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by motherlode: 10:43pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
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Re: by callmespices(f): 10:53pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
Try to be un shy, lol kidding I am facing the same issue too @op, but u just have to overcome it, being shy makes u overlook things even to the extent of not greeting pple around cos u feel "he might not respond or give me attitude" It's not easy, cos Av been dere, but force ur self, greet pple, gist wit pple u know maybe around, then u will find A way to overcome " shyness " |
Re: by herald9: 11:38pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
I saw a thread somewhere about shyness.. Go dig it out and help yourself |
Re: by Nobody: 12:16am On Sep 22, 2014 |
herald9: I saw a thread somewhere about shyness.. Go dig it out and help yourselfhey |
Re: by herald9: 12:22am On Sep 22, 2014 |
claireshan: heythat was funny... Hehehe... so you think I should only be crushing? |
Re: by Baddestguyp(m): 12:34am On Sep 22, 2014 |
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Re: by iceberylin(m): 6:10am On Sep 22, 2014 |
Your shy cause you look down on yourself a lot.... Work on your Sef_Esteem 1 Like |
Re: by motherlode: 7:06am On Sep 22, 2014 |
Thanks @callmespices callmespices: Try to be un shy, lol kidding |
Re: by motherlode: 7:07am On Sep 22, 2014 |
iceberylin: Your shy cause you look down on yourself a lot....yeah, but how? |
Re: by iceberylin(m): 7:12am On Sep 22, 2014 |
motherlode:Weed |
Re: by Nobody: 7:16am On Sep 22, 2014 |
herald9:yea u can only crush its just the best because crushes are more beautiful than affairs because there is no responsibility, no worry, no commitment how was ur night? |
Re: by Nobody: 7:24am On Sep 22, 2014 |
callmespices: Try to be un shy, lol kidding ' Spices' |
Re: by motherlode: 7:28am On Sep 22, 2014 |
herald9: I saw a thread somewhere about shyness.. Go dig it out and help yourselfplease which source? TELL ME!!!!! |
Re: by motherlode: 7:33am On Sep 22, 2014 |
iceberylin:Ah do you want to kill me, i said am shy and you're asking me to take WEED; you must be joking cuz if i tell you the true story you won't ask me to take WEED. Pls is there any other? |
Re: by iceberylin(m): 7:46am On Sep 22, 2014 |
motherlode:Tell me the true story |
Re: by Jarchi(m): 8:48am On Sep 22, 2014 |
Am also overcoming mine,just try online help would have love to list but,want u to do the work if really u wanna lose ...... |
Re: by lawrenceunaa: 8:53am On Sep 22, 2014 |
op am currently i ur shoes but mine has to do with a neighbour which i + other NLders thinks it's awkward |
Re: by motherlode: 8:59am On Sep 22, 2014 |
lawrenceunaa: op am currently i ur shoes but mine has to do with a neighbour which i + other NLders thinks it's awkwardshey, you can see what being shy has caused but it's ma ( oh i can't say) cuz she might be a nairalander or a guest?. |
Re: by motherlode: 9:01am On Sep 22, 2014 |
Jarchi: Am also overcoming mine,just try online help would have love to list but,want u to do the work if really u wanna lose ......thanks |
Re: by motherlode: 9:06am On Sep 22, 2014 |
iceberylin:story story!!! so how do you want to get it?. |
Re: by Nobody: 9:35am On Sep 22, 2014 |
seems ur problem is self esteem issues.Try looking as best as you can,groom,get a nice hair style wear nice clothes.be sociable go out and mix with people(friends, strangers,friend of friends etc).Then try to build ur confidence.one way to build ur confidence is to approach random girls(may seem awkward at first but you will get used to it over time)if u are too shy talking to random girls then don't make eye contact when talking to them,be urself don't rehearse what to say or e go back fire for ur eyes.if u do all these in no time u will be free from shyness. that's how I overcame my shyness. went from being the quiet boy in school to being a talk freak.saying bad tins like telling one girl straight up I wanna fvck her.high school days sha. |
Re: by valmunich(m): 9:45am On Sep 22, 2014 |
Why you feel shy talking to people, especially girls, just imagine in your mind, this person poops just like I do and also makes that 'face' while taking a dump, just think of random shiii that'll not make you rate the person high. Then you're good to go. Thank me lerra |
Re: by motherlode: 10:10am On Sep 22, 2014 |
wincyhov: seems ur problem is self esteem issues.Try looking as best as you can,groom,get a nice hair style wear nice clothes.be sociable go out and mix with people(friends, strangers,friend of friends etc).Then try to build ur confidence.one way to build ur confidence is to approach random girls(may seem awkward at first but you will get used to it over time)if u are too shy talking to random girls then don't make eye contact when talking to them,be urself don't rehearse what to say or e go back fire for ur eyes.if u do all these in no time u will be free from shyness. that's how I overcame my shyness.*speechless* uhn? |
Re: by Nobody: 10:15am On Sep 22, 2014 |
motherlode:yes and surprised |
Re: by callmespices(f): 11:59am On Sep 22, 2014 |
NinoBrown888:NinoBrown888 |
Re: by Nobody: 12:02pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
callmespices: Thought you were suppose to blow Me a kiss or something,,, (according to your siggy) You owe Moi a kiss ........ |
Re: by callmespices(f): 1:49pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
NinoBrown888:I knew that's what u were up to |
Re: by Nobody: 1:59pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
callmespices: tha hot lips of yours ! Lol,,,,, you owe Me a kiss' huh. When you gonna pay up... #winks |
Re: by callmespices(f): 2:01pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
NinoBrown888:*whispers* come to ma hood baby |
Re: by Nobody: 2:10pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
callmespices: My oh My,,, *whispers* Is it hot here or is jes you & I..,,#winks. |
Re: by donyjohn: 2:55pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
Work on your Sef_Esteem |
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