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Why Do Women Cheat? by valkaka(m): 1:47am On Sep 03, 2014
Everything on this earth has a reason and every question has an answer. Similarly women infidelity has not one but a number of reasons. Situations, husbands, boyfriends, revenge, pleasure, dissatisfaction, insecurity, and many other such reasons can get women to cheat.

1. Loneliness is one big reason
Most of the women are taken for granted. If a woman leaves her job and sits at home for her husband and her kids it is her responsibility, which is not appreciated by anyone. No word of love or appreciation makes the woman feel she is taken for granted and this taken for granted feeling created differences between a couple and gives birth to loneliness. This loneliness can create attraction and feelings for another man, leading to infidelity.

2. Physically and emotionally not satisfied
Studies have proven that comparatively to men more women fall into an extramarital affair, when not physically satisfied by their partners. The above statement means women have more tendencies of falling into an extramarital relationship, if not physically satisfied with their married life. Like a men even women made loveual desires that need to be fulfilled. And hence when a few women are not happy with the physical part of their married life they do fall into extramarital affairs.

3. Feel of excitement
Some women like thrill and excitement. If you might have notices a new relationship brings the teenage excitement back. Not just a few women but every woman wants to live in the fairytale world of love. Fairytale love is not possible when it comes to reality. Most of the women except the truth and live with it, whereas some keep hunting for the fairytale love of their life to keep the excitement on.

4. Need of love and romance
With passing years in a relationship there are a number of responsibilities that erupt. And as a couple or as family members we end up fulfilling these responsibilities. This is when the love and romance between couples die or fade away. As years pass love has to grow stronger and not fade away.

5. Crumpling of self respect
In a male dominating world, everything has to work according to the man. At such places a woman is nothing but a puppet. Day in and day out her self-respect is thrashed. In such a society the man forgets that the woman in his house is his wife, mother of his kids and an individual. The designation of an individual human being is forgotten by her husband and her kids. In such cases if she comes across a man who respects her individuality, it is natural for her to develop feelings for him.

If given the right love and respect a few women will never ever think about cheating on their boyfriends or their husbands. However if cheating is only for excitement and thrill, it is difficult to stop cheating. You can still look at the above tips and correct the flaws in your relationship. A few rectifications can enhance love and understanding between couples.
Re: Why Do Women Cheat? by Nobody: 1:51am On Sep 03, 2014
^^^^OP, dont believe the hype....women cheat for the EXACT SAME REASON why men do.
Re: Why Do Women Cheat? by Raiders: 2:24am On Sep 03, 2014
some women cheat on their spouse because they are addicted to sex and are have mental illness
Re: Why Do Women Cheat? by MrKnowitall: 2:30am On Sep 03, 2014
Only an Asewo would cheat. A respectable woman would never cheat. Never!! Change the title of the post to : why do Asewos cheat. Thanks.
Re: Why Do Women Cheat? by Mariopgomery(m): 3:05am On Sep 03, 2014
Making excuses 4 women.
Re: Why Do Women Cheat? by Deshannel(m): 7:35am On Sep 03, 2014
the female
eros is much better made for monogamy than
the male libido is made for polygamy.
Re: Why Do Women Cheat? by Nobody: 1:45am On Sep 04, 2014
Raiders: some women cheat on their spouse because they are addicted to sex and are have mental illness

what if she is doing it for gifts and handouts due to the economic/financial stress they find themselves into (like they all say)?

MrKnowitall: Only an Asewo would cheat. A respectable woman would never cheat. Never!! Change the title of the post to : why do Asewos cheat. Thanks.

is it the same thing for men or there is a different outlook on men cheating?

Deshannel: the female
eros is much better made for monogamy than
the male libido is made for polygamy.

would you accept that your woman (who has high libido) marry other men?
Re: Why Do Women Cheat? by MisterLongman(m): 9:32am On Sep 04, 2014
Stop creating excuses .... They cheat because they want to cheat..... A woman that lacks self control will definitely end up cheating on her partner irrespective of this points listed.

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