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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 6:01pm On May 23, 2016 |
Hey Introverts! Lets try and share daily challenges as an introvert and possible way to overcome such problems. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 6:17pm On May 23, 2016 |
@ LUCAS99 There is no need trying to change your personality as an introvert because its inborn. What you need is to eradicate any iota of shy ness from your behavior. On conversing with people, you have to challenge your self and see public speaking as an achievement. Learn how to talk with small group of people comfortably and move to a large. Personally i think your type of job suppose to make things easier. Read "Quiet by susan cain" for more information on public speaking. About dating, i have little advice here, just try and be natural and charming. Try and understand the mechanism behind green light given by ladies capitalize on it. On blue balls,masturbation is not the escape root. Try and distract your self with some productive activities. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Tirexy(m): 7:16pm On May 23, 2016 |
Hey buddies, I seem to be in the same party with you all. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Sard(m): 8:02pm On May 23, 2016 |
Olarewajub:The thread is dying already. Let's share opinions views and challenges. We need to keep a rare thread like this alive. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by whitecloth: 12:31am On May 24, 2016 |
Tirexy:On behalf of olarewajub and bidexlux the board of trustee Association of shy people, I welcome you sir. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 1:32am On May 24, 2016 |
Hey! How do you guys handle eye contact? In today's world, one is expected to maintain eye contact when being talked to and this may seem to be a demanding task for introverts . For the guys, most ladies will see you to be weak if you are unable to maintain eye contact with them . How do you guys go about this? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 1:33am On May 24, 2016 |
Sard:My thought exactly. Don't hesitate to a challenge or advice. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 1:05pm On May 24, 2016 |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by benELOHIM7(m): 11:41am On May 25, 2016 |
You guys are hell of egocentrics. All I see is I, I and I. my mum, some days ago said that she could count the number of words that I spoke daily. I am an extreme introvert. For 2months I have been indoors save for yesterday that I was forced to get groceries for myself down the street because my siblings were not around. I wear glasses which makes my case worse as you'd readily take me for a psycho at first approach. I barely engage in cheap talks. I am excessively self-absorbed, slow but quite intelligent. A lecturer, in my undergraduate days, took me for stupid and would always taunt me in class at every instance. I returned the gesture by smashing her course so well that she personally apologized to me. In the long run, being an introvert has caused me troubles but it has saved me a whole lot more. This thread is home to me. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by benELOHIM7(m): 12:17pm On May 25, 2016 |
You nailed it. I was always playful and people stopped taking me serious. Wow pappyrose: |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by whitecloth: 10:21pm On May 25, 2016 |
benELOHIM7:I will like to know you. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by RICKYMARIO(m): 8:27am On May 26, 2016 |
Olarewajub:Its a very serious issue o, infact i'm still battling with mine. Often times whenever i meet someone for the 1st time, i'm unable to look them straight in the face, The consequence is that if our meeting is very brief, that means i might be unable to recognise him/ her the next time we meet. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Myhonor(f): 11:12am On May 26, 2016 |
I used to admire introverts and I dated one but d problem with him is dat he is just too plain.. Sometimes he gets angry for no reason and just wants to be alone... I asked him if I got pregnant for him wat was he gonna do.. But he said he was gonna deny it since we're both students... anytime am very angry wen we're talking on phone, all he does is keep quiet while I talk den I'll ask if he is still there and his response will be yes or OK...he loves sleeping alot.. Loves reading novels.. he is also intelligent.. Prefare being indoors... ppl mistake him for a snub but he isn't.. he told him am expecting too much from him dat he is scared of disappointing me.. asked him if he has future plans for me he said he hasn't tot about such things b4...m thinking of breaking up with him bcus I feel he isn't ready to be in a relationship.. . I know he loves me and I love him too but he is just weird sometimes 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by 1b8m: 1:45pm On May 26, 2016 |
well, lets give it a try. i am Ben-elohim whitecloth: |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by 1b8m: 2:06pm On May 26, 2016 |
Well, introversion isn't cool as it can limit one's potential if not carefully managed. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by 1b8m: 2:07pm On May 26, 2016 |
i relate to this completely. and how many times were you told "why you dey hide yourself". Well, introversion isn't cool as it can limit one's potential if not carefully managed. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by whitecloth: 3:21pm On May 26, 2016 |
1b8m:What a awesome biblical name you have there, am henry by name from Ondo state. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by 1b8m: 3:25pm On May 26, 2016 |
thank you henry. i am promise from ph whitecloth: |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by whitecloth: 4:59pm On May 26, 2016 |
1b8m:OK, am a graduate, a physicist by profession, just finish serving in Anambra. You? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by 1b8m: 5:05pm On May 26, 2016 |
i studied chemical/petrochemical engineering. awaiting service whitecloth: |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Bidexluv(f): 7:43pm On May 26, 2016 |
Olarewajub:thanks |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Bidexluv(f): 7:45pm On May 26, 2016 |
Olarewajub:me I don't make eye contact oooooo. I am always pressing my phone or writing or just doing something to avoid eye contact. sometimes if I do make eye contact, it last a second to two. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Bidexluv(f): 7:55pm On May 26, 2016 |
Tirexy:welcome home brother. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by whitecloth: 8:23pm On May 26, 2016 |
1b8m:Am nearly 6 feet tall, dark and slender, I love reading especially books in the line of Dan brown, but these day I hardly read, I use much of my time researching on agriculture and the way forward, myself is going for a training, my passion for agric is growing day by day. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by 1b8m: 9:20pm On May 26, 2016 |
good to know you are prospective, keep it up whitecloth: |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 8:11am On May 27, 2016 |
Happy weekend to y'all |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 8:26am On May 27, 2016 |
Wow thanks to the Mod of this section. This thread has now been stick to the Front page of the Family section. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 8:40am On May 27, 2016 |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by bukiii(f): 8:48am On May 27, 2016 |
uhm nice thread am here to meet my fellow introvert,guess what my own is extreme sometimes I get tired of myself.I have stayed at home for more than two months without making contact with friends.some people see me as saddist,being proud.I only talk when am with close friends and relatives. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by DrayZee: 5:07pm On May 27, 2016 |
Myhonor:Wow... Mistaking us for snubs... Always happens |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by 1b8m: 5:39pm On May 27, 2016 |
guys do you, most times dont feel people's emotion because you are engulfed in your own delusional fear? for instance, we had a family friend who recently lost his wife and kid visiting the other day, i bumped into him and got all tongue-tied. at that moment, i wasnt thinking abt him but myself. i am starting to feel guilty abt it. does it happen to anyone here? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 6:17pm On May 27, 2016 |
bukiii: Its a known fact that Introverts do not like to keep contact with a lot of persons except close pals. So your attitude is quite normal for an introvert. Never feel sorry for your self because your unable to connect with every body, it's just exhausting. Anybody way you can try the Hi with those around you and just try to be humble in your owners way. Got plans for the weekend? |
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