During the weekend I paid a visit to a friend of mine & while there, a cousin sister of his came to break the news of her coming wedding. This conversation came up between them:
Cousin Sister (CS): Big bros am actually here to inform u dat me & my fiance, we are taking our relationship to d next stage which is marriage & we are planning visiting both of our parents to do the needful & choosing of date for our wedding.
My Guy (MG): Really! this is a good news, congrats.
CS: Thanks
MG: hmm... my sister hope both of u are really set to embark on this journey
CS: haba! big bros... yes of course we are more than set.
MG: well am asking base on experience as a married man... by the way 've you both answered some of the important questions about marriage?
CS: big bros abeg na wish questions be important questions of marriage...
MG:okay... have u asked your fiance of what he will do if all of your offspring's happens to be one kind of sex... say girls?
CS: no we never discussed such probability
MG: what of if your union have delayed child bearing or no issue at all?
CS God forbid... bros are you wishing me bad & why are u being negative
MG: am not wishing you bad nor being negative but this are some of the realities & eventuality of marriage.


So back to my topic, please fellow nairalanders, especially the experienced married ones & marriage counselors, what are the questions one need to ask his/her intending life partner before getting married.
I really want to learn so do others who are yet to marry like me.
Thanks.

BRB

Questions of Life....

How could they not have discussed and agreed on such ALL IMPORTANT issues.

Seriously, intending couples should ensure they have proper understanding of what each party wants out of the marriage.

This is to avoid future friction. It's even better to have a signed document stating their agreements.

For example, before I married my wife, we both agreed that she would give me 11 Boys.

As an avid supporter of the following clubs:
Arsenal, Chelsea, Man U Liverpool, Mancity, Barcelona, Real Madrid, Athletico, Bayern, Borussia D, and PSG, I will ensure that each of my sons play for one of these clubs.

We are currently on the 4th son.

Any girl she gives me in-between will join the SUPER FALCONS.

waiting patiently...

Instead of asking questions. . . .
Look at his/her academic, social and financial accomplishments.
The family background will tell you all you need to know.
Simple!

I don't bother asking questions. What I need to know are in YOUR ACTIONS AND HOW YOU LIVE YOUR LIFE!
You can't fake those!

Unionised: BRB

Questions of Life....

How could they not have discussed and agreed on such ALL IMPORTANT issues.

Seriously, intending couples should ensure they have proper understanding of what each party wants out of the marriage.

This is to avoid future friction. It's even better to have a signed document stating their agreements.

For example, before I married my wife, we both agreed that she would give me 11 Boys.

As an avid supporter of the following clubs:
Arsenal, Chelsea, Man U Liverpool, Mancity, Barcelona, Real Madrid, Athletico, Bayern, Borussia D, and PSG, I will ensure that each of my sons play for one of these clubs.

We are currently on the 4th son.

Any girl she gives me in-between will join the SUPER FALCONS.

lolz... ur wife na baby-making machine
but u make sense.

ideyhere:

Op are you dating somebodyelse's husband?

babe am a Man & I no be gay

Key Questions:
What is your name

Who fine pass Ini Edo or Tonto Dike?

What is your mileage?

If you like ask am all the question wey dey dis world, the most important question you need to ask a girl BEFORE you marry her is "WILL U MARRY ME?" Which other question wan important pass that 1?

Well what I believe is that there should be sacrifises and understanding between the 2 parties, most scenerio u may ask her b4 marriage may not play out.

clemigho:
babe am a Man & I no be gay

Sorry I realized that...that's why I modified the post

ideyhere:

Sorry I realized that...that's why I modified the post

apology gladly accepted

clemigho:
apology gladly accepted

Tanku