28yr old Angela, a campus fellowship pastor finds it difficult to say "I luv u" to 32yr old Mike who is her fiancée. When she was asked why, she said "I don't want to mislead my fellowship members" this made mike feel terrible and is driving him to seek answers to these questions: .
- Does it mean he's being tolerated in this relationship?
- As a Christian, is it a sin to be in a relationship before marriage?
- Is it morally ok to keep doing something you ain't. Proud of doing in public?
- Is it wrong for a Christian to say "I luv u"...?
Mike is confused and emotionally down at the moment and to make matters worse, I don't know what to say to him cos I fear I might and patrol to the fire.
Please Christian friends, what do you all have to say about this.
God bless you all for your contributions.

If it does not feel right to you then do not do it. But it is okay to be in love with someone before marriage if you intend to marry that someone later and do so. God is the witness. There is nothing to be afraid of because he is the one who forgives all of our sins and love is not a sin as said by Jesus Christ. Just make it civil in public. Good luck to both of you.

depending on the denomination.
for me,i luv u is a virtue every christian should live by in words and action.

so its not wrong to be in a godly rship.it is not also wrong to say "i luv u"(though if it will make others sin,den watch it)

i play guitar for a church and d pastor pays me secretly.he doesnt want others to open their eyes to d fact dat i am payed to praise God.

^^^ In my opinion, I think that anything that has to be done secretly is not a good thing. Secret things don't go well with my conscience.

^^^^^ Then start aving s** with ur legal wife in d shopping mall

Adeoba10: ^^^^^ Then start aving s** with ur legal wife in d shopping mall

Sex with wife shld be left out of this. Cos everybody knows that a man and his wife does have sex weather Indoors or at your shopping mall. So there's no secret to it. Pls let's not derail the thread. God bless you.