cbrass: @enoquin this your epistle too long nw, and you ended up saying nothing...*dosed of at the second paragraphy*

MizMyColi: OP must be an ENFJ or one in the FJ category.


Due to his altruism and sensitivity, He likely struggles with decisions involving hard choices. He may be wavering between different options, unable to stop thinking about all the possible consequences.




[s]SackThe Young Lady Already Joor.[/s] She needs to give you space. You seem to be living your life for her

5minsmadness:
The bolded describes me perfectly.
Pls what does ENFJ mean?

MizMyColi:


An ENFJ prefers:
E - Extroversion to Introversion
N - iNtuition to Sensing
F - Feeling to Thinking
J - Judging to Perceiving

STRENGTHS
ENFJs are natural-born leaders, full of passion and charisma. Forming around two percent of the population, they are oftentimes our politicians, our coaches and our teachers, reaching out and inspiring others to achieve and to do good in the world. With a natural confidence that begets influence, ENFJs take a great deal of pride and joy in guiding others to work together to improve themselves and their community.

ENFJPeople are drawn to strong personalities, and ENFJs radiate authenticity, concern and altruism, unafraid to stand up and speak when they feel something needs to be said. They find it natural and easy to communicate with others, especially in person, and their Intuitive (N) trait helps ENFJs to reach every mind, be it through facts and logic or raw emotion. ENFJs easily see people’s motivations and seemingly disconnected events, and are able to bring these ideas together and communicate them as a common goal with an eloquence that is nothing short of mesmerizing.

The interest ENFJs have in others is genuine, almost to a fault – when they believe in someone, they can become too involved in the other person’s problems, place too much trust in them. Luckily, this trust tends to be a self-fulfilling prophesy, as ENFJs’ altruism and authenticity inspire those they care about to become better themselves. But if they aren’t careful, they can overextend their optimism, sometimes pushing others further than they’re ready or willing to go.

ENFJs are genuine, caring people who talk the talk and walk the walk, and nothing makes them happier than leading the charge, uniting and motivating their team with infectious enthusiasm. ENFJs are passionate altruists, sometimes even to a fault, and they are unlikely to be afraid to take the slings and arrows while standing up for the people and ideas they believe in. It is no wonder that many famous ENFJs are US Presidents – this personality type wants to lead the way to a brighter future.

Read more @ http://www.16personalities.com/enfj-strengths-and-weaknesses

5minsmadness:

No wonder...

ENFJ men are very rare, though unverified, they make up about 2.2% or less of our population

MizMyColi: ENFJ men are very rare, though unverified, they make up about 2.2% or less of our population

bellong:

Thank you. Now I understand myself better.

Glad I could help

MizMyColi: Glad I could help

crackhaus:
I read your first comment and was about quoting it when I saw this.

Girl, you're soft-pedalling on this issue. Does his sister look like someone who deserves any more favours, talk more renting an apartment on her behalf?

@OP, your parents are not dead.. send their daughter back to them, you can keep sending money for her upkeep if that's the problem.

seankay: Yes your policing her bro.She's 27 and she believes she's matured enough to live her life the way she wants without being corrected by her talkative and su brother and I won't totally disagree with her

Unique3:
OK, very true that she's mature (supposedly), to live her life the way she pleases, she doesn't need policing from her 'talkative and su brother',,,, so after all this, what is she still doing living off him? I would expect that she should go get her own space if she feels too big to be corrected.

johnwizey: Your sister @ 27, she no get boyfriend ni. Just give her t.fare, she will find her way home

seankay:
She might not be financially buoyant enough