I'm datin a guy whom I luv n iv been faithful to him all ds years, recently I made a decision to avoid sex wt him cos I dnt enjoy it al all. Most tyms I end up angry after sex so I decided to just quit sex n move on wt out it. But wen I informed him of my decision he only got angry n accused me off cheating on him. Says we have already started so I can't back out, am so confused cos I dnt wan to kp havin sex wt him neida do I wan to cheat on him. Pls advice me.

Quit the relationship!!

If you really don't enjoy it then you need to talk to him about what he does that makes you dislike s*x or what you think he should start doing.

If on the other hand you get angry after s*x because of certain religious or moral beliefs, you need to explain it to him too and if he doesn't want to understand, then you seriously consider taking a walk.

Is he that bad in bed?

The only solution here's to quit the relationship. Sorry to say

pasqal09: Is he that bad in bed?

Yes

Don't start what you cannot finish. You can't stop now or you quit

hatux: The only solution here's to quit the relationship. Sorry to say

. I really do luv him n I don't wan to hurt him, but then I guess I'll jus have to put mysef first.

marinel: I'm datin a guy whom I luv n iv been faithful to him all ds years, recently I made a decision to avoid sex wt him cos I dnt enjoy it al all. Most tyms I end up angry after sex so I decided to just quit sex n move on wt out it. But wen I informed him of my decision he only got angry n accused me off cheating on him. Says we have already started so I can't back out, am so confused cos I dnt wan to kp havin sex wt him neida do I wan to cheat on him. Pls advice me.

any sexy guy on niraland should please take over this girl.

favourmic:


any sexy guy on niraland should please take over this girl.

. That wud hv been nyc if I had a freelancing heart.

purplesummer: If you really don't enjoy it then you need to talk to him about what he does that makes you dislike s*x or what you think he should start doing.

If on the other hand you get angry after s*x because of certain religious or moral beliefs, you need to explain it to him too and if he doesn't want to understand, then you seriously consider taking a walk.

. He jus doesn't no how to treat me in bed n iv complained abt it bt he only seems to get hurt by my complaints. So I decided to endure it all bt my anger wnt blow away. I think if we didn't do it at all I wudnt have a reason to b angry wt him and I wnt feel the hunger for sex.

You have two options:
1. Quit the relationship

OR

2. He quits and leaves you on your own

Eitherway, i see someone quitting soon enough

Never ever stay in a selfish and unhappy relationship. You sound too young for all this kind of drama and issues

I agree with the guy... once you started sex with him he sees no reasons why it should be stopped. Tell him the truth about what is wrong with the sex but have a few recommendations to fix it.

I see a relationship coming to an end.
Let him go or he will let you go.

can I recommend?

favourmic:


any sexy guy on niraland should please take over this girl.

no matter what anybody says, u already knw wat u will do. people just like wasting precious time advising people that are rejecting all the available options and seeking for magic

This is not a relationship but ebolaship

I hope you have also decided to stop asking him for money and money equivalent.

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lakamua: no matter what anybody says, u already knw wat u will do. people just like wasting precious time advising people that are rejecting all the available options and seeking for magic

Walahi you just hit the nail on its big head

yorke1: I hope you have also decided to stop asking him for money and money equivalent.

. I can sincerely say that I've never asked him for a dime in the entire history of our relationship, it never mattered to me.

marinel: . I can sincerely say that I've never asked him for a dime in the entire history of our relationship, it never mattered to me.

I smell lies. Are you a Nigerian gal?

Aitee1: can I recommend?

Fire away please

Having tested and trusted I recommend Barcanista with the help of teeo and Dygeasy

Dygeasy: Fire away please

marinel: I'm datin a guy whom I luv n iv been faithful to him all ds years, recently I made a decision to avoid sex wt him cos I dnt enjoy it al all. Most tyms I end up angry after sex so I decided to just quit sex n move on wt out it. But wen I informed him of my decision he only got angry n accused me off cheating on him. Says we have already started so I can't back out, am so confused cos I dnt wan to kp havin sex wt him neida do I wan to cheat on him. Pls advice me.

PM me for more informed advice

Aitee1: Having tested and trusted I recommend Barcanista with the help of teeo and Dygeasy

I have told her what to do. Pls encourage her to respond.

Aitee1: Having tested and trusted I recommend Barcanista with the help of teeo and Dygeasy

I dey gidigbam!

Eeyah...its so obvious he doesn't seem to be bothered about how you feel. Move on,he isn't worth the stress biko. For crying out loud,there are a million and one guys out there,don't cry over splited milk.

Forge ahead asap,time is no respecter of persons. The ball is in your court,make a wise choice today.

I don't know how old you are and what your status and disposition in life is.
But you are a human being. A girl I suppose.
So you want to quit the relationship because the sex isn't good enough, not because you are convinced it is off limits till you are married.
The boyfriend is saying you have started, so you can't stop. Hmm
Well convince him you aren't cheating, and tell him your real reasons. Deal with the outcome.
That is if you want to spend the rest of your youthful productive time looking for better sex.

marinel: . He jus doesn't no how to treat me in bed n iv complained abt it bt he only seems to get hurt by my complaints. So I decided to endure it all bt my anger wnt blow away. I think if we didn't do it at all I wudnt have a reason to b angry wt him and I wnt feel the hunger for sex.

Although I don't encourage sex before marriage but would go ahead tell you this anyways. Rather complaining and getting angry,why don't just show/tell him what and how you want it or better still during sex,direct him on what he should do to you. Be vocal about what you want. Sex should not be a big issue in a relationship as long as both parties are willing to talk and learn. Goodluck dear!

Aitee1: can I recommend?

No dulling

yorke1:

I smell lies. Are you a Nigerian gal?

. 100% true, n yes am a nigerian