Cheating doesn't mean you have to kiss, meet
or have sex with a third party. Once you find
yourself deleting texts and e-mails so your
partner wont see them, you are already there.
Its like a cancer it develops slowly but you will
surely feel the pain when its fully grown. The
funny thing is most of the times, people try to
find what they already have because they don't
just appreciate what they have.
Remember the grass may look green on the
other side but what if you could just invest time
and energy by watering the one that you have.
Wouldn't the world be a better place to be
today? Can you imagine how strong your
relationship would be if you would not waste
your energy, resources and time on things that
have no future. Secret, small, hidden
relationships are like ticks they suck all the
good things out of your marriage or relationship
and makes it unstable.
it will take you more effort to repair what you
would have damaged and the sad thing is
sometimes those wounds might never heal.
Stop sexing and flirting with those people- Yes
you know them!!!
Imagine your partner (Husband/wife) reading
the messages that you receive, would he/she
reply with a free heart on your behalf? If the
answer is NO, then that is an unhealthy chat/
talk that you are having Stop it before its too
late.
Some mistakes will cost you for a life time yet
you could have just avoided them by just
ignoring that chick/ dude who now loves you
because you have been turned into a better
'asset' by your current partner. Where were
they when you were down?
Please may you all get rid of all the parasitic
relationships that will always be a treat to your
relationships' health. Fight for what is right and
never give up on the one you Love. Yes l said
health because you have to know and take care
of it just like your body. Love it as you love
your body, maintain it as you maintain your
skin, teeth, hair and nails. True love means
hard-work. Do not apply if you are not prepared
to take the risks. Stay out of a relationship if
you still want to fool around (but that has its
own price) because a relationship calls for great
deal of commitment.
Most of the young people think that they will
start being faithful when they get married- Word
of Advise (You can never teach an old dog new
tricks) That is why they are so many broken
families because people think they still have
time to adjust. Start practicing being true to
yourself when no one is watching u because
that's who you really are.
Besides its by nature that what goes around
comes around- Do you think the person that
you got out of a secret affair will stop just
because you are now with her/him?
Share if you agree and save someone's
marriage / relationship today....
bottom line......ALWAYS BE FAITHFUL TO
YOUR PARTNER

Nice one up there op.

You've said it all ,this is one reason why most people keep asking for a second chance when caught cheating because they suddenly realize how much they stand to loose and of course the people they mostly cheat with can't put up with them for two months in most cases.

I'd prefer that people should hold onto that which they are sure of rather than running after a mirage. It is usually a wild goose chase but for those that are still blinded by greed, lust and blind adventure everything you've written here will fall on deaf ears until it is too late.

Then it is usually too late.

Wow! Am so loving this. Op you've got a great mindset. And to my fellow nlanders,this is so true. Imagine the beautiful life we would all be living if we can only stay true to our spouses. My grand father did it,my father did it,and Lord Reps is also doing it...

these smaller forms of cheating r often d worse, dey just nibble ur relationship to death

dammm married men are fond of cheating, stop cheating!!!

...It takes the grace of God....

...Most people cheating or who cheated on their spouse are usually victims of circumstances....

...Thats why i dont usually tell people i trust myself when it comes to some issues....I am both flesh and blood...Thats my major and strongest weakest...

...I pray for the grace....

..If its by my determination and strong believe, i know i cant cheat on my spouse...I know i ll stay faithful....

hmmmm