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Re: About To Divorce Him, Please I Need Your Advise by SAMBARRY: 11:21am On Aug 06, 2014 |
A wise person once said
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Re: About To Divorce Him, Please I Need Your Advise by Kanwulia: 11:23am On Aug 06, 2014 |
Bootybuttchic: kanwulia most times u talk.....but i think you lack intelligence ...no offence intended! Thank you! Please, set a good example. Let us see the 'valuable data' in your brain. . . .or did they crash with NL during the GREAT DEPRESSION? 3 Likes |
Re: About To Divorce Him, Please I Need Your Advise by Nobody: 11:29am On Aug 06, 2014 |
Raymondenyi:Lovely post coming from a Nigerian Male. 10 Likes |
Re: About To Divorce Him, Please I Need Your Advise by Nobody: 11:32am On Aug 06, 2014 |
Like SAMBARRY would say, I have come to spread my wonderful confy mat with chilled juice and chin chin.#spreading mat# 2 Likes |
Re: About To Divorce Him, Please I Need Your Advise by Dreal1247: 11:36am On Aug 06, 2014 |
Raymondenyi:. If you know the level of negetive effects of polygamy and training a child outside marriage, you wont make this statement of yours. Besides, i didnt see where her life was endangered which is the only case that gives soon for divorce. No price paid to bring up your own child in your best possible way is too much. Remember there is room for improvement and the devil you know is better than the angel you dont know. 3 Likes |
Re: About To Divorce Him, Please I Need Your Advise by Dreal1247: 11:40am On Aug 06, 2014 |
Yomieluv: Here comes another pity party.. I pray you dont marry a deceiving desperate wife. Them you know that there is hell no earth. Some cannot even allow you to divorce them. 2 Likes |
Re: About To Divorce Him, Please I Need Your Advise by Dreal1247: 11:42am On Aug 06, 2014 |
ephee:. Many women are out there waiting to take over. Wait, the issue will surely be over. |
Re: About To Divorce Him, Please I Need Your Advise by Godmystrength: 11:54am On Aug 06, 2014 |
Dreal1247: .If any spouse is cheating (assuming the man is cheating on her), he/she is endangering the life of the other. So a cheating spouse is A DANGER to his/her FAMILY.... I wish those cheating men also know the bolded. Living with HIV/AIDS, GENITAL HERPES ETC IMO is a price too much to pay because you want to stay in a marriage and train your child there. Dreal1247: .and i bet you that when a woman dies in such, many woman will still take over. Why will i be getting scared that another woman is taking over the shit i abandon? Nothing but to wish her LUCK because she's gonna need it. Why do people even need to keep knowing the devil. 18 Likes |
Re: About To Divorce Him, Please I Need Your Advise by Nobody: 12:10pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
Godmystrength: If any spouse is cheating (assuming the man is cheating on her), he/she is endangering the life of the other. So a cheating spouse is A DANGER to his/her FAMILY....Nice one dear. Keep it up. Following your comments. 1 Like |
Re: About To Divorce Him, Please I Need Your Advise by Godmystrength: 12:27pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
Sophyrocks:thank you. 2 Likes |
Re: About To Divorce Him, Please I Need Your Advise by angiemartinez(f): 12:44pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
bad advice ephee: |
Re: About To Divorce Him, Please I Need Your Advise by bellong: 1:13pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
If the foundation is destroyed, what can the righteous do? When there is a problem, there is always the need to visit the past to understand the present and reconstruct the future. You laid a very bad foundation for your marriage which you are reaping the fruits. Sex was your criterion for marrying him, he was good and probably still good but he is tired of getting it from the same source. When young ladies are advised to seek godly counsels and live their life for God, you are termed old fashioned but when the consequences of their actions comes, they run to you when it is too late. You claim to be a Christian, yet you couldn't identify a godly person? How can a born-again freely had sex with you and you never questioned his godliness and sincerity of faith? The skills you used to make a born-again brother to have sex with you when single are the same skills you need now to conquer a wandering born-again brother. The decision to divorce or remain with your husband is yours alone. No one can make it for you but from what you have described about him (if it is true), my advice is that you need to go for a medical examination/tests (especially for STDs) As Soon As Possible. If you are tested negative from all STDs, be wise to protect yourself fully before we read another story that touch. 4 Likes |
Re: About To Divorce Him, Please I Need Your Advise by Nobody: 1:30pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
Dreal1247: . Scare tactics. 11 Likes |
Re: About To Divorce Him, Please I Need Your Advise by Talk2david1(m): 2:58pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
Marriage is for better and for worse,am sure you said this in your vows. Just get down on your knees and pray for things to get better. Divorce is easier said Oo,think of the psychology effects it'll have on your children too. |
Re: About To Divorce Him, Please I Need Your Advise by ElFenomeno1: 3:00pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
munarule: Hello wonderful people, pls I seriously need your advise. I married this man last 4yrs and God bless us with a son who is 3yrs old. Before the wedding,he was doing everything to win my heart and was also claiming to be born again by calling me every night to pray for me. Am a kind of romantic person so i allowed him to hv sex with me to know his skills on bed. I was sure that he can satisfy me on bed before I accepted his proposal cos hv vow never to allow another man hv sex with me once am married. The problem started since the day he paid my bride price,he want me to be treating him like king while he treat me like slave(though he's 11yrs older than me). He doesn't appreciate me anymore and the most annoying part of it is that he's now claiming single on fb,proposing marriage to different ladies. I no longer see him as friend and confidant,he now make love to me twice or thrice a month. am just 28 and I need to enjoy marriage. Am dying silently pls tell me what to do and pls dnt tell me to go and report him to our pastor cos hv done that several times. God bless you God bless you too. |
Re: About To Divorce Him, Please I Need Your Advise by Saraha1(f): 4:17pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
You people should stop posting scaring marriage issue here . Are you scaring us from getting married? Ha- ha, every time husband this my husband that does it mean that the women are saint? You people should stop making it look as if men are the devil, while in actual fact is we the woman that start the trouble I rest my case. 2 Likes |
Re: About To Divorce Him, Please I Need Your Advise by Mintayo(m): 5:10pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
Saraha1: You people should stop posting scaring marriage issue here . Are you scaring us from getting married? Ha- ha, every time husband this my husband that does it mean that the women are saint?Wow,i am impressed this is coming from a woman,most ladies,especially the proud ones,lol,won't agree with you. Marriage is lovely,there is nothing to be scared of,the problem is not marriage itself,the real problem is the individuals involve! In the case of this thread,i will blame the Op. The signals were there,yet she ignored them,now she is paying the price! I am totally against divorce,no matter,i have seen and heard worse that can happen in a marriage,and i don't see divorce as an option! I pray God will have mercy on the Op and her family and gives her the wisdom needed to do the right thing and overcome this 'trying and testing' time! 2 Likes |
Re: About To Divorce Him, Please I Need Your Advise by bukatyne(f): 7:39pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
Sorry, but will ask; what signals were there before marriage? OP said they prayed together et al, only they had sex which they are both to blame. She did not complain of catching him with other women or being uncaring etc before marriage but changed after marriage except you are sayong all men who engage in pre martial sex will be bad husbands which you know it's not true @OP: I woul have said the issue is mild but him posting pictures of his dick to FB friends shows things are happening or about to happen. Find out more about his cheating or not first to help you know how to handle thr situation. If he is not, check yourself to see if you have changed over four years and try to make amends. Also concentrate on getting a job, it would help a lot and keep your mind busy and have less time for reading meaning into every situation. If he is cheating, handle as you like And please note that sex is not romance Mintayo: |
Re: About To Divorce Him, Please I Need Your Advise by bukatyne(f): 7:40pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
Saraha1: You people should stop posting scaring marriage issue here . Are you scaring us from getting married? Ha- ha, every time husband this my husband that does it mean that the women are saint? Are you married? Not saying women are saints though 1 Like |
Re: About To Divorce Him, Please I Need Your Advise by Nobody: 7:50pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
Raymondenyi: And this is coming from a man. There is God. Thank you very much. 1 Like |
Re: About To Divorce Him, Please I Need Your Advise by Nobody: 7:52pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
Saraha1: You people should stop posting scaring marriage issue here . Are you scaring us from getting married? Ha- ha, every time husband this my husband that does it mean that the women are saint? I guess you have never seen the numerous threads created by men who seek advice on the occasion of marital problems. 2 Likes |
Re: About To Divorce Him, Please I Need Your Advise by Saraha1(f): 8:54pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
bukatyne:. No am not married. 1 Like |
Re: About To Divorce Him, Please I Need Your Advise by beeevan: 9:40pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
I wonder what the advise would have been if a man created this thread complaining of his wife littering pics of her privates online. Man of the house is splashing the picture of his pen*is all over net and these bunch of hypocrites are still yarning pray, love, bla bla bla... OP diarisss AIDsooooo... 14 Likes |
Re: About To Divorce Him, Please I Need Your Advise by Mynd44: 9:46pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
beeevan: I wonder what the advise would have been if a man created this thread complaining of his wife littering pics of her privates online. Man of the house is splashing the picture of his pen*is all over net and these bunch of hypocrites are still yarning pray, love, bla bla bla...Don't mind them. "pray and be submissive". No wonder men ride over them and treat them like sub-humans 11 Likes |
Re: About To Divorce Him, Please I Need Your Advise by Nobody: 9:55pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
beeevan: I wonder what the advise would have been if a man created this thread complaining of his wife littering pics of her privates online. [b]Man of the house is splashing the picture of his pen*is all over net [/b]and these bunch of hypocrites are still yarning pray, love, bla bla bla... 3 Likes |
Re: About To Divorce Him, Please I Need Your Advise by beeevan: 10:29pm On Aug 06, 2014 |
Mynd44: It's so pathetic . 2 Likes |
Re: About To Divorce Him, Please I Need Your Advise by Amhappy(f): 12:44am On Aug 07, 2014 |
OP You are in for a long ride. I hope you downloaded that his prick picture and transfered to your phone. You need to let him know you saw it in a shocking manner. Send it to him from your account and ask him when he will use it to flog you. I tell ya,he will call to talk. 6 Likes |
Re: About To Divorce Him, Please I Need Your Advise by Kanwulia: 1:07am On Aug 07, 2014 |
1stCitizen: Oh yeah! Especially with AFRICAN WOMEN or women in 5TH WORLD countries where they live as 2nd-class citizens in their own homes! Pity! 4 Likes |
Re: About To Divorce Him, Please I Need Your Advise by SAMBARRY: 8:08am On Aug 07, 2014 |
beeevan: I wonder what the advise would have been if a man created this thread complaining of his wife littering pics of her privates online. Man of the house is splashing the picture of his pen*is all over net and these bunch of hypocrites are still yarning pray, love, bla bla bla... 2 Likes |
Re: About To Divorce Him, Please I Need Your Advise by Godmystrength: 9:13am On Aug 07, 2014 |
Amhappy: OP You are in for a long ride. I hope you downloaded that his prick picture and transfered to your phone. You need to let him know you saw it in a shocking manner. Send it to him from your account and ask him when he will use it to flog you. I tell ya,he will call to talk.I can't but laugh at this... |
Re: About To Divorce Him, Please I Need Your Advise by Nobody: 9:30am On Aug 07, 2014 |
beeevan: I wonder what the advise would have been if a man created this thread complaining of his wife littering pics of her privates online. Man of the house is splashing the picture of his pen*is all over net and these bunch of hypocrites are still yarning pray, love, bla bla bla... 2 Likes |
Re: About To Divorce Him, Please I Need Your Advise by Godmystrength: 9:31am On Aug 07, 2014 |
bellong:Born-again ke? Both were never born-again IMO. And that is why i even ignored the reference to their spirituality. |
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