It is very obvious women have a thousand and one reasons why they will never consent to their husband taking a second wife.

But in the eventaulity that your husband sits you down and sought your permission to allow him take a second wife, why would you allow him?

NB: just fun....maybe you can think of just one reason.

O yaaa think.

why do you plan your life on getting second wife and indirectly seeking others opinion.

mtcheww!

reason within the box yourself

I would accept a second wife if I was sick and tired of him but had no means to leave him

Also think along this line, will a man be ready to accept his wife marrying an additional husband where he cant meet her needs sexually, financially or other wise?

egopersonified: Also think along this line, will a man be ready to accept his wife marrying an additional husband where he cant meet her needs sexually, financially or other wise?

even the society will stigmatize her, but it's allowed for a man to marry as many as he can please, though. Not scripturally grounded.

carefreewannabe: I would accept a second wife if I was sick and tired of him but had no means to leave him

What does "no means" mean?
Like jobless?

pickabeau1:


What does "no means" mean?
Like jobless?

Yes, for instance.

Miner13: why do you plan your life on getting second wife and indirectly seeking others opinion.

mtcheww!

reason within the box yourself

Your opinion.

egopersonified: Also think along this line, will a man be ready to accept his wife marrying an additional husband where he cant meet her needs sexually, financially or other wise?

No need derailing the topic.
Why not state your opinion on the issue if you have one.

carefreewannabe:

Yes, for instance.

OK... assuming you were not jobless but as you said was tired of him..wil you accept

Marrying a second wife will make me feel filthy, cheap and obviously an unserious irresponsible man among my peers.

It will diminish the carefree fun filled lifestyle I presently enjoy with my spouse. Yet to imagine my life divided among two or more women who want equal legally sanctioned attention ? Must be very suffocating indeed.
Why not divorce instead of sharing yourself as a male prostitute irrespective of what society say about it.

This is for fun.....right? Please debaters should stay off my handle. Thanks.

pickabeau1:

OK... assuming you were not jobless but as you said was tired of him..wil you accept

Frankly speaking, no! I would leave the marriage. I don't believe in staying together no matter what. If I was sick and tired and had the means to leave, I would.

carefreewannabe:

Frankly speaking, no! I would leave the marriage. I don't believe in staying together no matter what. If I was sick and tired and had the means to leave, I would.

This was what I thought u meant too
However you may be surprised there may be some career women who are financially empowered and not under compulsion who will not mind to accommodate a second wife
Who knows..humans are weird

pickabeau1:


This was what I thought u meant too
However you may be surprised there may be some career women who are financially empowered and not under compulsion who will not mind to accommodate a second wife
Who knows..humans are weird

Like there are also some men who don't mind being or accepting a second husband.

Im sure there are..

Wide Weird World

carefreewannabe:

Like there are also some men who don't mind being or accepting a second husband.

pickabeau1: Im sure there are..

Wide Weird World

Why weird?

In this modern and contemporary world, would I even want to marry two women and put them under the same roof with me? Absolutely not!
I very much like my life and sanity.

@OP,if it is important,I will.

crackhaus: In this modern and contemporary world, would I even want to marry two women and put them under the same roof with me? Absolutely not!
I very much like my life and sanity.

You are a wise man

carefreewannabe:

You are a wise man

Okay, can I see your picture now?

crackhaus:
Okay, can I see your picture now?

Nope. I am very ugly.

no reason.

such a dude must not be loving his life to try and sit me down to discuss a second wife.

carefreewannabe:

Nope. I am very ugly.

Thought as much.

carefreewannabe:

Why weird?

its just a saying...

cococandy: no reason.
such a dude must not be loving his life to try and sit me down to discuss a second wife.

LOL... if you dont mind, may i ask what could happen..
Bankruptcy due to Divorce i get but this ur post is chilly...

crackhaus: In this modern and contemporary world, would I even want to marry two women and put them under the same roof with me? Absolutely not!
I very much like my life and sanity.

LOL... I feel u..

One wife .. one trouble
Two wives...

pickabeau1:

LOL... I feel u..

One wife .. one trouble
Two wives...

The older (grand parents/great grand parents) generation had it easy, the women then were more agreeable?...'docile' kind of, for lack of a better word.

crackhaus:
Thought as much.

Then you understand why I won't send you any photos.

crackhaus:
The older (grand parents/great grand parents) generation had it easy, the women then were more agreeable?...'docile' kind of, for lack of a better word.

Not only women were different, men were different too and relationships were different. Relationships served rather a pragmatic than romantic purpose.

carefreewannabe:

Then you understand why I won't send you any photos.

Well that won't be the first thing...or the second either

carefreewannabe:

Not only women were different, men were different too and relationships were different. Relationships served rather a pragmatic than romantic purpose.

True that.

crackhaus:
Well that won't be the first thing...or the second either

Sorry, you lost me.

The man i would marry would never go for a 2nd wife in the first place. POLYGAMISTS are never my type.

crackhaus:
The older (grand parents/great grand parents) generation had it easy, the women then were more agreeable?...'docile' kind of, for lack of a better word.

They were not necessarily docile but they recognised the necessity of large households for farming etc