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Rules Of Engagement by megliz(f): 12:13pm On Sep 19, 2014
RULES OF ENGAGEMENT Exclusive for ladies
The rules of engagement are so serious that when you obey them , you end up marrying Mr Right and you enjoy a happy marriage. Your husband will love, respect and adore you. Those who break them in rare occasion when they get married, the marriage is problem from beginning to end. Rule 1 Ladies you have to be seen to be shown favor. You won't get your Mr Right in your little corner. Get off that bed , find something to do, get involved(remember a city on the hill cannot be hidden) that doesn't mean you should become an available commodity or start flirting.
Rule2 take care of your appearance, package yourself well. Remember men fall in love by what they see, and ladies fall in love by what they hear and thru their skin(for those who are uncontrollable and let men touch them.. Wonder why its always the cute girls always wearing nice cologne ,cute and fashionable dresses that get the guys?
Rule 3 don't give him too much give him space, don't spoil your date, reserve those good qualities for your husband , men love challenges, play hard to get but easy to live with. While you are playing wife for a man you think you want to marry he's busy hunting for other girls. ( many girls have lost it, they feel that's the best way to get a man but on the contrary , you will only be slowing down the man in his pursuit for your love.
Rule 4 don't meet a man and start telling him about how bad your family or any member of your family is , you will only be giving him a weapon to harm you.
Rule 5 Don't be too fast in opening up. Be Honest! But mysterious. Until there is some commitment in the relationship remain vague .
Rule 6 You don't move a man to propose by working towards commitment, parking into his house , sleeping with him. Don't make a man feel you're more interested in the marriage than him. Don't pressure him to marry , you loose him fast only few women have succeeded doing this but they end up regretting it after marriage. Rule 7. Don't expect a man to change or try to make him change. What you see in what you get. don't ever try to change a man, ( may be in his dressing, social habit, spiritual life, name it) Whatever he is doing before marriage is what he will keep doing. Infact, the law states that a man does NOT change. You don't have a happy marriage by wishing for something to happen but by accepting what you have seen so if u know you can't handle it..... What you don't want to see you don't watch.
Rule 8 Don't dump your burdens and all your problems on a man, He is not your therapist. They want somebody that will add value to them not a liability.
Rule 9 don't be all over him, let him long for you, truth is not all men value your time with them , they feel choked up.
Rule 10 Dress like a lady, Dress to attract not by exposing your body. Men like women so don't try to be a man.
Rule 11 Don't date a married man or expect him to leave his wife for you.
Rule12 . Don't be a big mouth, talk less listen more.
Rule 13 Don't date a man indefinitely time is value. You become too faithful and reserved for someone who has not reserved himself for you. At the end of the day he moves on and you're hurt. You wait for him to graduate he marries another person, you wait for him to come back from America , he returns and marries another girl. Remember men love space, don't choke them, they love privacy, women that are busy, women that can keep secrets, don't spy on him. These rules may seem like an uphill task but those who play by the rules enjoy a happy marriage.

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Re: Rules Of Engagement by Liability(m): 12:16pm On Sep 19, 2014
you keep mentionong my name megliz, wetin happen?
Re: Rules Of Engagement by megliz(f): 12:23pm On Sep 19, 2014
Hahahahhahahahaha, Oooh! Liability is it? Please don't let your name answer for u oo. Find a better name
Liability: you keep mentionong my name megliz, wetin happen?
Re: Rules Of Engagement by Liability(m): 12:26pm On Sep 19, 2014
megliz: Hahahahhahahahaha, Oooh! Liability is it? Please don't let your name answer for u oo. Find a better name
nice article you have here. If you want people to comment and read it.

Edit and make it a bit short. Put in the relevant points and item there.

Well liability is just my username. And i like it
Re: Rules Of Engagement by ggrin(f): 12:41pm On Sep 19, 2014
Liability: you keep mentionong my name megliz, wetin happen?
gringringrin

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Re: Rules Of Engagement by megliz(f): 1:53pm On Sep 19, 2014
Ok, points noted. Thanks
Liability: nice article you have here. If you want people to comment and read it.

Edit and make it a bit short. Put in the relevant points and item there.

Well liability is just my username. And i like it
Re: Rules Of Engagement by Charlesberry(m): 3:08pm On Sep 19, 2014
Some men change deir habit jor. Don't say men don't change!!!

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