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One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Toks2008(m): 3:47pm On Nov 30, 2015 |
It is no longer a new thing that after graduation of a male child from a tertiary institution,there is so much expectation from him especially the one whose parents are from a very humble background and had to make huge financial sacrifices. After graduation,this male child is expected to do his best as regards the ability to provide for himself,his aging parents and also prepare to start a family and we all know the financial demands that come with marriage ceremonies. As if this is not enough for the male child,the female folks who have spent years in tertiary institutions to have a sound intellect and ought to be a succor in terms of encouragement and financial support have become an additional burden. Please understand this...there is absolutely nothing bad for a lady be a graduate or not to want,hope or desire a rich or financially ok guy...which lady will not want that? But it gets even crazier by the day cos most of those ladies who have no opportunity of bagging a degree are unbelievably hard working as we can see many of them doing one thing or the other legitimately to be financially independent while many acclaimed graduates just hope for one unfortunate maga to buy them..how sad. Ok lets take a look at this..In Nigeria,both the male and the female child go to the same private or public schools right from nursery to tertiary levels,we had the same educational qualification because the last time i checked the University as well as polytechnic degrees are awarded to both male and female... We go through NYSC together and start looking for jobs in the same labor market in the same country.It is even easier for a female graduate to get jobs compared to the male folks yet these same ladies expect these same guys to be "financially ok" enough to take care of them HABBA! What happened to equal opportunity to be financially ok since we are faced with same economy conditions. What sought of magic are these ladies expecting the male folks to perform? It even becomes more unrealistic and wicked when ladies are looking for financially ok guys in their 20s and early 30s. This has made me conclude that its gradually becoming a waste of money and resources for some parents to send their daughters to school since they are likely to come out and dump the zeal and qualification just to start scouting for "financially ok guys" before they can think of making a headway for themselves in life. So if that is the case,there is no need to get a degree since they don't need that to get a rich guy as they can use their natural body degree to achieve that thereby saving the parents hundreds of thousands of naira. So i am advising every Nigerian parent to ask their daughter this vital question before spending a dime on her tertiary education and beg her to tell them the truth... "Are you ready to go to school and acquire a degree to become self reliant financially or are you nursing the thought of going to school and latter come out to start looking for a rich guy or financially ok guy"? Be observant to the way she answers and make up your mind. Odiegwu. 122 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Nobody: 3:54pm On Nov 30, 2015 |
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Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Nobody: 5:33pm On Nov 30, 2015 |
LOL, na wah oh. |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Toks2008(m): 6:09pm On Nov 30, 2015 |
Teempakguy: Not funny at all and this is why i tell guys looking for commitments to tell any lady who asks him what he does that he is jobless and just trying to get another job even if he is the MD of shell..If she loses interest in you please don't push it..you need a wife and not a leech. 88 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Toks2008(m): 7:16pm On Nov 30, 2015 |
STFUareyouGod:lol..as in? |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Nobody: 7:23pm On Nov 30, 2015 |
Toks2008:just don't think whatever answer she gives will mean anything 5 Likes |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Toks2008(m): 8:37pm On Nov 30, 2015 |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Mznaett: 8:40pm On Nov 30, 2015 |
y |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Laveda(f): 8:40pm On Nov 30, 2015 |
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Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Nobody: 8:46pm On Nov 30, 2015 |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by DNameisOla(f): 10:03pm On Nov 30, 2015 |
As d saying goes, a lady always want to marry someone like her father or better than her father. So, when a lady says she wants a guy dts financially ok, she just want some dt will be better dan her or shld I say, someone she can look up to. Its nt just because she's a leech, mind you. 31 Likes 1 Share |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Toks2008(m): 10:47pm On Nov 30, 2015 |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Raalsalghul: 11:01pm On Nov 30, 2015 |
Toks2008:I love this! 10 Likes |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Toks2008(m): 7:50pm On Dec 07, 2015 |
Raalsalghul: I will definitely ask my daughter this. 5 Likes |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Nobody: 9:27pm On Dec 07, 2015 |
Ah this is lubbish o. What if she doesn't plan on getting a job, so you won't pay for her secondary school education either? Where do you draw the line? And what's to say that girls with a tonnn of education still don't want to marry "a rich man" and sit at home all day? How does it affect you? You as their future father should just do your duty and pay for the highest level of education they can/want to attain. They can work out the rest in their matrimonial houses. Honestly, all of you that are screaming 'yes yes' over here probably don't have any kids yet so I'm not so surprised. 17 Likes |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Toks2008(m): 8:36pm On Dec 08, 2015 |
MrsPhyno: Ifahia? I must ask her not because i wont send her to school anyways but just to pass a message to her. 6 Likes |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Rukkydelta(f): 4:09pm On Dec 18, 2015 |
I don't know why ? I just don't like reading the op's topics because they always get me annoyed. Please let the female gender be 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Toks2008(m): 6:08pm On Dec 18, 2015 |
Rukkydelta: I can show you the way to the lagos lagoon. You dont like my threads yet you keep visiting them. What is my own with ladies?im only stating the obvious and i sense its touching somewhere in you. 42 Likes |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Nobody: 6:10pm On Dec 18, 2015 |
Rukkydelta: Nah, these guys can't have enough of us |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Rukkydelta(f): 6:14pm On Dec 18, 2015 |
Toks2008: Yes some of your topics touches me by getting me angry cos you see female's as objects 14 Likes |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Nobody: 6:14pm On Dec 18, 2015 |
And you think the girl child would be sincere with her response? Heck no!! Ask me such question and i will so impressed you with a response you never imagined. 3 Likes |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Rukkydelta(f): 6:22pm On Dec 18, 2015 |
hoes69getwifed: When i saw a thread about most of nl guys being saddist i kind of agree with it. I wonder why they will just create threads to attack ladies,everytime ladies this...ladies that... time that supposed to be use for something important. I also see threads where ladies attack guys but the guys threads are more 10 Likes |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Toks2008(m): 6:25pm On Dec 18, 2015 |
Rukkydelta: Lol then you have been reading my threads wrongly..next time ask questions and i will clarify..my threads will do you great good if you comprehend very well. 9 Likes |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Toks2008(m): 6:27pm On Dec 18, 2015 |
Jolllyjoy: At least the message would have been passed to her subconcious mind. 1 Like |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Rukkydelta(f): 6:28pm On Dec 18, 2015 |
Toks2008: thank you, some of your threads are good but others i can't say 1 Like |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Toks2008(m): 6:35pm On Dec 18, 2015 |
Rukkydelta: Good..though you look sweet but im more drawn to your decorum cos unlike many nairaland ladies who would have lashed out,you just comported yourself respectfully which shows your level of discipline.keep it up. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Ishilove: 6:39pm On Dec 18, 2015 |
Oga o, Toks I always admire your articles but this one is way off. Completely offpoint 2 Likes |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Genea(f): 6:46pm On Dec 18, 2015 |
This is an absolute trash 8 Likes |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Rukkydelta(f): 6:49pm On Dec 18, 2015 |
Toks2008: I guess I don't have time for e-fights that won't profit me anything |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Nobody: 7:35pm On Dec 18, 2015 |
Ishilove: I swear. The offpoint reminds me of my students in AKS that year, I would try so hard to read meaning, when I don't see any. I just use my red biro to cancel the work . Even if toks creates a thread on rapture, trust me _ he would have a way of dragging females into it. Wetin dey pain me pass be say, create a thread on careers, you would never see some of this Romanceland voltrons there. When do these kinda guys even hustle the money that babe would leech on? 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Ishilove: 7:53pm On Dec 18, 2015 |
Kachisbarbie:My sister e taya me. I was just reading what he wrote and grimacing. Ahn Ahn, the tin no even gel at all. It seems our guy is a misogynist 6 Likes |
Re: One Question To Ask your Girl-child Before Investing On Her Tertiary Education. by Nobody: 8:29pm On Dec 18, 2015 |
Kachisbarbie:Very true. The thread I created few hours ago will attest to this fact. |
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