Ladies in the house, am I over reacting or just been jealous.when your hubby is been nice to every other woman.He is the one that offers to drop them at home after work, he wld give them money, sometimes even quarrells me over them when I complain of his over niceness, always saying his nice to everyone.listens to the women patiently outside but when am depressed or complain about anything at home he wld call me names.
Am more of d quiet type but when I want to talk, I go the extreme mile.
Experienced wives in the house how do u manage such?
No insults Pls but say the hard truth.
Thank

I can relate to this, in fact just dis evening a colleague of ours gave birth, he ran there after I requested to go with him he refused, for reasons best to him.this d same woman he always dropped at home during her pregnancy but I was never against that as she was pregnant.we went for a birthday party and do u know he was almost begging to drop off a colleague, as in I was so so pissed.To me if your nice to me at home and you are to every woman outside it's off no use.

Charity should begin at home

There are people like that. They please everyone except their own. Little or nothing u can do. It's their nature.

If him no nice u go still talk abi ma

He is a people pleaser.

As



much as I know I am not married but definately will be, I believe I am
matured enough to add to this. Firstly, you should know that there isn't
more to your husband being kind to other women, judging with what he
does. But you have to be careful with the way you go extra miles when
talking to him about what he is doing BECAUSE he may be unware o' what
he is doing and might be thinking the opposite o' what you are seeing
so, you don't end up pushing him more into what he is doing. Secondly,
those women he is being nice to will not mistake it for something else,
Amen. That should be your prayer point. Your marriage will grow sweeter
and stronger, always and forever. Be good

You could try by jokingly telling him he's neglecting you while he's being nice to others,he might not really know what he's doing to you or how he's making you feel,look for subtle ways to tell him,don't scream or yell,or he'll just think you're mean and unfair.

you too be nice to every other man, or what are we supposed to do for you here.

I know his kind. Always playing the nice guy outside and being 'himself' with you at home. It's not going to work...there will be fire on the mountain!


For starters: ask for whatever you want outside too since he functions better outdoor By outside, I meant in front of those others he impresses so well.

And thirdly, avoid reading most post here twice so, you don't regret your marriage. Nairalanders ken be highly frustrating. Please, do not think much

Some people are just like that,Master pleaser.

We call it "eye service".

Your hubby suffers from inferiority complex,hiding it by being Mr Nice guy.

He's a double life fellow.

Gaggi: There are people like that. They please everyone except their own. Little or nothing u can do. It's their nature.

True.

But when he was dating you he was buying you gifts and dropping you off and being generous to you and you described him to your friends and roommates as a gentleman and nice man because you were enjoying it then abi?. Now he married you and you want to change him? Why didn't you quit then when you saw the signs that he was a generous man? Sometime I wonder why people think that the partners they are dating will change after marriage?

* sighs *

Anoda wan don come o

My husband dis. . . . My husband that!
Marriage is not a JAIL-SENTENCE!
You are being too suffocating.

I can really see why your husband avoids you.
Your own too much abeg!


Go to your room and stay there!

bigheart2013: But when he was dating you he was buying you gifts and dropping you off and being generous to you and you described him to your friends and roommates as a gentleman and nice man because you were enjoying it then abi?. Now he married you and you want to change him? Why didn't you quit then when you saw the signs that he was a generous man? Sometime I wonder why people think that the partners they are dating will change after marriage?

Maybe your hand wrote this while you were sleeping. When you wake up please read what your hand wrote

moreeni: I know his kind. Always playing the nice guy outside and being 'himself' with you at home. It's not going to work...there will be fire on the mountain!


For starters: ask for whatever you want outside too since he functions better outdoor By outside, I meant in front of those others he impresses so well.

hahahahaha, u r wicked o!!!