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Re: What Did Your Parents Teach You About Marriage? by pickabeau1: 10:09am On Aug 15, 2014 |
Chillisauce: You hate bullies? You?..i know u r joking... Maybe you have changed Even kanwulia said 25 percent of single men r pedos...she used to say 80 percent before Things r changing Lol 1 Like |
Re: What Did Your Parents Teach You About Marriage? by bellong: 10:10am On Aug 15, 2014 |
Chillisauce: And it is a tedious work for you to string the comments? 4 Likes |
Re: What Did Your Parents Teach You About Marriage? by Nobody: 10:10am On Aug 15, 2014 |
beeevan: Chillisauce feel free to be in anytime, enough food to feed you 3 times daily in your cell. Lyndaroyce will fix your porty, Efe will read you bedtime stories, edwife will keep the Ganja rolling in, Candy will serve your desert because am sure she has been fumbling with desert recipes lately. I will take care of the feeding, you can use my orange suit, i have shaped for you already . Don't worry, I can't get a ban. Not when I'm the one pointing out the bullies and telling them about derailing the thread . anyone when ban me ..I go invoke the spirit of akikiwa follow the person . I ain't going back to jail |
Re: What Did Your Parents Teach You About Marriage? by Nobody: 10:12am On Aug 15, 2014 |
bellong: Very tedious |
Re: What Did Your Parents Teach You About Marriage? by beeevan: 10:12am On Aug 15, 2014 |
Chillisauce, you said something about going on low cut, did you go through with it? I dey consider am but am scared of what I ll look like on it. They won't stop pulling out my braids or hair . |
Re: What Did Your Parents Teach You About Marriage? by pickabeau1: 10:13am On Aug 15, 2014 |
But chillisauce... im surprised you actually dont know you are a bully .. if u call me one no problem but i am a learner where you are.. A lot of your comments here are filled with curses on peoples parents.. calling them jobless etc etc Or is there Multiple Post Personality 4 Likes |
Re: What Did Your Parents Teach You About Marriage? by Nobody: 10:16am On Aug 15, 2014 |
beeevan: Chillisauce, you said something about going on low cut, did you go through with it? I dey consider am but am scared of what I ll look like on it. They won't stop pulling out my braids or hair . I transitioned. Now I'm full afro. But I still do my braids. Just wrap your hair or teach them how to gently rub your hair. If my toddlers can be sweet with the cats you have no worries. Keep showing them how to pull sweet and explain you feel pain. Even give a fake cry. They will learn. Cutting your hair is a temporary solution. Dem fit go school and start pulling their class mates hair. |
Re: What Did Your Parents Teach You About Marriage? by beeevan: 10:17am On Aug 15, 2014 |
Chillisauce: I really don't want to be bullied into prison too , this moniker has to remain 'undefiled'. 1 Like |
Re: What Did Your Parents Teach You About Marriage? by Nobody: 10:19am On Aug 15, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Show me where I called people's parents names and show me what those people did. I can call someone dumb. Because they are actually dumb. You are free to call me dumb too. Now of you call me inexplicably names just for calling sake. I will bring in your parents, grandparents etc. Because I'm someone parent. If you have to go that route be ready to receive back.Its no brainer . 2 Likes |
Re: What Did Your Parents Teach You About Marriage? by Nobody: 10:21am On Aug 15, 2014 |
beeevan: Odigwu. You of all people |
Re: What Did Your Parents Teach You About Marriage? by pickabeau1: 10:23am On Aug 15, 2014 |
Chillisauce: your call.. 1 Like |
Re: What Did Your Parents Teach You About Marriage? by beeevan: 10:24am On Aug 15, 2014 |
Chillisauce: Afro? Isn't that difficult to manage? I can't even stand my hair being rubbed, very dis comforting. I braided the hair into one and tucked it in but they have finished the stray ones. Look at 4th pic in this gallery and tell me what you think. http://www.short-haircut.com/20-best-black-short-hairstyles-for-women.html |
Re: What Did Your Parents Teach You About Marriage? by beeevan: 10:25am On Aug 15, 2014 |
Chillisauce: I have been receiving the holy communion . |
Re: What Did Your Parents Teach You About Marriage? by Nobody: 10:29am On Aug 15, 2014 |
beeevan: Short hair is very difficult to maintain. And with your soldiers. I won't advice it. It's a good one the pics. I had that those days in school. Salon will take your time as you can't really flat iron the short hair yourself. But its a good style Lunch time. Enjoy |
Re: What Did Your Parents Teach You About Marriage? by beeevan: 10:35am On Aug 15, 2014 |
Chillisauce: I plan to use an extension in front so I won't have to flat iron always, i ll just have to brush the front and sides. Enjoy your lunch . 1 Like |
Re: What Did Your Parents Teach You About Marriage? by RoyalRoy(m): 11:10am On Aug 15, 2014 |
Thread 100% derailed. Was thinking of sending it to the front page but now its in tatters. Rest in Peace thread. |
Re: What Did Your Parents Teach You About Marriage? by cococandy(f): 12:24pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
Na wa o. What a fine thread. Ruined. |
Re: What Did Your Parents Teach You About Marriage? by damiso(f): 12:46pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
All you derailers I will invoke the gods(pity their priest is one of the chief derailers ) oya kiss and make up I learnt from their marriage that EVERY marriage is unique with unique individuals.My marriage is in a lot of ways very very different from theirs cos I am different from my mum and my dad is different from my husband.We also live in a different location with various factors meaning our life is considerably different from theirs.This does not therefore mean that one is necessarily better than the other as those factors all have their pros and cons. Having said that I have learnt that from them that spouses are meant to complement each other and work together as a team understanding that we all have our strengths and weaknesses.. |
Re: What Did Your Parents Teach You About Marriage? by EfemenaXY: 2:46pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
Chillisauce: The bullies are here again. Simple question they can't answer... Lol! But this thread is 2 pages too long for me na! Besides, Bellong isn't a bully. As per your question, nope, my parents didn't teach me anything about marriage. They showed me, by their actions, what marriage is, and should be about. 1 Like |
Re: What Did Your Parents Teach You About Marriage? by EfemenaXY: 6:17pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
Chillisauce: I thought you liked Alcatraz? beeevan: Chillisauce feel free to be in anytime, enough food to feed you 3 times daily in your cell. Lyndaroyce will fix your porty, Efe will read you bedtime stories, edwife will keep the Ganja rolling in, Candy will serve your desert because am sure she has been fumbling with desert recipes lately. I will take care of the feeding, you can use my orange suit, i have shaped for you already . I love those boyz of yours, Beev! Now stop accusing them jare. Show us pics of the clump of hair and the bald patch otherwise...we don't believe it |
Re: What Did Your Parents Teach You About Marriage? by beeevan: 7:06pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
EfemenaXY: I really wish it was an accusation , you will get the pics in your mail box . |
Re: What Did Your Parents Teach You About Marriage? by Nobody: 7:39pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
Here is a pic of beeevan@ efemenaxy
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Re: What Did Your Parents Teach You About Marriage? by beeevan: 7:40pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
Chillisauce: Here is a pic of beeevan@ efemenaxy Lol ,you no well chilli. |
Re: What Did Your Parents Teach You About Marriage? by Nobody: 7:42pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
beeevan:But you just sent this to me na. Besides it's the same face I saw on your profile. Don't worry, the hair will grow back. |
Re: What Did Your Parents Teach You About Marriage? by zboyd: 7:45pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Zboyd..good u know people r seeing thriugh your smoke screen OK...ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! There IS no smokescreen here...no matter how you wish it to be so. You are just another one of those Naija people I detest. You are so caught up in your stereotypical mindset that you can't see the forest for the trees, same as some narrow-minded African-Americans who hold a similar mindset. But let's be real, shall we? Your REAL PROBLEM with me is that I dare challenge YOU...A MAN....or is it a BOY... in a man's body. You are no better than American men who have issues, when confronted with an intelligent WOMAN who dares to voice her opinion on serious issues, specifically DOMESTIC ABUSE. You and your co-signers are no better than the cops and politicians over here that protect dirty cops and politicians, when they know damn well their cohorts are dirty. Instead of standing up and denouncing the dirty deeds men inflict on women, you'd rather 'kill the messenger'. Why is it that you'd rather portray me or any other woman who speaks her mind, regarding the actions of brutish men as men-hating, feminist, bitter, lesbian bitches, rather than women who care what happens to their fellow Sisters....no matter where they reside? SHAME ON YOU! Thank God ALL men, Nigerian or otherwise, aren't of your ilk! YOU ARE A DISGRACE! You're so caught up in your stereotypical mindset that you can't EVER imagine a Naija man finding love and happiness with a non-Naija woman. TOO BAD! In your narrow-minded world, such couplings don't exist or fail. WRONG!!! They do! And you and your co-signers can't stand it. Ya'll rather listen to and believe, as the gospel truth, "How A Naija Man Done Me Wrong Blues" sung by some embittered women who post here. There is no such thing as "Family Utopia". What there IS...is men...Nigerian and otherwise, who are DAMN GOOD MEN! Are they perfect? NO! No human being is...no marriage is...so why even voice such a fantasy? Question your OWN motives! Why are you so reluctant to acknowledge the reality of Naija men beating their girlfriends and wives senseless? Why are you so reluctant to acknowledge the numbers of Nigerian women murdered by their husbands? Why aren't you up on your soapbox denouncing the brutish behavior of some of your fellow brothers? Why are you portraying me as a man-hating, bitter feminist because I dare speak out on domestic abuse in the Nigerian community? Why do you assume I am a product of a Naija Man-African-American Woman relationship gone wrong...where the Naija man is missing in action...no where to be found...leaving the AA mother, alone and bitter? (Note: My Father is AA.) Why do you assume that ALL Naija men who father children with non-Naija women, in general, would abandon their offspring...never to see them again? Why is it that you seem to know next to nothing about the Naija men who have children with non-Naija women, love their children to death and will fight tooth and nail to be in their lives...no matter the cost? Why is it that you seem to know next to nothing of marriages between Naija men and non-Naija women? This is a monkey on your back that YOU have to deal with, mate. Ignorance may be bliss...but it's still ignorance! CHECK YOURSELF...OR...WRECK YOURSELF!!! Your choice! 3 Likes |
Re: What Did Your Parents Teach You About Marriage? by Nobody: 7:49pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
Oh boi. Brb to read. * spreads my folded mat* 1 Like |
Re: What Did Your Parents Teach You About Marriage? by zboyd: 7:55pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
bellong: Nah...not buying it. You've shown me who you are...and I believe it! DEUCES!!! |
Re: What Did Your Parents Teach You About Marriage? by zboyd: 8:01pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
TribalEAST: I trust hoes; when the kids are around is when they'll make aggravating demands from you knowing you won't want to break this rule I think you'll break countless times. #never say never What's your definition of a "hoe' Why are you referring to women as "hoes"? Will you refer to men as "hoes" too? 1 Like |
Re: What Did Your Parents Teach You About Marriage? by zboyd: 8:09pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
Godmystrength: I am not saying you are from those kind of homes, neither am i from such. Just trying to say your list is too long. just that. lol...once I get going...I get going...childhood memories and experiences...thank goodness I paid attention...even when I didn't think I WAS paying attention! |
Re: What Did Your Parents Teach You About Marriage? by Fkforyou(m): 8:16pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
egopersonified:Yep,most times you are often torn between the devil and the deep blue sea. |
Re: What Did Your Parents Teach You About Marriage? by pickabeau1: 8:21pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
Good to see there is a human behind the moniker I will have ignored your rant but I thought otherwise... as some hypocrites are already making crappy allegations of cyber bullying. Now to your post zboyd: I have never denied here males perpetrate abuse on their partners . however it is posters like you and the multitude of females that go gung-ho when there is some way to bring down males. If you look at your own threads dispassionately...you will see the theme of your topics Naija Men are abusive They phock AA women and abandon their offspring Naija men are dominating Men should not be heads of the home Men should be emasculated Bla Bla Bla... But women happen to b divine and don't fart.. Tell me something good and new
Insults already? Same words . Different posters...you aggressor females never fail to disappoint I have no issue with assertive females..its insulting females like you who see no good in the male gender I call out Shame on you also
Keep whatever offline issues you have with haters offline.. You say u r no misandrist...your posts speak otherwise Deal with your anger..woman Me a disgrace?..you are so far from the truth..maybe you are the disgrace..
Good you know there is no perfect man.. You and others like you will do well to know that.
Check yourself with your anger and misandry before you wreck also A woman who claims to be happily married for 5 years will not be as dismissive of the marriage institution and make head ship of the nuclear family as your posting history show not to talk of 2 decades. If it works for you in your home, don't spread your poison Your problem is that people like you project the lack of responsible male authority figures in your life to all men Men are not perfect but with great power comes great responsibility Fathers have been known to give their heart to their kids Fathers intercede for the home and their children Fathers go into mines to work months at a stretch to ensure their kids have a decent shot at life In your community with all the empowerment to single mothers we have increased crime and more young sons being killed I'm sure you know of the issues in Ferguson Read into that anything you will.. 1 Like |
Re: What Did Your Parents Teach You About Marriage? by beeevan: 8:38pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
Chillisauce: Am sure is exactly the same face, same cloth, same hair do . |
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