It is possible to save a relationship even if you seem to be the only one who is trying to fix the myth.
That’s because these 7 tips will make your partner ALSO want to stop the breakup from happening, and the best part is, you can do these things 7 things RIGHT NOW to save your relationship:

1,Suspend Your Emotions – When we are emotional we say rashy things, make hasty decisions, and do things we later regret. The sooner you suspend your emotions, the sooner you gain control and the sooner your partner will calm down.
2,Talk Without Pointing Fingers – The breakup is happening, because you two can’t ever have a
discussion without the blame and judgment games happening. Suspend your criticisms, judgments, and comebacks and have a discussion that’s void of all the negativity from your end.
3,ASK Your Partner What Is Going Wrong – The fights are happening, because your partner feels they aren’t being heard; thus you can eliminate it by simply asking them what they think is going wrong. Hear them out, and listen, even when they criticize and judge you, because they simply just want you to listen for a change.
4,Admit That You Need To Change – You’ve spent a lot of your time denying that you need to change
by never admitting your mistakes, and by justifying your poor actions. Be humble and recognize openly to your partner that you need to change and ask for their input.
5,Remove The Relationship Talks – Right now both of you are concentrating on everything that is
going wrong with the relationship and it puts a lot of stress and strain on both of you, and on the
relationship. Take some space and don’t discuss the relationship, and instead discuss each other
individually and your individual goals for instance.
6,Do A Check Up System – Give your partner a chance to tell you what to do, and let them tell you how they want you to do it. THEN, create a check up system wherein you check up with your partner to ensure that they are happy with your progress and that things are going the way they want finally. Giving your partner some control
here will help them feel like it’s a two way street, instead of just a one way, wherein only YOU make
the decisions.
7,Tell Your Partner You Appreciate Them – He/she may feel like you don’t appreciate them enough.
They may think you take them for granted, are not thankful, and simply don’t know everything
that they sacrifice for you. Let them know that you appreciate them by telling them how and why
you do, so that your partner can feel desired and appreciated again.

I tried similar things but she was hell bent on leaving. The above works only when the two people agree.

I've decided not to be nice anymore cos even though she was wrong, she took my "understanding and forgiving" heart and grinded it to dust. Now, cold logic appeals to me more.

Nice points, but it really takes two to tango.

Tymax: I tried similar things but she was hell bent on leaving. The above works only when the two people agree.

I've decided not to be nice anymore cos even though she was wrong, she took my "understanding and forgiving" heart and grinded it to dust. Now, cold logic appeals to me more.

Nice points, but it really takes two to tango.

Wow! Sori abt dat. U re ryt, it takes two to tangle nd two can not wuk 2geda except dey agree.. But dat doesn't mean u shud stop tryin dear, except she is so keen on quitin d relatnship den u can let go....nd move on.

Tymax: I tried similar things but she was hell bent on leaving. The above works only when the two people agree.

I've decided not to be nice anymore cos even though she was wrong, she took my "understanding and forgiving" heart and grinded it to dust. Now, cold logic appeals to me more.

Nice points, but it really takes two to tango.

...Hmmmmm......**lip sealed.....

GoldenHrt2k14:
Wow! Sori abt dat. U re ryt, it takes two to tangle nd two can not wuk 2geda except dey agree.. But dat doesn't mean u shud stop tryin dear, except she is so keen on quitin d relatnship den u can let go....nd move on.

Thanks. Well, that was many years ago. I left her after she rejected my moves to heal the relationship.

If a lady wants out, then there's nothing a guy can do to keep her. I advice guys to be ready to let go of women who wanna leave a relationship.

Be logical to them and save yourself the heartache.

temigracie: ...Hmmmmm......**lip sealed.....

what's on your mind miss?

Tymax: what's on your mind miss?

...so many things



but lemme kip it dere sha....

temigracie: ...so many things



but lemme kip it dere sha....

Tymax:
Thanks. Well, that was many years ago. I left her after she rejected my moves to heal the relationship.

If a lady wants out, then there's nothing a guy can do to keep her. I advice guys to be ready to let go of women who wanna leave a relationship.

Be logical to them and save yourself the heartache.

...This ur new signature gansef....

Its better to jump off a sinking ship than ro sink with it & hope d ship would be water proof!