Is it really good? Do you agree to a lady being pregnant before marraige? What if your spouse (the lady) tells you she wants to get pregnant b4 u get married or the guy tells you you have to be put in the family way b4 he takes you to the altar. Are you going to succumb to that?. What even do you think is or are the main reasons behind pregnancy b4 marraige?

Big deal

Marriage as we know it or tend to classify it, is just pali.

Real marriage happens when yáll decide to be together with people as witness and have sex

so if Baby comes before Owambe.

Big deal!

igwe 1:

[b]Morally wrong before God.
This is as bad as having premarital sex.
Being pregnant before marriage is no problem but the action that led to the pregnancy.[/b]

Do you have any proof on the highlighted sentence above?!

No be God dey give woman and man pikin? why give them pikin before marriage when it is morally wrong?!

Na question i ask, so if you can explain this to me indepth, i would agree with you

WARNING: don't come back and waffle or blab, only constructive reasons and explanatory answers would be accepted

Thank you

I dey wait for ya o MrCrackle

MrCrackles:

Do you have any proof on the highlighted sentence above?!

No be God dey give woman and man pikin? why give them pikin before marriage when it is morally wrong?!
Na question i ask, so if you can explain this to me indepth, i would agree with you

WARNING: don't come back and waffle or blab, only constructive reasons and explanatory answers would be accepted

Thank you

God will continue to provide but man must put his ways right before God. You don't have to take God for granted. What about those who after many years of marriage don't still have a child? Do we blame God, Isn't he still providing? All we have to do is, do things @ the right time to avoid unbeatable and unpalatable consequences.

its all based on personal choice really!

personally oh, , why wld i wanty to get pregnant b4 getting married? it means the marrigae will statrt with children wahala b4 we even enjoy the time together and finding our balance. . . i thnk a new couple need at least a yr on their own to make plans and work out logistsics of their union b4 actually producing children

no

HR.hotness:

its all based on personal choice really!

personally oh, , why would i wanty to get pregnant before getting married? it means the marrigae will statrt with children wahala before we even enjoy the time together and finding our balance. . . i thnk a new couple need at least a yr on their own to make plans and work out logistsics of their union before actually producing children

True talk!!!

well it isnt right

but what happens when it happens by mistake

Tgirl4real:

I dey wait for ya o MrCrackle

My PA, Madam Danke has confirmed the appointment which has been booked for tonight

So God willing, we would do it tonight

Please i want the interview to be conducted in the most professional manner, so fannying about ok?!

princesa:

well it isnt right

but what happens when it happens by mistake

then it is destined to be and it is cool!

princesa:

well it isnt right

but what happens when it happens by mistake

Mistake ko mistake ni. What is mistake in this world of civilization when there are several methods of preventing it. The rubber idabobo method is there, monitoring the ovulation period of the girl is another one, bla bla bla. e.t.c. I don't and can never agree with the mistake rubbish. He that has head should use it wisely. Why should they even do it at all in the first place. Why can't they abstain gan self abi shey na everytime rain dey fall?

MrCrackles:

then it is destined to be and it is cool!

really cool and God favoured,

girlsoswit:

Mistake ko mistake ni. What is mistake in this world of civilization when there are several methods of preventing it. The rubber idabobo method is there, monitoring the ovulation period of the girl is another one, bla bla bla. e.t.c. I don't and can never agree with the mistake rubbish. He that has head should use it wisely. Why should they even do it at all in the first place. Why can't they abstain gan self abi shey na everytime rain dey fall?

girl sometimes it doesent work
that is like when it is destined as MrCrakles puts it

girl sometimes it doesent work
that is like when it is destined as MrCrakles puts it
[quote][/quote]

Well sha, O de ri so o. Agreed then.

good, it doesent pay to argue much

princesa:

good, it doesent pay to argue much

Haba, ore, no need for arguement in this one nw. It's just as reasonable as it seems. That's all.

girlsoswit and princesa

make una relax

kini big deal

MrCrackles:

girlsoswit and princesa

make una relax

kini big deal

No big deal. I'm only trying to make things clear to her. O ton.

girlsoswit:

No big deal. I'm only trying to make things clear to her. O ton.

kare omo daa da

MrCrackles:

kare omo daa da

Ese o baba rere.

no i dont @topic

@Topic,Its as bad as Fornication but if it happens,no big deal.Where i kick against it totally is where its a "condition to be met" before marriage.When it becomes a criteria for a girl to get preggie b4 she can be married aside that,no big deal.

Like Ify said if it happens there isn't much that can be done about it. . . . . .

I'll suggest the couple go ahead with the wedding preparation. . . . . . .

I was told it was a very common thing for the man's family to insist that the woman gets pregnant before the wedding to prove that she can conceive

I dnt approve of it

no .

Oh well it depends on what you value.

As nature, religion, and tradition demands, it is wrong to get pregnant outside wedlock, but in some case if one didn't plan for it and the baby came, it's better to have the child than to abort it. I was one victim, my first baby came befor i got married. I didn't stop begging God for his forgiveness even when i went to dedicate him in the church my mind was judging me that i ve sinned against God, but if i didnt want to sin against God i could have not even slept wit a man befor getting married, it's hard to really keep to this.

@ the poster, I assure you, if you look at ol da ten commandments, surely u dont commit to them ol. There r some which u've broken and continue to break, yep we ol do.

@ the topic, well, nowadays sme ppl aernt really up for marriage, many reasons but do want kids, so they go for it, in other cases it happens wen u least expect it, usually sometimes unplanned or so, so u decide to keep it, but dream of getting married one day.
Ol u can do is ask for the Lord's 4gvness, but isnt sex b4 marriage also a sin, oh wat, yet we continue to do it, isnt adultery a sin, yet we continue to do it, even if u didnt sleep with the person but imagine so, and how good that person may b in bed, its still a sin, yet we do ol da time.

We do so many wrong,
I cant say i support pregnancy b4 marriage, but i myself am not against it, its up to who ever decides they want it that way to go ahead, i'm not in their lives, in their plans and m certainly not that person.
I for 1 dont even think of marriage at the moment, i say to myself, like hell m not gonna go to work, come home and do ol the work yle the husband sits and reads a paper, that i wont stand for, we r in it together 4rm da beginning, so i opt not to marry