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Re: 5 Reasons Not To Judge People by prowlG: 6:53pm On Sep 22, 2014
Before you judge, make sure you are 100% ok else don't judge.
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Judge People by daveP(m): 7:04pm On Sep 22, 2014
FrankySnow: I never said you did. wink
grin
prisca is right, that aspect frm teresa to hitler.

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Re: 5 Reasons Not To Judge People by Nobody: 7:07pm On Sep 22, 2014
daveP: grin
prisca is right, that aspect frm teresa to hitler.
Lol.
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Judge People by priscaoge(f): 7:07pm On Sep 22, 2014
FrankySnow: Lmao. Mother Theresa kwa grin cheesy

Have you ever tried to ask her why she behaves like that?
My dear she's way too older than me,feels she knows it all,so I don't stress my little pretty head advising or talking to hergringrin...Every ab•oki with em own kettlewink
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Judge People by Nobody: 7:11pm On Sep 22, 2014
"He who is without sin should cast the first stone, [...] neither do I condemn you but go and see no more" ~ Jesus

I love this guy.

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Re: 5 Reasons Not To Judge People by Nobody: 7:13pm On Sep 22, 2014
priscaoge:
My dear she's way too older than me,feels she knows it all,so I don't stress my little pretty head advising or talking to hergringrin...Every ab•oki with em own kettlewink
OK o. smiley

Every man for himself dear, this life na only yourself you know o.

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Re: 5 Reasons Not To Judge People by MizMyColi(f): 7:14pm On Sep 22, 2014
pickabeau1: i dont understand the op

Are u talking about the act of having opinions which can be called judging also
Are u talking of praising or condemning people which is also judging
Are u talking of the negative result of judgement

whiich? undecided

The third one precisely and the second part of the second one smiley
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Judge People by Nobody: 7:19pm On Sep 22, 2014
MizMyColi:

1 bag of tushly made popcorn for you, and Coke Zero.
I do that too, judging in my head, and staying there.
If it's ever brought to my consciousness that I just judged a person, I just smile and try to think good thoughts towards them and possibly make excuses for them.
I'm consciously working on making it (judging in my head) a thing of the past, or at least, to a bare minimum.
#gbam
its that time i give the cutest smile sef. grin thinking that will make up for it na. good deed, right? grin
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Judge People by MizMyColi(f): 8:01pm On Sep 22, 2014
shoefreak:
#gbam
its that time i give the cutest smile sef. grin thinking that will make up for it na. good deed, right? grin

LoLest

To'ally Hun cheesy
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Judge People by Nobody: 8:07pm On Sep 22, 2014
AriDsexy: If u don't know me,don't judge me.....even if u do,don't judge so that u also don't get judged.
we were all born to judge. Tis second nature. No one can keep a clean mind. Dats why u hv opinionz
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Judge People by crackhaus: 8:19pm On Sep 22, 2014
IrishKez:

Impressive!
Hello Irish, long time... grin
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Judge People by pickabeau1: 8:25pm On Sep 22, 2014
the third one.. what is negative to one may be otherwise to another....relative

ditto for the second one second part

so you want a world where there r no standards, just fuzzy non condemnation

kumbaya

MizMyColi:

The third one precisely and the second part of the second one smiley
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Judge People by MizMyColi(f): 8:38pm On Sep 22, 2014
pickabeau1: the third one.. what is negative to one may be otherwise to another....relative

ditto for the second one second part

so you want a world where there r no standards, just fuzzy non condemnation

kumbaya

Certainly not, but I want a world where we can correct or talk to people in Gentleness, without being so full of wrath, causing them to quiver in fear, in a puddle of tears.

I desire a world where we can love people out of their mistakes where our words bring healing to others. Not leaving them scarred, fearful to give themselves another chance and brow beaten
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Judge People by Crocz(m): 8:40pm On Sep 22, 2014
When you understand some nasty sh*t some people had to deal with...you won't dare to judge them

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Re: 5 Reasons Not To Judge People by pickabeau1: 9:01pm On Sep 22, 2014
MizMyColi:
Certainly not, but I want a world where we can correct or talk to people in Gentleness, without being so full of wrath, causing them to quiver in fear, in a puddle of tears.

I desire a world where we can love people out of their mistakes where our words bring healing to others. Not leaving them scarred, fearful to give themselves another chance and brow beaten

Correcting in gentleness..


In that case is that not judging only with a difference in approach
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Judge People by MizMyColi(f): 9:06pm On Sep 22, 2014
pickabeau1:

Correcting in gentleness..


In that case is that not judging only with a difference in approach


If my expressed opinion of a person would leave them worse than I met them, I'd rather shut up.

Of course, you could term it that, if you wish.
But then, I think we all have an idea of the kind of judging/judgment I meant.
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Judge People by Nobody: 9:08pm On Sep 22, 2014
Nice one @ op.

We all judge others subconsciously.
It is a default in humans.
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Judge People by pickabeau1: 9:14pm On Sep 22, 2014
How would your opinion of an issue and the reaction be pre determined?

You may say one thing and one person loves you for being honest and another hates u for correcting him

In that case, since i dont know whether my 'correction'/admonition(judgement to you... will have positive or negative effect maybe its best one says nothing eh?


All is fair in love.. kumbaya



MizMyColi:

If my expressed opinion of a person would leave them worse than I met them, I'd rather shut up.

Of course, you could term it that, if you wish.
But then, I think we all have an idea of the kind of judging/judgment I meant.
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Judge People by MizMyColi(f): 9:20pm On Sep 22, 2014
pickabeau1: How would your opinion of an issue and the reaction be pre determined?

You may say one thing and one person loves you for being honest and another hates u for correcting him

In that case, since i dont know whether my 'correction'/admonition(judgement to you... will have positive or negative effect maybe its best one says nothing eh?


All is fair in love.. kumbaya



You've prolly heard me quote this passage of scripture: There's a spirit in man........

We can all avoid THAT kind of judging when relating with Humans, but that's if we choose to THINK

Is it Thoughtful, Helpful, Inspiring, Necessary, KIND.
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Judge People by MizMyColi(f): 9:22pm On Sep 22, 2014
Joavid: Nice one @ op.

We all judge others subconsciously.
It is a default in humans.

Yeah, I know. I'm talking with respect to our relations with people and ultimately, the world around us.
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Judge People by pickabeau1: 9:22pm On Sep 22, 2014
MizMyColi: You've prolly heard me quote this passage of scripture: There's a spirit in man........

We can all avoid THAT kind of judging when relating with Humans, but that's if we choose to THINK

Is it Thoughtful, Helpful, Inspiring, Necessary, KIND.

So now we see its not all kind of judging you have an issue with but the potential of it to harm

ok

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Re: 5 Reasons Not To Judge People by AriDsexy(f): 11:15pm On Sep 22, 2014
Preciousone4ril: we were all born to judge. Tis second nature. No one can keep a clean mind. Dats why u hv opinionz
That is not in doubt sir,sure u heard some guys here saying when they judge,they just do it in their head,not to bring d next person down....and really,u shouldn't judge me,if u don't know me.Just my thought.
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Judge People by Nobody: 10:16am On Sep 23, 2014
crackhaus:
Hello Irish, long time... grin

Leave me..!

sad
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Judge People by crackhaus: 3:21pm On Sep 23, 2014
IrishKez:

Leave me..!

sad
shocked

Whatagwan?
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Judge People by Nobody: 3:31pm On Sep 23, 2014
crackhaus:
shocked

Whatagwan?

You failed your promise/agreement to/with me sad
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Judge People by crackhaus: 3:34pm On Sep 23, 2014
IrishKez:

You failed your promise/agreement to/with me sad
You didn't reply like I said you should so I could know if you were serious...
Are you on bbm or whatsapp?
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Judge People by Nobody: 3:45pm On Sep 23, 2014
crackhaus:
You didn't reply like I said you should so I could know if you were serious...
Are you on bbm or whatsapp?
There was no agreement to correspond through mail
We only agreed that you'll upload it as your dp and take it down after a while

No I don't do bbm and whatsapp
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Judge People by crackhaus: 3:55pm On Sep 23, 2014
IrishKez:
There was no agreement to correspond through mail
We only agreed that you'll upload it as your dp and take it down after a while

No I don't do bbm and whatsapp
Haha..
I don't remember agreeing to uploading, didn't you quote me to say you checked your mail and didn't see it? grin

Cute dp you got there BTW wink

So which one do you do if not bbm and whatsapp?
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Judge People by Nobody: 4:20pm On Sep 23, 2014
crackhaus:
Haha..
I don't remember agreeing to uploading, didn't you quote me to say you checked your mail and didn't see it? grin

Cute dp you got there BTW wink

So which one do you do if not bbm and whatsapp?

Ok, forward it to my mail and pls there will be no need for a reply from me wink

Thanks

I only nairaland cool
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Judge People by crackhaus: 4:46pm On Sep 23, 2014
IrishKez:

Ok, forward it to my mail and pls there will be no need for a reply from me wink

Thanks

I only nairaland cool
Lol...you're soooo not a good sport grin

I can't attach files to my mails, each time I try they get lost in the cyber world and don't reach the recipient.
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Judge People by Nobody: 5:05pm On Sep 23, 2014
crackhaus:
Lol...you're soooo not a good sport grin

I can't attach files to my mails, each time I try they get lost in the cyber world and don't reach the recipient.

Is that it
Meaning all the while you never intend sending nothing to me, just another avenue to share mails correspondences
And I would have thought you are greater than that.
Mr. Crackhaus! shocked sad
Re: 5 Reasons Not To Judge People by crackhaus: 5:13pm On Sep 23, 2014
IrishKez:

Is that it
Meaning all the while you never intend sending nothing to me, just another avenue to share mails correspondences
And I would have thought you are greater than that.
Mr. Crackhaus! shocked sad
Hehehe...you believed that? cheesy

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