No ish... Provided I can choose the gateman, driver and personal gym instructor.

parismarc:
Please lets stop promoting Nigerian men as being sex starved and promiscous. Not all men think with their dicks. When you tell a people over and over that they have no self control, they tend to believe you and act that way.

Yes, i can employ a househelp like this because my husband is disciplined. I have a 19 year old nurse for my daughters who has nice curves and i dont feel threatened. Yes, it's good to avoid temptations but for how long can you shield your husband if he is a randy he goat? why would a man, the head of a family lower himself to sleep with a maid? Is that all he thinks about?

My dad had so many ladies staying with him (relatives from his side and mum's side) and not for one day did i hear about anyone being molested.

Please lets give our men some credit.Haba!.

hia!did you say how can the head of the family lower himself...? i have seen a Behind man banging and impregnanting his househelp that didn't have complete 5o level credit meanwhile madam has masters,a good job,cute children for him. reason the house girl has is bustier than madam.did i mention he beat madam because of house girl?
if your nanny is good thank God.pray you dont get to meet those evil househelp
growing up we had matured helps .my dad never molested any but that was then.i dont know what has possessed our husbands...

those things are not real joor.i have never had a house help and when i am ready i will prayerfully shine both my physical and spiritual eye.she must not be light skinned,must not have attractive curves.her boobs must not be prominent.her hips must not be well defined,she must not be my husband's kind of woman,must not have free access to our bedroom,must not be too close to my children,must not cook my meals,must not wash my husband's clothes,must not be single,must always wear uniform,must not attend to my husband's personal needs like preparing bath water.anyday i suspect a foul play,she goes without discussing it with my husband.
the home is mine and i don't share

A promiscuous man is a promiscuous man.... with or without a house-help. A cheater is a cheater. na grace from God dey help us. Temptation abound everywhere... at work... at the gym... shopping malls.... even in church..... na just to dey ask God for grace everyday... cos e no easy to stay with one person for the rest of your life..... Truth be told.

Chidoks:
those things are not real joor.i have never had a house help and when i am ready i will prayerfully shine both my physical and spiritual eye.she must not be light skinned,must not have attractive curves.her boobs must not be prominent.her hips must not be well defined,she must not be my husband's kind of woman,must not have free access to our bedroom,must not be too close to my children,must not cook my meals,must not wash my husband's clothes,must not be single,must always wear uniform,must not attend to my husband's personal needs like preparing bath water.anyday i suspect a foul play,she goes without discussing it with my husband.
the home is mine and i don't share

Lol

This one must be a xhosa woman

seunlayi:
if she can do what we want her to do and face her duty, her extra luggage meant nothing to my marriage

......said the man before he started nacking the housemaid with a luscious backside.