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Re: Pls Help Before My Sister Kills Me. by ferhyntorlah(f): 10:39am On Aug 07, 2014 |
cbrass: Most comments here are good except a comment from one silly female here, anyway @ Op what I think you should do is send her back to your parents, she has dicovered your weakness hence she is using it against you, even though my father gave birth to me he still tells me where ever he is going to, its just for security reasons, Godforbid some thing evil happens they will still blame you!Thank you very much. My dad and mom do tell me where they are going to. |
Re: Pls Help Before My Sister Kills Me. by ferhyntorlah(f): 11:04am On Aug 07, 2014 |
aisha2: What nonsense. If she doesn't want to be "Policed" let her get her own house. If you live with ANYONE older or younger you respect each other and account for your movement. Its common sense. Silly girl Yeah Aisha, very silly girl. Imagine the effrontery. For those siding the sister as per her age (27), I don't care if she's 31. So long she decided to stay with her elder brother, she has got to show him RESPECT in his apartment. The part that irked me is the complete consumption of the meal prepared by him without leaving some for him to eat given the fact he prepared it himself with his money. How callous is that? If the poster is over doing it, can't she have an intimate talk with him and bear out her mind. Then they reach an agreement, which they will both keep to. Instead she chose insult him "internally" and "externally". Poster, next time she displays her silly attitude and repeats that overused statement "is it because I'm living in your house? If you want me to leave, say so", tell her "if you want to LEAVE, you are free to go BUT if you want to continue staying here, you have to abide by my rules." Don't say more than that. Keep quiet and let her demonstrate all the silliness in her. Do not be moved and if your parents want to make you change your mind, please STAND YOUR GROUND for once in your life! The earlier they know you won't tolerate some nonsenses, the better for you. 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Help Before My Sister Kills Me. by cbrass(m): 11:24am On Aug 07, 2014 |
ferhyntorlah: Thank you very much. My dad and mom do tell me where they are going to. You are welcome |
Re: Pls Help Before My Sister Kills Me. by uzoexcel(m): 9:01pm On Aug 07, 2014 |
brilliant response Onegai: She is too old to be policed (but I'm older and my family police me to death sha). So here's what to do. Tell her that if she wants to be an adult, she should: |
Re: Pls Help Before My Sister Kills Me. by Deputyvictor(m): 10:51pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
Crackhaus U've said it all, she needs independent fine, she have to do dat with her own money, thanks to Almighty God she is working, let her go and get herself an apartment with her own money, infact she is not the type of a girl/lady dat lives with a responsible man under same roof. |
Re: Pls Help Before My Sister Kills Me. by Bibol(f): 7:15am On Apr 22, 2015 |
I'm still yet to see why all these reasons will make you 'tired of this world'. Who pays the bills? Whoever does that calls the shots. Firmly state your rules and if she is not ready to abide by them, report her to your folks or insist she gets a place of her own Your kid sister shouldn't make you sound suicidal |
Re: Pls Help Before My Sister Kills Me. by crackhaus: 2:03pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
Deputyvictor:You're right bro. |
Re: Pls Help Before My Sister Kills Me. by chadnezzar0worl(m): 11:54am On Apr 23, 2015 |
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Re: Pls Help Before My Sister Kills Me. by crackhaus: 2:02pm On Apr 23, 2015 |
^^^ Just like that? |
Re: Pls Help Before My Sister Kills Me. by Olamidebright: 3:57pm On Oct 01, 2015 |
Mr op in your story i can see how you love and care for your sister(thanks to you for doing that) but she is not a kid anymore let her make is own dicision and forget about what you are doing for her she is your sister you can even do more than that for her if you get the power to do so,stop treating are like a kid even if you want to correct her there should be a way you will correct her, if someone want to catch a monkey he/she we do like a monkey don't misqoute me,call her, please her, talk to her like a responsible man, stand like a man and show are more love. let her know how much you love her as your little blood sister all this is for a main time and i know that she too know the right thing even if you want to separate with her not this moment it can cause another problem now or in the future,invite your mother to your house let are talk her and if you want to talk to her let your word be always intresting, the word that will make her think, make jokes with her go out with her if you are less busy and don't let are ves with you also pray for her. |
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