In life, when you are in a relationship there is no how one won't see or meet guys/girls that will be finer or better than the person you're dating, in some areas. But, should one keep falling for every guy or girl cos of that, then you are LOOSE or CONFUSED! And if you are the type that base everything on looks or on the size of one's wallet, then you will end up dating all the fine guys and girls in town. Cos, dem plenty and dem full everywhere. You're with someone cos of his or her special personality. Cos everybody is special in his/her own way. So, stay in one place, and keep your eyes and your heart only for your partner. Stop drifting, stop messing around and making a mess of everything. There are people who tend to get confused or infatuated whenever they meet a guy or girl that is finer or better than their partner. And before you know it, they don begin date the new person despite being in a relationship. Some could as a result, break up with their partner cos of that. If you're like that, you will never be satisfied/fulfilled in your relationship. Cos, nobody is perfect. And there is nobody that can claim to be the most beautiful or finest person around. The person you are with, is beautiful/fine and special in his or her own ways. And forgive me for saying this, girls are usually guilty of doing this. Most of them keep looking around even when they have a treasure in hand/at home. And this is one of the main causes of failed marriages or adultery in some homes. Since such is usually a relationship/marriage of convenience. And for those hopping about or double dating for the sake of not wanting to 'lose' everything. Biko, stop jumping around and soiling your image/destiny. For, no sane guy will ever leave you nor break your heart...if you are a 'good' girl! If you are waiting or looking for a perfect person to marry, then you no go marry at all. Cos, there is none that is perfect. We can only work together to make things better in our relationship or marriage. Sometimes, I wonder what girls really want. What are they looking for, that makes them jump from here to there...all the time?

First to comment..at last ..true talk

pretydiva: First to comment..at last ..true talk

I do believe you didn't read the post at all...

pretydiva: First to comment..at last ..true talk

I hope say you don receive alert....... Zeun must have paid some money into your account as your reward.

Maybe she lost her phone or money. So she is looking for it

this thread is a girls only thread!!

You write like some one on the verge of a break up or broken and expressing some contrite over it.well this piece of write up you put up is an everyday mannerism common amongst couple in a relationship.But sorry to say that its the " Guys" that do that most often..My experience with girls ( some) is that once she is postivly in love with u deep down,she means it.and no handsome guy,muscle tough guy or movie star can just whisk her away if and only if U play ur role quite well in a relationship..dont forget i mentioned " some" girls not all..
The guys ( some) who indulge in flirting around is due to the fact dt some guys are polygamus by nature,even if he has kim or angelina or even janet jackson deeply in love with him he will still flirt with other girls to test his wooing capacity
But in general any couple that practises what u put up in ur writeup is termed "greedy" and he/she will crash and end up with in a black hole of regret. Coz greed is a bottomless pit which exhust the person in an effortless search to satisfy his/ her desires but without ever reaching satisfaction.

@Mutuwa, we are still saying the same thing. And I'm not talking about anybody in particular. Its a general issue common among most guys and girls nowadays...

Epistle....

@Jideomowunmi, we are still saying the same thing

polymathic: I do believe you didn't read the post at all...

u dat read d post,cm n xplain it

MisterLongman: I hope say you don receive alert....... Zeun must have paid some money into your account as your reward.

wat can I do u 4?

pretydiva: u dat read d post,cm n xplain it

ok, that's good... I know you will ask this..
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