emma4much4u: I'm really confused and I need candid advices As the wedding day draws closer,I just feel more uncomfortable. My feelings for her is getting thinner by the day.And I don't want to hurt her..

Hollyb: please think it tru very well o, its not gud to be a heartbreaker but if you've thought it tru and you are deeply convinced dat you can't go tru wit the wedding, find a way of explainin to her calmly because a broken engagement is better than a broken marriage.

Hollyb: please think it tru very well o, its not gud to be a heartbreaker but if you've thought it tru and you are deeply convinced dat you can't go tru wit the wedding, find a way of explainin to her calmly because a broken engagement is better than a broken. marriage.

Nutase: It happens to almost every guy but very few are bold enough to say it.
Work on your psyche by meditating on the things u luv about her and avoid hanging out with girls u have had something with or those u are tempted to toast.
Lastly, be weary about who advices you because you are very vulnerable now. Any wrong advice to u or action by u now can cause u a lifetime of regrets.
Wish you well.

hushmail: its normal to get jittery n cold feet as d day approaches

only u can truly answer how u feel

if d feeling is not there, then its not. No 2 ways abt dat

hushmail: its normal to get jittery n cold feet as d day approaches

only u can truly answer how u feel

if d feeling is not there, then its not. No 2 ways abt dat

Adexxx007: Mtchew.... The so called feelings you have for her didnt ebb when you proposed to her oo... My advice for you, put ya self in her shoes

Janeify: You ave alreadystated your intentions. Whats the need for advices?Heaven knows that you are no longer interested and the beautiful thing here is that we are in a free world.call unto God,the author and finisher of our faith,follow your heart but don't forget to take your brain along with you.its of no importance marrying her and making your house a living hell for her,when you Don't love someone, itsalways hard to force. yyourself and even if you force yourself it wouldn't result to anything. Call her as a. friend and pour your heart out as a bestfriend,what ever reaction she may take,just make sure that you come out clear and clean.clear conscience fears no accusation they say and Goodluck!

amdman: You are in that place where a lot of guys find themselves as the wedding day draws closer and closer, particularly when it has been a long relationship. I assure you that you are not alone in the game of second-guessing yourself. These same thoughts will also crop up when you get married regardless of the person. On some days, you will probably wonder why you married this person. To me, it is a perfectly normal emotion.

However, the key lies in reassuring yourself that you have made the right choice. Love is a choice, therefore, Focus on those things you so love about her and the things that first drew you to her. This will aid in positively reinforcing your love for her.

Except she has serious character defects, there is no wisdom in ending the engagement, because you wilk feel exactly like this the next time you approach the altar. I know, because am married.

jennylove7575: Don't force yourself into a marriage u ain't sure of. Do not marry out of self pity or sentiments..in short, discuss ur feelings with her at least let her know your fears and worries. .this relationship things sef.

emma4much4u: I'm really confused and I need candid advices As the wedding day draws closer,I just feel more uncomfortable. My feelings for her is getting thinner by the day.And I don't want to hurt her..

100Cents:

Paint a clearer picture.

1. Is the sex not good enough ?

2. Is she not a good home keeper ?

3. Is there a behaviour in her you detest ?

4. How long have you dated ?

5. When did you start feeling this way ?

From here we know if it is just COLDFEET..

emma4much4u: ..