spikedcylinder:

This is sad.
He's probably doing it because he has no choice. I really don't know what to say as I haven't been in this situation before. What I don't like though is his rudeness.

Pele o.

plappville:

Is there no work in Nigeria taxi drivers dey make am oooo, he has choice but just been lazy.

plappville:

My eldest brother who is jobless keeps disturbing me to send him money monthly, i can't continue like this am already taking responbibility of mum and two younger once in whom are in higher institutions.

This old man wont just let me be, he keep sending me (sms) (txt) flash without control and call hubby when he is at work times without number ((( he will say tell ur OYIBO husband to send me money)))

He has a kid and can't even take care of his kid and wife, he is still living with mum, doesn't spend money on anything as mum does the shopping at home.

Does any of u have this kind of brother he even senior 5 persons befor me.

I am tired of him seeing me as his source of living, he plays pool with any money sent to him after he will ask for more by force.

Plz help ooooooo i am runing out of patient, this can't countinue.

JJYOU:

i wont say what i think of this man here. you have others ahead of you. you are a young girl with responsibility. he should take money from your other sister that is the unnamed business. you know what they are like. he thinks you make money like the other lady.

as others have said just take off your sim card and get a new one. you don't owe him. let him continue with his pools. as for him calling your hubby, get your mum to make him stop that. that is out of order. he should be ashamed of himself. this is abuse of priviledge. don't bother talking to him so he doesn't mis-quote you

[b]ifyalways[/b]change your numbers and your hubbys own,send him whatever you want/feel like giving him monthly without disclosing your number to him and keep praying for him.His your brother and you both are Africans,you really can't do much here

tRoOE:

[size=13pt]Your family is your family jare, help the guy with whatever u can 4 him to survive, do you think it easy for him, asking his little sister for money.
since you are in the position do so, why can't you help him, instead of bringing your family issue to nland

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H2O2:

Don't mind the girl. She's talking as if she's being asked to save the world. Crybaby.

no mind that yeye woman jare
Was she not the same person that created a thread a while ago, saying her sister is jealous of her

Some of u are talking rubish, i thought this is a family thread section, so what is wrong in posting about my family here do u know how many time he has been given money to start up a small business that he will end up playing pool with it >: Too much of everything is bad, i harly think for myself becos of his problem, this is a guy that dad spent all he has just to make him somebody, he dissapointed every1, i cant how many times he was expealed during collage, (a hen is a hen anywhere she goes) if u give him 1 million na pool go finish the money.

tRoOE:

[size=13pt]no mind that yeye woman jare
Was she not the same person that created a thread a while ago, saying her sister is jealous of her [/size]

H2O2:

Don't mind the girl. She's talking as if she's being asked to save the world. Crybaby.

plappville:


Yes i was the one, so what [b]if u are one of those lucky once that doesn't ve family stress count yourself lucky.[/b]stop doubting what people write here, i don't find fun writing about my family here is just that the stress was too much for me to bear.
Anyone who is in my shoe will understands better.

tRoOE:

[size=13pt]Even if they do, we know how to settle the situation without inviting the 3rd,4th e.t.c party into it.
Who said i doubted your story, all am saying is that, you should learn how to solve your family issue outside nland. when things were going fine with you and your brother back in Naija, or you want to denial the fact he has never helped, before you traveled abroad, now that things went sour you can here crying fowl.
Plz we has never been in your shoes, nor do i see them complaining about it
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whatever90:

@poster

first of all,anytime u open up a thread,u always or rather like shifting the blame to the other party,and then leave yourself blameless,ive noticed this,d last time it was ur sister,now ur brother,I'm not going to judge or insult him,or support u,like u want us to,no way,because i don't know d full story

@topic

what is ur husband saying about this?

tRoOE:

gbam, she said it all