Edusouls: look at women asking who would stand by their spouse no matter what, women are one naturally selfish creature, they dont even konw exactly what they want, they dump men here and there at the slightest trail,many men are down and devastated by women that dump them after going through a lot for them.men borrow money, borrow clothing, borrow even food just to see that it works out, uncountable cases of men going through the very hectic and difficult task of training a girl all the way from year 1 to final year in the university, at the end after bringing the rif raf from their very hell and wretched homes, she now open eye and becomes more intelligent than you and goes wild, before you know it she dumps you for another fellow rif raf man, women stupidly jump out of a relationship that has been painfully built and nurtured for years, that have a future and go to their doom,women are very senseless creatures any calculation they do is wrong, women instantly loose their respect ans love for their husband just because things are not so smooth as it was before,women are super greedy that they date their fathers and sleep with them painting her future black, she just want bb, or money, or i pad. nowadays how many women date one man, nooo tht one is for girls wey never open eye, a normal nigerian girl carelessly date anything datable, once money or goodies comes out of it, even if monkeys have money they will date, women are so dishonest that they even lie to themselves talkless of another person, women hate the truth, women are natural betrayers and they disappoint anyhow at the least expected time, their smelling life style can be seen everywhere by any person who is not blind..they tell you they want to marry a good man, when the LovePeddler have dated up to 9 different individuals plus 2 married men added with some abortions. and have had sex with all of them, during school years. women are lost creatures, they shouldn't even talk because thier case is hopeless and worsens by the day.......

Mimienudles: . . .as long as love is involved. Love conquers all.

Edusouls: look at women asking who would stand by their spouse no matter what, women are one naturally selfish creature, they dont even konw exactly what they want, they dump men here and there at the slightest trail,many men are down and devastated by women that dump them after going through a lot for them.men borrow money, borrow clothing, borrow even food just to see that it works out, uncountable cases of men going through the very hectic and difficult task of training a girl all the way from year 1 to final year in the university, at the end after bringing the rif raf from their very hell and wretched homes, she now open eye and becomes more intelligent than you and goes wild, before you know it she dumps you for another fellow rif raf man, women stupidly jump out of a relationship that has been painfully built and nurtured for years, that have a future and go to their doom,women are very senseless creatures any calculation they do is wrong, women instantly loose their respect ans love for their husband just because things are not so smooth as it was before,women are super greedy that they date their fathers and sleep with them painting her future black, she just want bb, or money, or i pad. nowadays how many women date one man, nooo tht one is for girls wey never open eye, a normal nigerian girl carelessly date anything datable, once money or goodies comes out of it, even if monkeys have money they will date, women are so dishonest that they even lie to themselves talkless of another person, women hate the truth, women are natural betrayers and they disappoint anyhow at the least expected time, their smelling life style can be seen everywhere by any person who is not blind..they tell you they want to marry a good man, when the LovePeddler have dated up to 9 different individuals plus 2 married men added with some abortions. and have had sex with all of them, during school years. women are lost creatures, they shouldn't even talk because thier case is hopeless and worsens by the day.......

hnrstephen: Yes! Yes, I would.

That's exactly what I'm doing now.

Worksunlimited:

Stop lying there... if your boyfriend mess up once.. your scream and cry go pass nigerian borders.. come ere dey lie, u think say we no know ur boyfriend..

Women lying since the days of adam and eve..

There is God o...

carefreewannabe:

A home can be broken without divorce.

carefreewannabe:

A home can be broken without divorce.

olami100:
@carefreewannabe
that is true! but that happens when the man is not willing to let go of such! Like I told u, I will feel bad and hurt! That is normal! But the same question I ask myself was that if It happens to be me cheating on my wife and she caught me nko? See nobody is perfect!!! For me I will totally let go and give her anoda chance!!
Mehn the reason why people take actions instantly is becos dey dnt tink of d future but dey tink of d present! For me I will forgive her cos that was d pledge I made before God to her!!!!! #we need to learn how to forgive and let go#

Edusouls: look at women asking who would stand by their spouse no matter what, women are one naturally selfish creature, they dont even konw exactly what they want, they dump men here and there at the slightest trail,many men are down and devastated by women that dump them after going through a lot for them.men borrow money, borrow clothing, borrow even food just to see that it works out, uncountable cases of men going through the very hectic and difficult task of training a girl all the way from year 1 to final year in the university, at the end after bringing the rif raf from their very hell and wretched homes, she now open eye and becomes more intelligent than you and goes wild, before you know it she dumps you for another fellow rif raf man, women stupidly jump out of a relationship that has been painfully built and nurtured for years, that have a future and go to their doom,women are very senseless creatures any calculation they do is wrong, women instantly loose their respect ans love for their husband just because things are not so smooth as it was before,women are super greedy that they date their fathers and sleep with them painting her future black, she just want bb, or money, or i pad. nowadays how many women date one man, nooo tht one is for girls wey never open eye, a normal nigerian girl carelessly date anything datable, once money or goodies comes out of it, even if monkeys have money they will date, women are so dishonest that they even lie to themselves talkless of another person, women hate the truth, women are natural betrayers and they disappoint anyhow at the least expected time, their smelling life style can be seen everywhere by any person who is not blind..they tell you they want to marry a good man, when the LovePeddler have dated up to 9 different individuals plus 2 married men added with some abortions. and have had sex with all of them, during school years. women are lost creatures, they shouldn't even talk because thier case is hopeless and worsens by the day.......

carefreewannabe:

Infidelity is not the only reason that can lead to a broken home. There is also serial infidelity, neglect, abuse and so much more.

It's good to have a forgiving heart and you are right, nobody is perfect but nobody should let anyone or anything destroy them. So if a marriage becomes unbearable, physically and / or mentally, it is sometimes better to let go.

olami100:
@carefreewannabe
that is true! but that happens when the man is not willing to let go of such! Like I told u, I will feel bad and hurt! That is normal! But the same question I ask myself was that if It happens to be me cheating on my wife and she caught me nko? See nobody is perfect!!! For me I will totally let go and give her anoda chance!!
Mehn the reason why people take actions instantly is becos dey dnt tink of d future but dey tink of d present! For me I will forgive her cos that was d pledge I made before God to her!!!!! #we need to learn how to forgive and let go#

olami100:
Mehn that is not when children are involve ooooo! Babe na children go suffer am o! But if no children they can separate! I hate divorce and broken home!!

Edusouls: look at women asking who would stand by their spouse no matter what, women are one naturally selfish creature, they dont even konw exactly what they want, they dump men here and there at the slightest trail,many men are down and devastated by women that dump them after going through a lot for them.men borrow money, borrow clothing, borrow even food just to see that it works out, uncountable cases of men going through the very hectic and difficult task of training a girl all the way from year 1 to final year in the university, at the end after bringing the rif raf from their very hell and wretched homes, she now open eye and becomes more intelligent than you and goes wild, before you know it she dumps you for another fellow rif raf man, women stupidly jump out of a relationship that has been painfully built and nurtured for years, that have a future and go to their doom,women are very senseless creatures any calculation they do is wrong, women instantly loose their respect ans love for their husband just because things are not so smooth as it was before,women are super greedy that they date their fathers and sleep with them painting her future black, she just want bb, or money, or i pad. nowadays how many women date one man, nooo tht one is for girls wey never open eye, a normal nigerian girl carelessly date anything datable, once money or goodies comes out of it, even if monkeys have money they will date, women are so dishonest that they even lie to themselves talkless of another person, women hate the truth, women are natural betrayers and they disappoint anyhow at the least expected time, their smelling life style can be seen everywhere by any person who is not blind..they tell you they want to marry a good man, when the LovePeddler have dated up to 9 different individuals plus 2 married men added with some abortions. and have had sex with all of them, during school years. women are lost creatures, they shouldn't even talk because thier case is hopeless and worsens by the day.......

Guidette:
Abeg change ur name quickly to Bittersouls. Nonsense!!!

Guidette: I can deal with DV but not infidelity. That's the worst thing that can happen to me in a relationship.

abbey621:

This is probably the funniest post I've seen today. I can see it now, "Honey you can slap and kick me as much as you want but never sleep with another woman o".....

Guidette:
U dont understand. I will organise boys to come in the middle of the night to beat shege out of him till he is within an inch of his life. I will see if he will touch me again.

abbey621:

Na lie jor....It's girls like u that will just crawl up in a corner and start crying, u might even start blaming yourself for provoking him....

Guidette:
Haha. I beat up one idiot boy in my neighbourhood when I was 12 and put him in a gutter. He hit me once when we just moved in, so I planned for him and ambushed him. He never touched me again. Infact he completely stayed out of my way for years.
A man cant push me around. Trust me. I am quite hot headed and I have murderous thoughts sometimes

Guidette:
Haha. I beat up one idiot boy in my neighbourhood when I was 12 and put him in a gutter. He hit me once when we just moved in, so I planned for him and ambushed him. He never touched me again. Infact he completely stayed out of my way for years.
A man cant push me around. Trust me. I am quite hot headed and I have murderous thoughts sometimes

pickabeau1:
Remind me not to annoy u

abbey621:

Lol....U need deliverance....

DukeNija:

So you'll divorce your husband at 43 if he cheats once? Lol. Very rational

Guidette:
Haha. I beat up one idiot boy in my neighbourhood when I was 12 and put him in a gutter. He hit me once when we just moved in, so I planned for him and ambushed him. He never touched me again. Infact he completely stayed out of my way for years.
A man cant push me around. Trust me. I am quite hot headed and I have murderous thoughts sometimes

Godmystrength: Shey spouse na the same thing as boyfriend/girlfriend??

Ninapha:

easier said than done dear. Then u married the next and he did same, off u go and then again, nna mehn, before u know o'girl don marry 10 men.

We dont pray for bad things to happen to us but there shd be room for second chance. So that we wont end off 'badder than our bad.

-For me, sleeping with our child or abusing a girl sexually. -Kai. Oso ge me ugbua.
-Outright stealn. robbery or occultic practise- Onye elela anya n'azu mehn
-Puching masters. Run run run away

zboyd:

Absolutely!

I will divorce him at 43, 53 or 63, if he cheats on me. Why? He violated his marriage vows which I take VERY seriously. And he would definitely divorce ME, if I cheated too. We are both in complete agreement on this issue. You don't cheat on the one you say you love. Adultery, for us, is a serious breach or trust. Imagining each other doing bedmatics with another person would be intolerable. It would be WWIII everyday, if we tried to stay together, with the kids caught in the crossfire. Best part ways and keep a civil relationship going for the sake of the kids.

So yes, it's very rational for me to divorce him, if he cheats on me ONCE...and the same goes for him.

Over here, women aren't generally stigmatized for divorce, especially if the divorce was due to a cheating or abusive husband.

Also, most women over here aren't financially dependent on their husbands.

And for those thinking of applying for government benefits to help, cradle-to-grave welfare benefits are long-gone over here. Welfare benefits usually last only 5 years. With few exceptions, if you apply for welfare, your behind (male or female) is expected to work and/or enter into a vocational job training class...finish it successfully and get off the rolls. If you don't comply, you will be denied half your benefits -- further non-compliance and you are kicked off welfare, whether you've reached the 5-year limit or not. One more thing, any single, separated or divorced parent must supply the name/s of the absent parent or risk having his or her case denied. This is for the purpose of the state collecting child support on behalf of your child/ren, to offset a portion of the benefits being paid to the welfare recipient.


Now...why are YOU dodging the question?

Would YOU divorce YOUR wife, if SHE 'slips' up ONCE?

Furthermore, could you handle imagining her doing bedmatics with another man?

Most men I know couldn't.

It would drive them crazy...especially those who have never cheated on their wives.

Ceasar1: True Love or ‘being in love’ doesn't mean one should be dumb. It requires one to use his/her brain alot. On the contrary, no human Love is unconditional.

For starters If she cheat on me, I leave. If she commit murder, I vanish without a trace. If she's abusive emotionally or physically, I elope. There are so many negative circumstances but I'm praying for none.

Edusouls: look at women asking who would stand by their spouse no matter what, women are one naturally selfish creature, they dont even konw exactly what they want, they dump men here and there at the slightest trail,many men are down and devastated by women that dump them after going through a lot for them.men borrow money, borrow clothing, borrow even food just to see that it works out, uncountable cases of men going through the very hectic and difficult task of training a girl all the way from year 1 to final year in the university, at the end after bringing the rif raf from their very hell and wretched homes, she now open eye and becomes more intelligent than you and goes wild, before you know it she dumps you for another fellow rif raf man, women stupidly jump out of a relationship that has been painfully built and nurtured for years, that have a future and go to their doom[b],women are very senseless creatures any cs it was before,calculation they do is wrong,[/b] women instantly loose their respect ans love for their husband just because things are not so smooth women are super greedy that they date their fathers and sleep with them painting her future black, she just want bb, or money, or i pad. nowadays how many women date one man, nooo tht one is for girls wey never open eye, a normal nigerian girl carelessly date anything datable, once money or goodies comes out of it, even if monkeys have money they will date, women are so dishonest that they even lie to themselves talkless of another person, women hate the truth, women are natural betrayers and they disappoint anyhow at the least expected time, their smelling life style can be seen everywhere by any person who is not blind..they tell you they want to marry a good man, when the LovePeddler have dated up to 9 different individuals plus 2 married men added with some abortions. and have had sex with all of them, during school years. women are lost creatures, they shouldn't even talk because thier case is hopeless and worsens by the day...... .