Amya: I really don't understand how you'll see fire clearly and on your own decide to jump into it.

Dear lady, I'm not saying you're desperate to get hitched, but hello! How in the word will you see this man who's cold to you, who doesn't care about you and who obviously regrets engaging you as someone you want to spend the rest of your life with?. He does not love you! And he doesn't care about you feelings either. He goes for weeks without calling you! I'm sure even one night stands show better courtesy than this.

The honest truth is that he's been looking for a reason to leave you all this while, and you gave him just that reason to. But be happy he left you now, cos he's have still left you eventually. He does not care about you at all.

Why in the world will you bring his father into this? Do you have an iota of respect? Jeez!
Well his father has nothing to do with him leaving you so you know.

By the way you sound really obsessive. And this engagement sounds like an arrangement between families. Move on already. His ship has sailed

rebella: Your gut feeling is right, that man wasn't interested in you at all. In most relationships, the man does majority of the calling; where you messed up big time was by sending such a rude message to his father, I don't care if he does whatever his father advises, your ex is responsiblle for his actions not his father. Call his father and apologise properly and move on from your ex, you are clearly not wanted.

MarvellousGod: I endorse this!!!!

The guy hardly even takes her call, smh. ..
Also, a guy whose dad still makes decisions for can't handle marriage. .

Op, apologise to the dad and move on. ..


Btw, why acting desperately? ? Are you among ladies that shiver once they reach 28 ??

jessy4done: ladies: how will u feel when a guy falls in luv with u, and u returned the love in full, only for the guy to start acting funny,e.g he hardly calls, rarely takes u out, start complaining that he has a lot to do and that is why is he being distracted. even when do most of the calling he chooses when to pick up ur call and when to ignore. and u dont want to leave him perhaps due to one promise or another. what strong decision will you take?

jessy4done:


Desperation is not cumin from ♍ƺ, he is always saying his dad wants him to settle down fast! Am not pushin him. I hav apologised to the dad with all sincerity.

jessy4done:


Desperation is not cumin from ♍ƺ, he is always saying his dad wants him to settle down fast! Am not pushin him. I hav apologised to the dad with all sincerity.

chaircover:

This was your post in 2009
Is this the same guy?

Please answer so I know what to say

chaircover:

This was your post in 2009
Is this the same guy?

Please answer so I know what to say

Amya: I really don't understand how you'll see fire clearly and on your own decide to jump into it.

Dear lady, I'm not saying you're desperate to get hitched, but hello! How in the word will you see this man who's cold to you, who doesn't care about you and who obviously regrets engaging you as someone you want to spend the rest of your life with?. He does not love you! And he doesn't care about you feelings either. He goes for weeks without calling you! I'm sure even one night stands show better courtesy than this.

The honest truth is that he's been looking for a reason to leave you all this while, and you gave him just that reason to. But be happy he left you now, cos he's have still left you eventually. He does not care about you at all.

Why in the world will you bring his father into this? Do you have an iota of respect? Jeez!
Well his father has nothing to do with him leaving you so you know.

By the way you sound really obsessive. And this engagement sounds like an arrangement between families. Move on already. His ship has sailed

RoyalRoy: Hmmm..how old are you babes?

Why in God's green earth will you text his dad? Was he the one who helped him to toast you?

You complained he refused to give you financial help despite him being okay. Are you his banker to be so certain he is financially okay?

Dude must have seen some negative energy coming from you. You sound kinda desperate.
You expect money from him, you want him to be calling you every hour, you got angry and decided to ring his dad up. These are some not so good signs coming from you.

The Dude has moved on!!!

Stop chasing him around and stop calling and "insulting" his father too maybe he might have a rethink someday.

Hopefully that won't be in10yrs time.

edwife: This frustration called MARRIAGE will kill our girls.

There is nothing enjoyable again for a young woman in this generation except marriage.

No dreams,no ambitions,no distractions,no fun.........


What a lost generation!sight

Idowuogbo: Hold on, op u dey smoke yam flour? U brave ooo... u dey text-yab d pupsi ke? no amount of sorry will make the Dad like you oo....move on! U lost this one.