Don't get it twisted, the GURL you date is a bed material while the WOMAN you marry is a wife material.

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Proverbs 31:10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. 31:11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.
31:12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.
31:13 She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.
31:14 She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar.
31:15 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.
31:16 She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard.
31:17 She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.
31:18 She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night.
31:19 She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.
31:20 She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.
31:21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet.
31:22 She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple. 31:23 Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.
31:24 She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant.
31:25 Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.
31:26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.
31:27 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.
31:28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.
31:29 Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.
31:30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.
31:31 Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.

all i need is as described above, though imperfect

i see no difference between the girl i dated and the girl i married...though we are still fresh in the institution....4Months.

she still br dat same babe....shes still my girlfriend, the only difference is that we now live together.

Hmmmm

Maturity is the main point...... Marriage does not guarantees that

Maturity is the main point...... Being Married does not guarantees that

Men amuse me!

this Whores aint Loyal

BOOKED

It be like say comparing of customer to employee in your company, who care better for business? just asking

marriage is a different ball game.

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justi4jesu:

who hold u not to create your own boys thread and boys talk, u cannot do without us.....we add spice to Men's life

true talk. But wait oooooooo,u be SHE OR HE?

Relationship wise, men grow up before marriage but after marriage, they become stagnant or spirals downwards.

Women, on the other hand don't grow up before marriage but after marriage they begin to grow.

And therein lies the problem. A catastrophy that requires only tolerance to overcome.

ayusco85: did u compiled this list from studying ur relationship with ur wife or u took a case study of different peoples relationships? people just wake up one morning and start writing rubbish list.


Last bullet: Thou shall not live by lists seen on nairaland these days, else u will miss it. just be with someone u can be real with, not someone u ve to change who u are. I DONT BELIEVE IN ANY YEYE LIST. what works for you might not work for anoda

You're a wise man

Bre:

You're a wise man

thank u ma

bizngr: Sorry, I don't agree to most of what you wrote up there!

Seconded!!

Nonsense post we see on nairaland nowadays, people just wake up and concot half baked reviews, and paste it for people to read, ur wife is not much different from fellow women, when she is still single, she behaved like most single girls would do, and know that u married her dosent mean u re the first man that came into her life, so women re vry complex, she may be good to you but vry mean to another man, and if there is always a magic turn in marriage for the better than in relationship as u think, then why are there so many failed marriages today and more crashing ones on the way..the fact is that this generation of humans re something else...

Nice 1! I got a girl wt dose qualities bt as my father will say neva tell her of marriage! Am just lookin her wt 1 eye....infact she is my accountant!nt selfish

rozzay: Hmmmmm we've heard nd work on improving on some of dem cos am def guilty of some. Thanks

Mayb u should start by changing ur name from rozzay to spring water or sweet wine , because dat rozzay get as e b

Jennydoris: Marriage and dating is not and can never be the same.

When dating some relationships are based on fantasy and thats why some relationships are not meant to last or lead to marriage but marriage is a different thing altogether. It opens both the man and the woman up for many challenges that draws them to life's realities. You can't expect a married woman that has seen so many things in marriage life both the difficult ones and the smooth ones to still behave like a girl that dates a man or two years back before getting married. Things change and people grow up. In dating and relationships both the male and the female are just a boy and a girl but marriage is for matured people I mean a woman not a girl and a man not a boy. They are now matured both physically, spiritually and otherwise. And the woman you married today was once a girl of yesterday and you a boy of yesterday all grown into full matured adult. A girl and a woman has a different meaning and different perspectives to life and so are the boys and the men.

So True

Depends on the girl sha.. My GF is different

low b3

cr7lomo:

Mayb u should start by changing ur name from rozzay to spring water or sweet wine , because dat rozzay get as e b

I love d name, have a reason for it btw dat will be my first child s name. I'd def start from no 2 cos I don't joke wit my beauty routines- hair nails make up r foremost for me. Think ill work on dat first. Thanks tho

A CHEAT! That's what u re @ OP.comparing ur wife and a chick means u re into the game.



A responsible man who is married has no intimate business wth any other girl that will warrant him to start any silly comparison watsoever!@ OP busy bodi

The difference is that a married lady is bound by the contract and oath she signed up for.
While the lady you dated has no guarantee, so she applies caution to avoid stories that touch.

lirusehn: only God knows where u guyz do get all these posts from

i tire my broda