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What Should I Do? Good Friends Advise Plss by JERRY1925(m): 4:57pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
Hi..actually I have these issue that keeps me thinking....I have these friend we've being together for more than a year..she's not dating am sure 90percent..we talk, spend late night chatting..but she like 30min drive away from me so we see like twice in a month..I've being talking to her about getting serious with us..but anytime I say that she tells me she's not ready, she's actually born again as she said..so I've been on dat long qui for like more than a year,recently we were kept in a lonely place and we had romance for the first time she's a virgin..a week after that I pleaded with her to date me..and she agreed with the term that there will be no romance and I agreed..but we saw last week and had romance again..and she actually initiated It..but after like 4hour wen we apart she sent a text that she can't continue..I'v been begging but she said we no longer possible..so now we just like frnds..but I do belive she cares 4 me..but said we can nevr be..we should just be friends...what should I do.? Hi..actually I have these issue that keeps me thinking....I have these friend we've being together for more than a year..she's not dating am sure 90percent..we talk, spend late night chatting..but she like 30min drive away from me so we see like twice in a month..I've being talking to her about getting serious with us..but anytime I say that she tells me she's not ready, she's actually born again as she said..so I've been on dat long qui for like more than a year,recently we were kept in a lonely place and we had romance for the first time she's a virgin..a week after that I pleaded with her to date me..and she agreed with the term that there will be no romance and I agreed..but we saw last week and had romance again..and she actually initiated It..but after like 4hour wen we apart she sent a text that she can't continue..I'v been begging but she said we no longer possible..so now we just like frnds..but I do belive she cares 4 me..but said we can nevr be..we should just be friends...what should I do.? Hi..actually I have these issue that keeps me thinking....I have these friend we've being together for more than a year..she's not dating am sure 90percent..we talk, spend late night chatting..but she like 30min drive away from me so we see like twice in a month..I've being talking to her about getting serious with us..but anytime I say that she tells me she's not ready, she's actually born again as she said..so I've been on dat long qui for like more than a year,recently we were kept in a lonely place and we had romance for the first time she's a virgin..a week after that I pleaded with her to date me..and she agreed with the term that there will be no romance and I agreed..but we saw last week and had romance again..and she actually initiated It..but after like 4hour wen we apart she sent a text that she can't continue..I'v been begging but she said we no longer possible..so now we just like frnds..but I do belive she cares 4 me..but said we can nevr be..we should just be friends...what should I do.? |
Re: What Should I Do? Good Friends Advise Plss by merit12(f): 5:09pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
Good question wait for johnny he is expert in such area The babe is still getting to know her self I think she is afraid of being hurt(shelikes you)from your writeup by allowing you to sleepwith her,sheis been careful andyou onthe other side you has fallen yakata in love with her To win her give her distances sherequired ,if she loves and wanted she will let you know In the mean time give her time (make he norbe say u dey at her command ,give your self value. If u toorun follow her you loose your value )so?? Let her call the shots 1 Like |
Re: What Should I Do? Good Friends Advise Plss by JERRY1925(m): 7:20pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
Thanks.. |
Re: What Should I Do? Good Friends Advise Plss by LogoDWhiz(m): 7:33pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
From your story, i can see that she likes but i think her religious belief doesn't support it, hence the pulling back. She tasted it and she saw that it is very sweet, but she knows if she continues that way, it won't end well. You can stick with her, both of you should be committed to each other but no romance. And things will work out. That's if you are patient tho. But if you are not patient, you can move on, forget the girl (woundn't be easy tho), start afresh. |
Re: What Should I Do? Good Friends Advise Plss by naijathings(m): 9:08pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
First of all.. How old are you guys? I don't wanna get into trouble for giving advice to an under-age dude. |
Re: What Should I Do? Good Friends Advise Plss by Charles4075(m): 9:21pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
Op, just give her some space and next time she initiates it don't fall for it. Keep your cool and tell her you'll wait for her till you put on a ring on her finger and she's rightly yours. The patient dog eats the fattest bone, remember? But if you can't do this, then I guess I'll just have to call mencade or Berrylin for help
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Re: What Should I Do? Good Friends Advise Plss by nanazeez(f): 9:27pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
merit12: Good question wait for johnny he is expert in such area |
Re: What Should I Do? Good Friends Advise Plss by JERRY1925(m): 6:14am On Sep 18, 2014 |
Right now, she said we can only be friends and dats wat kills m. |
Re: What Should I Do? Good Friends Advise Plss by mecussey(m): 7:33am On Sep 18, 2014 |
Always display confidence around the woman you like, don't ever beg for romance. They find it sexy and irresistable example, she initiated the last romance, went back and said no more. Just tell her no problem and don't talk further. Next time she is alone with you, initiate the romance somehow forceful, but if she gets angry and leave, allow her and say sorry, but don't apologize further. Continue doing it that way...she is just checking how much a man you are. Women do that sometimes unconsiously or invouluntarily, even the smallest of them. The secret is to mix gentle man with bad attitude. I don't know why they respond to that, but that's what works. |
Re: What Should I Do? Good Friends Advise Plss by Nobody: 8:04am On Sep 18, 2014 |
...She likes you alot....And she is scared... Scared of falling in love with you.....Scared of giving you her body once again.... Scared of giving too much.... Scared of losing you.... |
Re: What Should I Do? Good Friends Advise Plss by Tymax(m): 8:12am On Sep 18, 2014 |
temigracie: ...She likes you alot....And she is scared...Hmmm, is it me? Or is this a song? Nice lyrics though. |
Re: What Should I Do? Good Friends Advise Plss by Nobody: 8:20am On Sep 18, 2014 |
Tymax: lwkmd.... You are my source of inspiration, Pappy.... |
Re: What Should I Do? Good Friends Advise Plss by osemeka: 8:31am On Sep 18, 2014 |
She likes you but she ain't ready. Simply step up your game, work on yourself more. Give her a break, make other friends, and maybe get a job in an oil company while you're at it. |
Re: What Should I Do? Good Friends Advise Plss by MarshRiley(m): 8:34am On Sep 18, 2014 |
Something like this happened to me before I'll advice you let her go...STOP BEGGING I assure you she'll come back if she really loves you,if she doesn't come back move on,I know its hard but that's just it |
Re: What Should I Do? Good Friends Advise Plss by lawrenceunaa: 9:27am On Sep 18, 2014 |
just let her be for now she is just discovering her body is truely she is a virgin |
Re: What Should I Do? Good Friends Advise Plss by JERRY1925(m): 10:03am On Sep 18, 2014 |
Tanks..90% said I should give her space so I will...but If she calls what nxt?Tanks..90% said I should give her space so I will...but If she calls what nxt?Tanks..90% said I should give her space so I will...but If she calls what nxt? |
Re: What Should I Do? Good Friends Advise Plss by osemeka: 9:31pm On Sep 18, 2014 |
JERRY1925: Tanks..90% said I should give her space so I will...but If she calls what nxt?Tanks..90% said I should give her space so I will...but If she calls what nxt?Tanks..90% said I should give her space so I will...but If she calls what nxt?Well, maybe if she calls don't be so available, and keep it short. |
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