12 Points For Wives To Note
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1. The wife that wins all arguments with her husband is not wise. The home is not a law court.

2. The wife that uses sex as a weapon in the home - placing embargo, going to bed in jeans shorts and trousers - lacks wisdom.

3. The wife that uses the modern trends and laws of "women's rights" to insult or ridicule her husband simply makes a fool of herself.

4. A woman that makes her home devoid of peace through bickering, nagging and quarrels needs help.
A man should be eager to run away from office to be at home, for that should be the safest and coziest place on earth for him.

5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not mean competition. It simply means partnership. Taking advantage of such equality to turn around and become the de facto head of the home and oppress the man is tantamount to playing with fire. If you
destroy your home, soon you will be the boss of an empty home.

6. A wise wife makes the man feel so good that he assumes that he is the head. Once he gets that feeling, the woman gently wields her power and the head actually turns to wherever the neck wants without a protest.

7. A wife that does not pull herself away from friends' influence and advice or even from the control of her mother and father will have herself to blame.

8. When a man is looking for a wife, he bypasses women of different shapes and sizes to choose a wife. But soon after childbirth, many women hide under the excuse of childbirth to let go of themselves.

Many stop bothering about their looks, shape, dressing, etc. Within 5 years of marriage, people start wondering if the wife is the man's aunt, even though she is 7 years. younger. Her defence is that if he truly loves her, he should love her the way she is.

But when looking for a wife, he saw people like the present YOU and ignored them and settled for the former YOU. Today, you go to bed smelling of onions and ogiri. You go to bed wearing grandmothers' clothes. Why are you playing with your marriage? Love is not about looks - we know. But looks enhance love and marriage. There is a difference between someone disfiguring herself and the person being disfigured by an accident. Please don't be complacent. As hard as it may be, work on looking like you were when he first saw you and began the chase.

9. If every night you are tired, sleepy, sore, down with headache or fever, "not in the mood," you are a joker, a serious comedian!

10. If your children suddenly become more important to you than your husband, you need prayers.

11. If you assume that as the woman, only you need to be pampered and fussed over while the man is a stone that has no emotions, you need to be pitied.

12. A woman that has the mind of a wife does not excite her husband. Wives are usually complacent and presumptuous. A wife must strive to have the mind of a girlfriend. A girlfriend is always nicer, sweeter, more loving and always thinking of ways to wow her sweetheart; a girlfriend does not try to win all arguments, does not call the man a "useless man", is not careless about her looks or dressing, always smiles and laughs with the man, sends the man sweet messages and calls, etc.
Are you your husband's girlfriend in word and in deed?

Now That you have read this, please SHARE to educate others.
They need to read it too, don't be selfish.

Ok. I am sure you will be accused of being less than a caveman by the objects of your advice.

Do you not know that some women are super-intelligent, rich, famous and powerful to the point that any husband that does not follow their wishes will get kicked out?

What do you have to say to these uber-independent glamazons? Should they play the rule of the obedient and dutiful wives to their husbands? Is your advice beneath such high society?

I just cannot help asking questions as you can see.

What about the responsibilities of the husband?

TheBigUrban2: What about the responsibilities of the husband?

Feel free to write that.

TheBigUrban2: What about the responsibilities of the husband?

I will soon post them

maclatunji: Ok. I am sure you will be accused of being less than a caveman by the objects of your advice.

Do you not know that some women are super-intelligent, rich, famous and powerful to the point that any husband that does not follow their wishes will get kicked out?

What do you have to say to these uber-independent glamazons? Should they play the rule of the obedient and dutiful wives to their husbands? Is your advice beneath such high society?

I just cannot help asking questions as you can see.

Such women have exceptional husbands, they do NOT bully and eventually kick out

what is with all these sexist posts this weekend? na wa o

Stale... Try and be creative pleaseeeeee.

12 Points For Husbands To Note

1. The husband that wins all arguments with his
wife is not wise either, the home is not a tyrant's
kingdom.

2. The husband that uses sex as a means of
punishment lacks wisdom.

3. The husband who emotionally blackmail his
educated wife so that she doesnt progress in her
career is a sellfish fool.

4. A man who never takes responsibility when he
is wrong needs help.
He always waits for the wife to apologize & never
initiates reconciliation. He walks into the house
haughty & ignores the wife while he jokes with
every other person making her to feel invisible &
not wanted.

5. Most men don't do partnership in marriage.
They are control freaks. Some even hate the
woman thinking & making decisions regarding her
career even when his opinion is strongly sort. Its
bad.

6. Even if she practically worships the ground he
walks on, a man will still protest to the tiny little
things she may request. Stingy.

7. A woman may even go against her whole
family to be married to the man she loves, but
the slightest opportunity he gets he wouldnot
hesistate to betray her. Thats not good at all.

8. Within 5yrs of marriage even the man will not
look the same as he was prior to marriage. He
does nothing to shed the evolving pot belly. He
goes to the bed in that same skin( sweaty &
sticky) he spent the whole day with without
bathing again & & then shamelessly approaches
you for some intimacy with his mouth smelling of
garlic.

9. If every night he is "in the mood" despite all
that you go through from the moment the alarm
sounds, he must be a joker, a terrible comedian.
10. If his phone suddenly becomes more
important than you, be rest assured he is upto
something fishy, dont be silly wake up !
11. On the contrary, the man is the one who
behaves like a child. when he has so much free
time , he will use it to destroy your relationship.
Bad idea.

12. Indeed, while he does nothing to wow you
back. He doesn't even dress at least once a
month just for you. She is the only one who
needs to be creative to keep him while he sits
back & enjoy all the booty & does nothing to
keep you coz he is the last man alive abi? Let the
girlfriend come into the house & lets see if she
remains as girly as she is proclaimed to be now !

carefreewannabe:

Such women have exceptional husbands, they do NOT bully and eventually kick out

I need proof of this assertion. How do you define exceptional? Is it when he wears a long cape, tight pants and probably a mask?

All of you are clowns!

**yawns**