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9 Secrets Women Never Tell Their Men by msmon(m): 1:02pm On Sep 16, 2014
Women are known to be very open and extremely talkative creatures in
comparison with men. But you`ll get
surprised that not only men have some things to hide, but women also have some secrets. There is a mystery in every woman for a man to clear up.But unfortunately, only a few of them succeed. Though it is not that complicated to understand a woman, men have great difficulties with it. So here are some women`s secrets which I hope will help you to clear up the
situation.

1. We want men to take initiative

It is a very important thing. We do not like to take care, to plan and to do allsorts of things by ourselves. We want men to take initiative. Though, we never tell about it, you should know that it is important that you carry out some difficult tasks or surprise us.
When a man takes initiative it means
that he is involved, that he is attentive and caring. Do it more often, no matter what kind of thing it is – list of stuff to buy, or prepare dinner, or plan your next holiday.

2. We want to be surprised more
often

All women go crazy with surprises, so we secretly dream about our partner to show his creativity and to astonish us as frequently as possible. Even a small unexpected sweet trifle will make a woman feel special and loved.
It shouldn’t be an expensive gift,
simply showing your initiative, concern and deep affection are priceless. It is not difficult, just be open and careful to your lady. When she realizes the fact that some effort has been taken to make her feel happy, you will be soon
rewarded.

3. We are afraid that another
women attract him more

It is a hidden fear among most women that other women in their man`s life, coworkers or female friends, may attract him more. The reason for it is quite simple, we all want to have something that we can`t have. So women are afraid that their man`s heart may be stolen or he will start fantasizing about another woman.
There is nothing worse for a woman
than that.

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Re: 9 Secrets Women Never Tell Their Men by msmon(m): 1:13pm On Sep 16, 2014
4. We want men to be sincere

Every person wants his\her partner to be always open and sincere no matter what. Nobody likes being fooled. And, of course, women are no exception. We can forgive a lot of things but not lies.
Irrespective of the situation or how
bad your fault is, a woman will always hear you out and even help you to solve the problem.

5. We notice and understand body
language

Women are known to have a sixth
sense, especially if it concerns
relationships. We always notice and
analyze all small details in another
person, and that includes body
language of our partners. So we
usually are aware of his sympathy to a colleague, which we have never met.
Once we notice something suspicious, it starts bothering us, though we may not be even aware of what exactly annoys us. And if a woman suspects something, she will be very upset when her man doesn`t spend time with her but stays in the office.

6. We agree with “Guy Time”

That is another secret that only a few men know about. A lot of women actually agree with “guy time”. We understand perfectly well that our husbands, boyfriends need some space for themselves, and that it is very important for them to spend some time with friends, watching football matches, drinking beer or playing various kinds of games. The only problem here may be when a woman feels lack of attention, while a man focuses only on spending time with
friends.
Re: 9 Secrets Women Never Tell Their Men by msmon(m): 1:41pm On Sep 16, 2014
7. We want their friends to like us

No woman will say this out loud. But it is so. His friends are very important for our men, so we want them to like us. This means that we want to show how we love our partner and what a beautiful person he is. Such tendency also helps to avoid unnecessary conflicts and arguments if we don`t like the friends or vice versa. Another
reason for that is that his friends`
sympathy for you will influence your
partner`s decisions in various ways,
which is, of course, to our advantage.

8. We need space

If a woman tells that she needs space, it doesn’t mean that she doesn’t want to see you so don’t get in your car and drive away for hours. She just wants understanding. Your girlfriend or wife wants you to know that she has
important things to do and you need to assume that she really means what she says.

9. We want them to be honest

Every woman wants her man to be
honest. So if your woman looks fat in that dress, don’t say “You look
gorgeous.” Women always know how
they look. Don’t be afraid to tell her
that she’s put on several pounds, but
still she looks amazing. Show your
woman that you love her for who she
is. You may even suggest her to
exercise together. She will definitely
appreciate your honest opinion.


So these are 9 things that women
usually keep in secret from their
partners, but should definitely know
about them. Sure, these are only a few things; the list may be much longer.
What do you usually hide from your
man? I`m eager to know, and I`m sure not only me!

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Re: 9 Secrets Women Never Tell Their Men by Iaz93: 1:49pm On Sep 16, 2014
yawns...

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Re: 9 Secrets Women Never Tell Their Men by 100Cents: 2:07pm On Sep 16, 2014
I dey come

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Re: 9 Secrets Women Never Tell Their Men by 100Cents: 2:09pm On Sep 16, 2014
Iaz93: yawns...

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Re: 9 Secrets Women Never Tell Their Men by Nobody: 2:24pm On Sep 16, 2014
Hmmmm. Alright!

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Re: 9 Secrets Women Never Tell Their Men by bishopjoe02(m): 2:41pm On Sep 16, 2014
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Re: 9 Secrets Women Never Tell Their Men by lexrichy(m): 2:44pm On Sep 16, 2014
Make i still yawn small

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Re: 9 Secrets Women Never Tell Their Men by LaRoyalHighness(f): 4:03pm On Sep 16, 2014
Where are the secrets abeg?
Re: 9 Secrets Women Never Tell Their Men by iamsegsy(m): 5:38pm On Sep 16, 2014
jeez!!!
see how the thread was derailed cheesy with funny comments cheesy grin

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Re: 9 Secrets Women Never Tell Their Men by gift01: 5:45pm On Sep 16, 2014
9 open women never told you cos me I don see all these before
Re: 9 Secrets Women Never Tell Their Men by Nobody: 6:01pm On Sep 16, 2014
Mcheeeeeeew!
PS: I'm not booking space!
Re: 9 Secrets Women Never Tell Their Men by Nobody: 7:18pm On Sep 16, 2014
@op,5 nd 6 on point...I luv attention,so it get me mad if my man deprive me of dt without any cogent reasons...
Re: 9 Secrets Women Never Tell Their Men by olorunthobby(f): 7:24pm On Sep 16, 2014
You bitches need to get real. When y'all
describe "The Perfect Man" it sounds like you
want an obedient dog instead of a boyfriend.
Re: 9 Secrets Women Never Tell Their Men by 100Cents: 8:47pm On Sep 16, 2014
To me number 3 should not be there.

You need to see how some ladies flirt on phone before their boyfriends but the bf on picking one simple call, she gets so uncomfortable...

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Re: 9 Secrets Women Never Tell Their Men by Nobody: 8:47pm On Sep 16, 2014
Why d yawning?abi na sleeping-sickness thread be dis.
@poster i totally agree wit u,as woman-wrapper wey i be.
Re: 9 Secrets Women Never Tell Their Men by checkdate(m): 12:49am On Sep 17, 2014
waiting for this other counter topic "9 Secrets Men Never Tell Their Women"
Re: 9 Secrets Women Never Tell Their Men by Nmeri17: 12:50am On Sep 17, 2014
Iaz93: yawns...
Re: 9 Secrets Women Never Tell Their Men by msmon(m): 10:27pm On Sep 17, 2014
MissMalia: @op,5 nd 6 on point...I luv attention,so it get me mad if my man deprive me of dt without any cogent reasons...

Hope u are not being deprived of that?
Re: 9 Secrets Women Never Tell Their Men by Nobody: 9:49am On Sep 18, 2014
msmon:

Hope u are not being deprived of that?
nt alwayz nd I undastand him tho....
Re: 9 Secrets Women Never Tell Their Men by lawrenceunaa: 12:48pm On Sep 18, 2014
op open thread and was still the 1st, 2nd and 3rd to comment cheesy

Op make i ask you tongue

Are u trice cheesy grin
Re: 9 Secrets Women Never Tell Their Men by kareenQueen: 12:55pm On Sep 18, 2014
msmon: Women are known to be very open and extremely talkative creatures in
comparison with men. But you`ll get
surprised that not only men have some things to hide, but women also have some secrets. There is a mystery in every woman for a man to clear up.But unfortunately, only a few of them succeed. Though it is not that complicated to understand a woman, men have great difficulties with it. So here are some women`s secrets which I hope will help you to clear up the
situation.

1. We want men to take initiative

It is a very important thing. We do not like to take care, to plan and to do allsorts of things by ourselves. We want men to take initiative. Though, we never tell about it, you should know that it is important that you carry out some difficult tasks or surprise us.
When a man takes initiative it means
that he is involved, that he is attentive and caring. Do it more often, no matter what kind of thing it is – list of stuff to buy, or prepare dinner, or plan your next holiday.

2. We want to be surprised more
often

All women go crazy with surprises, so we secretly dream about our partner to show his creativity and to astonish us as frequently as possible. Even a small unexpected sweet trifle will make a woman feel special and loved.
It shouldn’t be an expensive gift,
simply showing your initiative, concern and deep affection are priceless. It is not difficult, just be open and careful to your lady. When she realizes the fact that some effort has been taken to make her feel happy, you will be soon
rewarded.

3. We are afraid that another
women attract him more

It is a hidden fear among most women that other women in their man`s life, coworkers or female friends, may attract him more. The reason for it is quite simple, we all want to have something that we can`t have. So women are afraid that their man`s heart may be stolen or he will start fantasizing about another woman.
There is nothing worse for a woman
than that.

so true
Re: 9 Secrets Women Never Tell Their Men by Truckpusher(m): 2:36pm On Sep 18, 2014
Women are the most insecure being I have ever seen in my entire life....................And woe betides you that a woman should love you that's the day you've lost all your freedom. cheesy





For all of you wanting to be loved by a woman think twice before you end up making yourself unhappy for as long as she's willing to stick around you. grin
Re: 9 Secrets Women Never Tell Their Men by princesstemi(f): 2:43pm On Sep 18, 2014
Jesus see them oooo grin but seriously what's bad if men can give all dat to women undecided just thinking
Re: 9 Secrets Women Never Tell Their Men by msmon(m): 3:09pm On Sep 18, 2014
Mod, why not put this thread on FP.?
Re: 9 Secrets Women Never Tell Their Men by msmon(m): 3:28pm On Sep 18, 2014
princesstemi: Jesus see them oooo grin but seriously what's bad if men can give all dat to women undecided just thinking

Pls kindly add me on bbm 22b03c26
Re: 9 Secrets Women Never Tell Their Men by Dolcilicious(f): 3:55pm On Sep 18, 2014
So true smiley
Re: 9 Secrets Women Never Tell Their Men by Nobody: 5:16pm On Sep 18, 2014
princesstemi: Jesus see them oooo grin but seriously what's bad if men can give all dat to women undecided just thinking
hmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Re: 9 Secrets Women Never Tell Their Men by Oahray: 5:20pm On Sep 18, 2014
4) We want men to be sincere.
9) we want them to be honest.

Pray, tell... What's the difference?
Re: 9 Secrets Women Never Tell Their Men by jennylove7575(f): 5:47pm On Sep 18, 2014
Repetition of old past topics....oyibo thinz

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