Can you unfriend yur male friends on fb just b/cos yur bf wants u to do so, yur opinions will be appreciated... No insult please. Can you unfriend yur male friends on fb just b/cos yur bf wants u to do so, yur opinions will be appreciated... No insult please.

do u guys av any strings attached??....mayb u guys av feelings for each oda n twas so obvious to ur bf.....if nt dat one ooo,ur bf s a control-freak

If your boyfriend doesn't trust you, 'unfriending' all your male friends won't make him start trusting you.

Maybe, (just maybe) he knows what he does with female facebook friends and thought you could be doing same. My humble opinion though

purplesummer: If your boyfriend doesn't trust you, 'unfriending' all your male friends won't make him start trusting you.

Maybe, (just maybe) he knows what he does with female facebook friends and thought you could be doing same. My humble opinion though

Easy dear, he didn't ask her to unfriend all her male friends. He is talking about a particular mal friend.

Is not better to ask the op what their friendship is like before concluding? Maybe the guy read their chats or has a good reason for what he said.


You gurls should please park-well and stop hitting on this trust thingy. Those cold-hearted guys you see today are those who once cared and trusted too much.

Tallesty1: Easy dear, he didn't ask her to unfriend all her male friends. He is talking about a particular mal friend.

Now see what she wrote:

mizcalvina: Can you unfriend yur male friends on fb just b/cos yur bf wants u to do so

Friends suggest plural.

He,s an American,, he's just too jealous i dnt knw why, but he,s caring thou..what he,s asking for is just tomuch...

purplesummer:
Now see what she wrote:

Friends suggest plural.

Apologies.... I didn't read it well.

mizcalvina: He,s an American,, he's just too jealous i dnt knw why, but he,s caring thou..what he,s asking for is just tomuch...

Well, you have to earn his trust. I think he's just being paranoid. Give him time, I want to believe some of his fears will be allayed eventually.

Tallesty1: Apologies.... I didn't read it well.

It's alright.

Do so only if you're pleased with his reason.There is no remedy to jealousy than to just agree with him so far you're still in love with him.

Thanks fellas God bless

mizcalvina: He,s an American,, he's just too jealous i dnt knw why, but he,s caring thou..what he,s asking for is just tomuch...

Caring?.....that's it?

Yep..

mizcalvina: He,s an American,, he's just too jealous i dnt knw why, but he,s caring thou..what he,s asking for is just tomuch...

Men are generally jealous, I mean so freaking jealous, if u love d broda, y not do it.. Doing it won't hurt or kill u..

pasqal09:
Caring?.....that's it?

exactly!!

Its really gonna be difficult though, knowing fully well we aint yet married Its really gonna be difficult though, knowing fully well we aint yet married

Did he give you any reason why he asked you to? Well I think he's trying to protect what's his. That ain't the right way to do it. If your relationship will work, it will. And my dear, I wouldn't advice you to delete all your male friends on Facebook for a guy. We really don't know what tomorrow holds. Think very well before you take any step.☺

Thank youuuuuuuuuuu

@op will he delete all his female friends on facebook? Please just be careful he is boyfriend not even fiancé why demanding you delete all male friends don't be carry away because he is american !

mizcalvina: Can you unfriend yur male friends on fb just b/cos yur bf wants u to do so, yur opinions will be appreciated... No insult please. Can you unfriend yur male friends on fb just b/cos yur bf wants u to do so, yur opinions will be appreciated... No insult please.

^^^ther u go again...so u cheating on yor husband with faceboook guy? ....this is exactly why no body dates dark skin females again and serrrriously......WE GIV UP!!!

What you talking abt, did i say i was cheating on him..i guess he's only trying to protect me frm Facebook guys..

Are you serious or are you kidding??

NO MAN has the right to tell you to unfriend your male friends just because he is insecure, controlling and jealous, period!! And if you are subservient enough to do as he says then the TWO OF YOU DESERVE EACH OTHER!!!

If he tells you to unfriend a particular guy and he gives VALID reasons, that is a legitimate request. But it is still up to you to decide who you want as friends. Please know your self worth as a woman and tell that boy (he cannot be a man) to take a HIKE!

maybe inferiority complex dey worry ur boyfriend

sevule: Are you serious or are you kidding??

NO MAN has the right to tell you to unfriend your male friends just because he is insecure, controlling and jealous, period!! And if you are subservient enough to do as he says then the TWO OF YOU DESERVE EACH OTHER!!!

If he tells you to unfriend a particular guy and he gives VALID reasons, that is a legitimate request. But it is still up to you to decide who you want as friends. Please know your self worth as a woman and tell that boy (he cannot be a man) to take a HIKE!

Well said
@MisCalvina, my bros wan use ya head as DVD player. Cos such a person (if he succeed) might prevent you from having anything to do with any member of ya family

rawpadgin: maybe inferiority complex dey worry ur boyfriend

Beeni o ri so

mizcalvina: What you talking abt, did i say i was cheating on him..i guess he's only trying to protect me frm Facebook guys..

Na lie. Pesin wife wey don marry I dey send friend request to am she dey accept. He knows what you are vulnerable at and he wanna protect im territory....
But wait oº°˚˚°ºoo. Hope say ur guy no dey Nairaland

mizcalvina: Can you unfriend yur male friends on fb just b/cos yur bf wants u to do so, yur opinions will be appreciated... No insult please. Can you unfriend yur male friends on fb just b/cos yur bf wants u to do so, yur opinions will be appreciated... No insult please.

i once had a friend I really cared abt. I found out her number was on facebook so I asked her to remove it so dat she cd get less distracting calls and she did. Wot was his reasons for asking you to do dat? Are day reasonable?

Did he tell u to unfriend just one guy or all of ur male friends? Is he willing to unfriend all his female friends too? He cd as well ask u to stop using facebook as he also does d same.

Its either he has gross insecurity problem or he's a fucking control freak. How old is he sef? He sounds like someone dats under 21.

Does he hav a small dic.k? Maybe he's scared dat us black dudes who usually hav bigger dic.ks dan dem whites mite steal u away from him.

My advice: dont expect dis relationship to last long. I dont wish u bad but I think dat guy is a freak. Love is not stupid. Der are beta guys out there. Dont be carried away by dis american...he cd also be an american punk.

PastorAji:


Well said
@MisCalvina, my bros wan use ya head as DVD player. Cos such a person (if he succeed) might prevent you from having anything to do with any member of ya family



Beeni o ri so

Na lie. Pesin wife wey don marry I dey send friend request to am she dey accept. He knows what you are vulnerable at and he wanna protect im territory....
But wait oº°˚˚°ºoo. Hope say ur guy no dey Nairaland

Dat na my pastor talking.

Ain't kidding, am so freaking serious..

mizcalvina: He,s an American,, he's just too jealous i dnt knw why, but he,s caring thou..what he,s asking for is just tomuch...

This is actually what my girlie wants..To be jealous cos of her male friends..Now I am jealous and we are fucking off...

Do that for him if he so desires...Believe me,its healthy..Have you ever thought of this that he COULD HAVE SHUT HIS MOUTH UP?

And besides he's not on Nl.. Just Facebook, am his only friend on fb.. Ever since he created another page, someone hacked his old page, he,s African American (black)

35yrs he's old enough..

You are his only friend on fbook to? nawa o...
If its difficult for you,i suggest u talk and convince him not to doubt your faithfulness or you cant talk to him?

his he much older,whats your age difference ?

mizcalvina: 35yrs he's old enough..

Dat makes him a control-freak and very insecure to me. Old enough does not necessarily mean mature enof. All d reasons u gave is not enof to ask someone to unfriend all her male friends. Is it dat he doesn't want you to hav a life or what?

I dont mean to discourage you but u shd be careful of dis guy oh.

Some more questions for you, how long hav u guys been dating? Does he always insist on his opinions and wdn't ever let u do tins ur way? And how's his temper like? Has he ever hit you before? Dis type of guys normally no day waste time to beat woman oh!

Girl, u nid to be careful oh, make u no go day swim inside abusive relationship oh all in d name of love becos na small small e day take start oh!