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Re: How Does One Manage A Verbally Abusive Wife by Masive01(m): 5:42pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
egopersonified: 1. Dont reply when she is verbally abusing you, it would just give her more to say. Probably the best thing i will read this week. I'm happy that someone oozes positivism and pro-activity. I believe that the wife was not abusive before marriage and so something changed. It's always easier to push blames and change focus, to play defensive and all....but brother - you are the 50% reason of her abusiveness. So please, sit down, use a pen and paper and copy out what @egopersonified has posted to you. Past it on your wall, read it like you're preparing to write an exam. Make it your daily creed after prayers. As a matter of fact, your wife needs you more than you realise. And she even loves you - she just victimizes the love by her expressions of abuse. And you, you deserve more than just walking away because she's abusing you, and it's a bit demeaning that you are looking for ways to "manage" her (she's not a property). I hope you realise all of this asap. Goodluck! 1 Like |
Re: How Does One Manage A Verbally Abusive Wife by egopersonified(f): 6:40pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
Dein77, marriage is not meant to be endured, believe things can turn around for good AND work at it. You say she started since 2011, did something happen then? What is that issue that is making her go gaga? Please, just try to make some sacrifices so she can see that you really want the marriage to work. Even if you want to quit, try all you can and know you did your best. 3 Likes |
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