Make i eat dis food 1st

Make i eat dis food 1st

where is the source.....i have seen this somewhere before

Awesome post! I'm a victim but neva again do i let ingrates take my gentility for stupidity! It's fire for fire...the boy is good "apa niwon npe be"

I realy need this @ the moment. Thanks
Time for setting boundaries.

I love this thread

lampardizik: where is the source.....i have seen this somewhere before

and so fukcning what....haba
Why are there so many foolish people like u everywhere

What is the relevance of this Ur nonsensical comment to the subject matter at hand

I have learnt the hard way that it's naive to try being good,nice and kind all the time. People often tend to take you for granted. Irascible and rumbustious individuals are better appreciated. Some people don't deserve nice people in their lives, sincerely.

noted

lampardizik: where is the source.....i have seen this somewhere before

You most likely saw it on this forum. Not exactly this though. I posted a similar topic here before Nairaland was hacked. OK now?

*grabs popcorn and #20 zobo*i am so following this thread.

Thank you. I needed to read this.

*grabs popcorn and #20 zobo*i am so following this thread.

Clemzy16: This stuff have been on front page before..

yap...all d posters 4 first page dy book space God dy watch

Such is life..gud guys are taken for granted and d bad guys are loved..any opportunity u get straf d bitch..one gud turn deserves anoda ..everyday for the thief one day for d owner of d hauz.

Be a nice guy for too long and one day you would find the world kneading your balls like a Rubik's square.

This was one of the thread hackers wiped of.. well done op!

Stop preaching selfishness, my friend.

The greatest men/women ever lived are those that sacrificed their need/life for others.

Jesus
Martin Luther
Ghandi
Mary Slezor
Bhuda,
Nelson Mandela
Kwame Krumah e.t.c

''if you want to be great you must serve others''... Jesus Christ.

There's nothing wrong in helping others.

There's nothing wrong in sacrificing for a moment so others may be be happy.

There's nothing wrong in sacrificing your own need, if helping others meet their need will mean greater good.

When people are on their dying beds do you know their two biggest regrets?.

1. Not pursuing their dream.
2. Not doing enough to help others.

I will keep giving, as long as I have.

The op is discussing me.

Nicely said . Well done, OP.

musicwriter: Stop preaching selfishness, my friend.

I will keep giving, as long as I have.

I knew someone would come up with this.

You did not fully comprehend the post. Even before I started out, I made it clear that there is nothing wrong in being generous. In fact the world is a better place with more generous people. But always giving at your own expense and always having to say yes to people's demands when you know it's to your detriment is not good. Sometimes always helping others makes them irresponsible.
Jesus had boundaries. Did you ever read in the Scriptures where it said that Jesus would not entrust himself to men because he knew all men?
This is not encouraging selfishness. It's about applying wisdom in dealing with people.

You may want to read the post again.

musicwriter: Stop preaching selfishness, my friend.

The greatest men/women ever lived are those that sacrificed their need/life for others.

Jesus
Martin Luther
Ghandi
Mary Slezor
Bhuda,
Nelson Mandela
Kwame Krumah e.t.c

''if you want to be great you must serve others''... Jesus Christ.

There's nothing wrong in helping others.

There's nothing wrong in sacrificing for a moment so others may be be happy.

There's nothing wrong in sacrificing your own need, if helping others meet their need will mean greater good.

When people are on their dying beds do you know their two biggest regrets?.

1. Not pursuing their dream.
2. Not doing enough to help others.

I will keep giving, as long as I have.

The OP has not said do not give.
He said give with BOUNDARIES such that you do not hurt yourself for relations & friends who do NOT need ETERNAL crutches since they are not permanently DISABLED.

Why is that so difficult to understand

Akikanju t'oba mọ ija ti ko ba mọ isa, iruwọn a ma ba ogun ẹlomi lọ ni - A brave warrior who knows how to fight but does not know when to stop fighting will die fighting ANOTHER man's battle.

#Nuff_Said

Word.

eleojo23:
I knew someone would come up with this.

You did not fully comprehend the post. Even before I started out, I made it clear that there is nothing wrong in being generous. In fact the world is a better place with more generous people. But always giving at your own expense and always having to say yes to people's demands when you know it's to your detriment is not good. Sometimes always helping others makes them irresponsible.
Jesus had boundaries. Did you ever read in the Scriptures where it said that Jesus would not entrust himself to men because he knew all men?
This is not encouraging selfishness. It's about applying wisdom in dealing with people.

You may want to read the post again.

In practice, nobody gives without boundaries, so, I understand everything you've said. And, no matter what you think, it's better to give than not. The benefit of giving out-weighs not giving. Giving makes you happy and younger.

They tagged me mother christmas in secondary school, cos my provisions were food for all

This is very insightful and is coming at the moment I need it most. Thanks very much OP for this. My BP has been on the constant rise due to the spiraling need2give drive in my veins. I always feel like the entire world is my responsibility to fix and that its only in giving that I am receiving these excesses. Who feels it, knows it.

musicwriter: Stop preaching selfishness, my friend.

The greatest men/women ever lived are those that sacrificed their need/life for others.

Jesus
Martin Luther
Ghandi
Mary Slezor
Bhuda,
Nelson Mandela
Kwame Krumah e.t.c

''if you want to be great you must serve others''... Jesus Christ.

There's nothing wrong in helping others.

There's nothing wrong in sacrificing for a moment so others may be be happy.

There's nothing wrong in sacrificing your own need, if helping others meet their need will mean greater good.

When people are on their dying beds do you know their two biggest regrets?.

1. Not pursuing their dream.
2. Not doing enough to help others.

I will keep giving, as long as I have.

this is how i have always think, feel. Jesus came to this world to die for me so i should help other give, when others don't have. what has it brought me name calling , hatred, bt since i have decided to follow the ways of the world an eye for an eye. Nobody dears me or else you see the other part of me. in nutshare i don't see any thing wrong with what the op post

D word "NO" i no dey fear or shame to use am 4 long,@op, thanks