There has to be a reason why we like thrusting our face
into another’s.
A new study conducted among 900 men and women
has found that kissing plays a crucial role in human
courtship because it alerts us to “hidden biological
cues indicating the genetic fitness or desirability of a
potential mate”.
And here are the rules:
Check your breath
We know, discussing hygiene takes the punch out of
passion, but this is elementary. If your mouth smells
foul, you’ve lost round one even before you’ve begun.
Which is why you have toothbrushes, mouthwash
gargles and mint chewing gum. Keep your teeth, gums
and breath healthy. While this applies to both sexes,
it’s especially vital for men, because research has
proved that women depend on taste and smell in mate
evaluation.
Judge timing
Circumstance is a player, and context is key. Pick the
right moment. Is your partner keen to kiss you too?
Will they allow you into their personal space? It’s best
if you run an easy test. Deliver a friendly peck on her
neck or lift the hair out of her face. If she doesn’t
recoil, the signal’s green.
Focus on the job
There will always be distractions, but a good kisser is
one who shuts out the universe and stays in the
moment. Feel your breath mix with your partner’s. And
relax. Your lips can’t be tense. And keep the pressure
balanced. If it’s too light, you may come across as
lukewarm. If you push too hard, you are uncouth.
Use your imagination
Kissing is an important step in pre-intimacy, but you
needn’t make it obvious that it’s a means to an end. It
can’t be mechanical. And hit erogenous zones besides
the lips. For men, it varies from the nape of the neck
and back of knees to even nibbling of the ears. For the
ladies, a kiss on the inner thighs and a caress of the
wrists are equally turning on.
Match rhythm
Stellar kisses have gradations. They vary in spend and
pressure. They vary from gentle to passionate, with a
pause taken in between for breathing. React and reply
to your lover’s lip cues. Lead aggressively when they let
up; be the patient recipient when they are in the mood
to play choreographer. Remember to catch your
partner’s eye in a while. It can get annoying to have
someone pinch their eyelids shut each time they kiss. It
helps build an emotional connect.
Watch your hands
Use your hands. A kisser who moves nothing but the
lips comes across as frozen. But be aware of where
they are going. Clutching him/her by the waist close to
your groin suggests you mean business. Touching the
chin gently or fiddling with the other’s fingers is about
playfulness. Holding them firmly by the neck could
mean, “This one’s going to take a while”. Before you
allow them to stray anywhere else, make sure you are
in a position to take liberties. Ferociously clutching a
clump of hair isn’t permissible, unless it’s S&M you’ve
planned.
Debate tongue use
Some believe tongue use must end when you earn your
graduation degree, but there are those who swear by
its power. This one’s tricky and will take practice. No
one likes being suffocated with a tongue shoved down
the larynx, so make sure your tongue doesn’t exit your
mouth. Meeting the other at ‘gates’ is fine. The lick
can come to good use, especially when you run your
tongue over your lover’s slightly parted lips.


SOURCE : http://lovendating..com

All these steps just to kiss? Steps to identify green light, steps to take to walk up to her, tips to make her fall in love with u and if after all these steps/tips, she finally becomes ur girl , u'll still follow steps to kiss her? There must be steps in having s*x for such persons, so op U must open another thread for such steps .

Bottom-line is, these steps will not make her not to cheat on U or break ur heart once she makes up her mind without thinking twice about how good U are at kissing

all these procedures just to kiss ...na wah o