Bootybuttchic: kanwulia most times u talk.....but i think you lack intelligence ...no offence intended!

Raymondenyi:
This is d kind of mentaality, dat has kept us where we are as a nation; citizens dat dia sense of judgement and logical reasoning hs been flawed by stupid n baseless religious sentiments, where youths cannot come out to clamour n reach 4 d change dey need, buh will rather coward in dia closet "Praying" .. I really see no hope ( "why freedom is a gift 4rm God it must be secured by men" - obama)
Also to think both of u are women n offering dis preposterous advice; to a fellow lady; n later expect a man; or will want a man to respect U in a home? If u don't think respect in a marriage should be mutual, if u don't think a woman also has a take in how a marriage should be, if u see a marriage as solely been centered on d man, while d woman swallows everything n conforms 2 anything; just to still stay put... In dis exposed age, where most women re very educated n independent (Alakija's,Iweala's)...
If those re ur reasoning; in dis current age n time; den in all honesty, I think u are a total disgrace to womanhood; U should go and ask ur God 4 forgiveness..
(Repulsive comments everywhere)

Raymondenyi:
This is d kind of mentaality, dat has kept us where we are as a nation; citizens dat dia sense of judgement and logical reasoning hs been flawed by stupid n baseless religious sentiments, where youths cannot come out to clamour n reach 4 d change dey need, buh will rather coward in dia closet "Praying" .. I really see no hope ( "why freedom is a gift 4rm God it must be secured by men" - obama)
Also to think both of u are women n offering dis preposterous advice; to a fellow lady; n later expect a man; or will want a man to respect U in a home? If u don't think respect in a marriage should be mutual, if u don't think a woman also has a take in how a marriage should be, if u see a marriage as solely been centered on d man, while d woman swallows everything n conforms 2 anything; just to still stay put... In dis exposed age, where most women re very educated n independent (Alakija's,Iweala's)...
If those re ur reasoning; in dis current age n time; den in all honesty, I think u are a total disgrace to womanhood; U should go and ask ur God 4 forgiveness..
(Repulsive comments everywhere)

Yomieluv: Here comes another pity party.

He has all the symptoms he's showing now during courtship,only you were too blinded to notice it..

I don't pity any married couple,cos they deserve whatever spouse they get,afterall bird of feathers they say flock together.

Get use to him.

ephee:

Seprate from him for now and leave wit ur son to an unknown destination till he comes bak to his senses

Dreal1247: .
If you know the level of negetive effects of polygamy and training a child outside marriage, you wont make this statement of yours. Besides, i didnt see where her life was endangered which is the only case that gives soon for divorce. No price paid to bring up your own child in your best possible way is too much. Remember there is room for improvement and the devil you know is better than the angel you dont know.

Dreal1247: .
Many women are out there waiting to take over. Wait, the issue will surely be over.

Godmystrength: If any spouse is cheating (assuming the man is cheating on her), he/she is endangering the life of the other. So a cheating spouse is A DANGER to his/her FAMILY....
I wish those cheating men also know the bolded.
Living with HIV/AIDS, GENITAL HERPES ETC IMO is a price too much to pay because you want to stay in a marriage and train your child there.
and i bet you that when a woman dies in such, many woman will still take over. Why will i be getting scared that another woman is taking over the shit i abandon? Nothing but to wish her LUCK because she's gonna need it.

Why do people even need to keep knowing the devil.

Sophyrocks:
Nice one dear. Keep it up. Following your comments.

ephee:

Seprate from him for now and leave wit ur son to an unknown destination till he comes bak to his senses

Dreal1247: .
If you know the level of negetive effects of polygamy and training a child outside marriage, you wont make this statement of yours. Besides, i didnt see where her life was endangered which is the only case that gives soon for divorce. No price paid to bring up your own child in your best possible way is too much. Remember there is room for improvement and the devil you know is better than the angel you dont know.

munarule: Hello wonderful people, pls I seriously need your advise. I married this man last 4yrs and God bless us with a son who is 3yrs old. Before the wedding,he was doing everything to win my heart and was also claiming to be born again by calling me every night to pray for me. Am a kind of romantic person so i allowed him to hv sex with me to know his skills on bed. I was sure that he can satisfy me on bed before I accepted his proposal cos hv vow never to allow another man hv sex with me once am married. The problem started since the day he paid my bride price,he want me to be treating him like king while he treat me like slave(though he's 11yrs older than me). He doesn't appreciate me anymore and the most annoying part of it is that he's now claiming single on fb,proposing marriage to different ladies. I no longer see him as friend and confidant,he now make love to me twice or thrice a month. am just 28 and I need to enjoy marriage. Am dying silently pls tell me what to do and pls dnt tell me to go and report him to our pastor cos hv done that several times. God bless you

Saraha1: You people should stop posting scaring marriage issue here . Are you scaring us from getting married? Ha- ha, every time husband this my husband that does it mean that the women are saint?

You people should stop making it look as if men are the devil, while in actual fact is we the woman that start the trouble




I rest my case.

Mintayo:
Wow,i am impressed this is coming from a woman,most ladies,especially the proud ones,lol,won't agree with you.
Marriage is lovely,there is nothing to be scared of,the problem is not marriage itself,the real problem is the individuals involve!
In the case of this thread,i will blame the Op. The signals were there,yet she ignored them,now she is paying the price!
I am totally against divorce,no matter,i have seen and heard worse that can happen in a marriage,and i don't see divorce as an option! I pray God will have mercy on the Op and her family and gives her the wisdom needed to do the right thing and overcome this 'trying and testing' time!

Saraha1: You people should stop posting scaring marriage issue here . Are you scaring us from getting married? Ha- ha, every time husband this my husband that does it mean that the women are saint?

You people should stop making it look as if men are the devil, while in actual fact is we the woman that start the trouble




I rest my case.

Raymondenyi:
This is d kind of mentaality, dat has kept us where we are as a nation; citizens dat dia sense of judgement and logical reasoning hs been flawed by stupid n baseless religious sentiments, where youths cannot come out to clamour n reach 4 d change dey need, buh will rather coward in dia closet "Praying" .. I really see no hope ( "why freedom is a gift 4rm God it must be secured by men" - obama)
Also to think both of u are women n offering dis preposterous advice; to a fellow lady; n later expect a man; or will want a man to respect U in a home? If u don't think respect in a marriage should be mutual, if u don't think a woman also has a take in how a marriage should be, if u see a marriage as solely been centered on d man, while d woman swallows everything n conforms 2 anything; just to still stay put... In dis exposed age, where most women re very educated n independent (Alakija's,Iweala's)...
If those re ur reasoning; in dis current age n time; den in all honesty, I think u are a total disgrace to womanhood; U should go and ask ur God 4 forgiveness..
(Repulsive comments everywhere)

Saraha1: You people should stop posting scaring marriage issue here . Are you scaring us from getting married? Ha- ha, every time husband this my husband that does it mean that the women are saint?

You people should stop making it look as if men are the devil, while in actual fact is we the woman that start the trouble




I rest my case.

bukatyne:

Are you married?

Not saying women are saints though

beeevan: I wonder what the advise would have been if a man created this thread complaining of his wife littering pics of her privates online. Man of the house is splashing the picture of his pen*is all over net and these bunch of hypocrites are still yarning pray, love, bla bla bla...


OP diarisss AIDsooooo...

beeevan: I wonder what the advise would have been if a man created this thread complaining of his wife littering pics of her privates online. [b]Man of the house is splashing the picture of his pen*is all over net [/b]and these bunch of hypocrites are still yarning pray, love, bla bla bla...
OP diarisss AIDsooooo...

Mynd44:
Don't mind them. "pray and be submissive".

No wonder men ride over them and treat them like sub-humans

1stCitizen:



Marriage is for women the commonest mode of livelihood, and the total amount of undesired s3x endured by women is probably greater in marriage than prostitution............Bertrand Russell

beeevan: I wonder what the advise would have been if a man created this thread complaining of his wife littering pics of her privates online. Man of the house is splashing the picture of his pen*is all over net and these bunch of hypocrites are still yarning pray, love, bla bla bla...


OP diarisss AIDsooooo...

Amhappy: OP You are in for a long ride. I hope you downloaded that his prick picture and transfered to your phone. You need to let him know you saw it in a shocking manner. Send it to him from your account and ask him when he will use it to flog you. I tell ya,he will call to talk.

beeevan: I wonder what the advise would have been if a man created this thread complaining of his wife littering pics of her privates online. Man of the house is splashing the picture of his pen*is all over net and these bunch of hypocrites are still yarning pray, love, bla bla bla...


OP diarisss AIDsooooo...

bellong:
You claim to be a Christian, yet you couldn't identify a godly person? How can a born-again freely had sex with you and you never questioned his godliness and sincerity of faith?

The skills you used to make a born-again brother to have sex with you when single are the same skills you need now to conquer a wandering born-again brother.