dad telling me not to. The belief is that introvert and shyness are two different social phenomenon, which I believe is true because now have learnt to do away with shyness. I am still reserved but can easily get into conversation and flow when need be 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Windflower(f): 7:24pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
charley94:In my opinion, I believe there is no other way to overcome shyness other than increasing your self esteem. I used to be shy especially when walking and people keeps staring,another factor was that I wasn't tall,thinking that people would always look down on me because of this. Well,this was true but then I can't allow my height define my life,so I had to snap out of the low self esteem mentality. Now,when I walk,I do it with pride,I gave myself a high dosage of self esteem, what people think about me isn't my problem,my concern is how I see myself. Nobody can take away your shyness,you have got to fight it yourself,dare yourself to ask a lady out on a date,the worst she can do is to reject the offer. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 7:32pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
charley94: https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only Hopefully, this might help you Cc HARDDON 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Estellar: 8:19pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Estellar: 8:27pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Just came across this thread..... feels good to know I'm not d only introvert on here |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by iamnlia(m): 9:03pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Windflower:This think still worries me, I'll see someone I want to meet and form a good icebreaker but I'll just procastinate. Although If I learn something like palm reading, I'm gon be starting convos like a boss |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Windflower(f): 9:40pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
iamnlia:That's the problem,you don't have to worry about anything, everything has to do with our mindset.Next time do not procrastinate,always challenge yourself to dare something you haven't done before. Now, am trying not to be too withdrawn from people,today I was really playful at work that people were surprised. I guess we just have to learn to adjust our introverted nature so people don't see us as alien. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by iamnlia(m): 9:59pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Windflower:That's good, I try to be interactive at times but my reasoning pattern will just differ. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 10:08pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Hmmm.
Palm reading, let me check it out. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Chrisx1x(m): 1:22pm On Sep 15, 2017 |
iamnlia:thats a summary of me.i never knew someone with similar personality existed. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by sweet7oyin(m): 3:34pm On Sep 15, 2017 |
Jackossky:After reading the first line ...dnt worry ur not |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by sweet7oyin(m): 3:42pm On Sep 15, 2017 |
Guys pls i wanna ask.... Is it like a normal tin for introverts to marry real late.....cause the introverts i know marry real late...not necessarily because dey r shy...i dont know sha... |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by bamidek(m): 4:56pm On Sep 15, 2017 |
ariklawani:Do have any prove for this pls...introvert born in October and November.. Although I am introvert and born in Nov |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ericca: 4:26am On Sep 16, 2017 |
I'd like to believe that I'm more on an ambivert. Sometimes, I hate large groups. Sometimes, I love parties. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by sweet7oyin(m): 5:08am On Sep 16, 2017 |
ariklawani:am an introvert and born in july |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Epano: 4:23pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
Extro/intro versy is set on a continuum ( i.e a bar) no one is completely 2 d extreme of extro or intro and no one is exactly at d center of the 2 personalities. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 6:06pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
Epano: Are you saying you don't agree with the ambivert concept? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 6:09pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
Happy Weekend everybody! 7 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 4:35pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Coming very soon is list of books every Introvert must read. "Quiet" definitely number one...... |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ariklawani(f): 6:39pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
[quote author=sweet7oyin post=60506019]am an introvert and born in july[/quoteOk. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Aieboocaar(m): 3:01pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
Jackossky: *Picks the mic*...... Brotherly!!! Everything you wrote up dere describe my personality, with just 1 little difference....I am a bloodly chronic Stammerer mehn!!! I choose to call myself an Extroverted inteovert!!! I can be very lively and funny atyms o but, Na my condition make me turn introvert!! cos its soo much pain using 2mins to complete a simple statement tht will take just 30sec to complete in public. *Drops mic & takes a seat* 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 12:42am On Sep 20, 2017 |
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