SAMBARRY: if you are the one sewing a particular clothing for days and the owner has come to threaten fire and brimstone and raise all manner of insult on the tailors head and probably you have almost finished the job which you have been paid for then a child comes to ruin it. Won't you transfer the inbuilt anger on the child. If that child was mine I will slap him his head will hit the wall and insult whoever is coming to interfere.




I am putting myself in that tailors shoe so I understand where she is coming from. She knows the owner of the cloth will not take it easy with her and the so called old man won't be there when she's receiving insults however I don't subscribe to violence. And that is the only thing the woman did wrong but I support every form of insult the man received

Tallesty1: Your post makes sense but your points are based on assumptions.

You don't support any form of violence but you support the woman slapping her child for stepping on a dress, and you support all the insults the man recieved Are you a lawyer.?

bukatyne:

Exactly!

The father was wrong to question the mother's disciplinary methods in front of the child corrected

@OP: This your story does not do well for your cause because the husband tore the clothes she was sewing after she kept mute

It is wrong to hit a lady except if she hits you first in a non-violent confrontation

onirugbon1:


And this warranted 2 doses of chloroquine slaps for the small boy in a day?
Bad way to relate to a son as a mother. Unfortunately she forgot the boy has a father who won't watch him get unnecessarily abused.

Besides why didn't she respond when queried about the second slap...which she landed on the boy just out of anger and pure hatred. Should she kill the boy because she was bothered about her customer's property?

Her action really can't be justified. If you are willing to advise such a woman, tell her she was very wrong.

SAMBARRY: Yes she won't answer because it is a very stoopeed question.it is as stoopeed as asking a man why he's having sex with his wife however every other thing she did was in point except slaping the man[color=#990000][/color]

striktlymi: I believe it depends on the scenario. Under normal circumstances, it is never right for a man to hit a woman, even when the woman hits the man first. This is not saying what the woman did is right. If the man hit the woman because the woman hit him first then both parties are guilty of wrong doing.

However, there may be some other cases where hitting a woman may just be the only thing left to do for the man. If the lady threatens the man with deadly force, such that his life is in danger then he has every right to defend himself. Hitting a lady when one's life is threatened is not wrong in my books.

Hitting the lady should be the last resort after other avenues have failed e.g is it possible for the man to get away without endangering his life? If it is then this should be the better option to hitting the lady.

#Ladies are not always the weaker sex when it comes to brutal strength.

SAMBARRY: did the insult threaten his life or kill him? No be me get my child. I can do WHATEVER I want to do with him because he's my child and no body has a right to interfere.

SAMBARRY: my post are based on assumptions because I know what tailors face. it serves him right. You don't interfere when husband and wife are fighting in the same vein you don't interfere when mother and Child are fighting

Tallesty1: So your child is your child alone and not his own? Choi! People sef. You do not have any right, I repeat you do not have any right to do Whatever you like with him. You could be jailed for being too harsh on your kids.
Husband and wife are not supposed to fight. Ignoring your husband in the presence of his visitors is as deadly as poisoning his food.

onirugbon1:

Oh ok.

If it was an elderly man who heard the slap and came in to ask that question, would it still be a stoopeed question?

Besides....Did you read the whole story? The second slap landed the boy on the floor. and that is ok? Hmmm sambarry I fear you o.

beeevan:




Agreed!

SAMBARRY: I don't have any right to do whatever I like with him because I came to collect money for antenatal from you or money for diaper . That's right.in Nigeria? Very funny

the rest is none of my business

SAMBARRY: I will tell him to mind his business because it's not his son I slapped. In fact if his noise is too much I will start singing for him.

SAMBARRY: No be me get my child. I can do WHATEVER I want to do with him because he's my child and no body has a right to interfere .

SAMBARRY: if you are the one sewing a particular clothing for days and the owner has come to threaten fire and brimstone and raise all manner of insult on the tailors head and probably you have almost finished the job which you have been paid for then a child comes to ruin it. Won't you transfer the inbuilt anger on the child. If that child was mine I will slap him his head will hit the wall and insult whoever is coming to interfere.
I am putting myself in that tailors shoe so I understand where she is coming from. She knows the owner of the cloth will not take it easy with her and the so called old man won't be there when she's receiving insults however I don't subscribe to violence. And that is the only thing the woman did wrong but I support every form of insult the man received

bukatyne:

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onirugbon1:

hehehehe I understand you perfectly. Nobody can dictate to you not to correct your boy especially in Nigeria where necessary laws concerning this are not provided.

but that is not the issue.

The issue is that the woman transferred aggression on the boy and slapped him a second time, knowing that it would infuriate the father. You are a woman and you know damn well that that second slap was born out of sheer anger, retaliation and bitterness. I just don't see why you should defend such bad parenting.

TribalEAST: the man did the best thing by descending his anger on the cloth instead of her when she ignored his presence. Do you now think she was right to have slapped someone strong enough to beat the living daylight out of her?

Godmystrength: child could have exaggerated the slap because he knew daddy was outside and would come to his aid. even a slight push can be exaggerated just to add effect. you can't trust these children.

Godmystrength: wifey keeping mute when been questioned by hubby shows she is ANGRY but trying to avoid public display of anger since she might not be able to control her reaction. hubby should have left her alone when she didnt answer just to avoid trouble.

Godmystrength: yeye children, yeye husband and yeye wife. they ended up disgracing their family. they fit each other.

raumdeuter: @Topic, If your life is threatened or there might be grievious bodily harm to the man

Godmystrength: yeye children, yeye husband and yeye wife. they ended up disgracing their family. they fit each other.