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Pls,help Me Locate My Dad(mr Dayo Adesanya) by ProfGday(m): 12:58pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
My name is Adesanya Oluwafemi Philip. I was born in Aug 4, 2001(13yr old boy). My mother's name is Miss Funmi Oladeji. My mother met my father in Abuja in year 2000. He was d SALES MANAGER IN CARLINK MOTORS ABUJA BRANCH (WUSE). pls mod help my nephew out in search of his biological dad by pushing this to the front page. |
Re: Pls,help Me Locate My Dad(mr Dayo Adesanya) by amiskurie(m): 1:00pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
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Re: Pls,help Me Locate My Dad(mr Dayo Adesanya) by aitanofi(m): 1:03pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
Oh quite touching! May ur mother's soul rest in peace, and may ur father see d gud spirit in u 2 locate u 1 Like |
Re: Pls,help Me Locate My Dad(mr Dayo Adesanya) by ephemm(m): 1:09pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
I hope this 13years old boy finds the "presumed" father and hear his side of the story too; there are two sides to a coin and no sane person should abandon his child. This story coming from the deceased mother's angle is emotional and one-sided. |
Re: Pls,help Me Locate My Dad(mr Dayo Adesanya) by Tallesty1(m): 1:23pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
ephemm: I hope this 13years old boy finds the "presumed" father and hear his side of the story too; there are two sides to a coin and no sane person should abandon his child.This is not necessary yet. The young man doesn't sound like he is angry with his dad. 1 Like |
Re: Pls,help Me Locate My Dad(mr Dayo Adesanya) by Enahi(f): 1:27pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
@Op may God bless you for your efforts,but I think you should search for him on Facebook and some other social networks. Another advice is for you is to get in touch with the said company in Abuja,who knows you might find someone who knows his whereabouts there. Also ask your Grandma if Your sister left any details about your Nephew's Dad e.g like his Friends and Family details. But I don't think your Nephew's Dad might accept your Nephew based on the fact that he neglected the boy for so many years,but I pray you find him and ask him to support the Child financially. He has to accept your Nephew and take responsibility,that boy must not suffer. |
Re: Pls,help Me Locate My Dad(mr Dayo Adesanya) by kreamidiva(f): 1:28pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
Why did he refuse to take responsibility of the child? Was he married to another lady at the time your nephew was conceived? Please men should always try and take responsibility of their 5minsmadness o. Maka karma... |
Re: Pls,help Me Locate My Dad(mr Dayo Adesanya) by 5minsmadness: 1:32pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
kreamidiva: Why did he refuse to take responsibility of the child? Was he married to another lady at the time your nephew was conceived? 2 Likes |
Re: Pls,help Me Locate My Dad(mr Dayo Adesanya) by RoyalRoy(m): 1:32pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
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Re: Pls,help Me Locate My Dad(mr Dayo Adesanya) by ProfGday(m): 1:36pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
kreamidiva: Why did he refuse to take responsibility of the child? Was he married to another lady at the time your nephew was conceived?according to grandma he has put a lady in family way before meeting my nephew's mother. we heard d girl was with Mr Adesanya's mum in Lagos then. |
Re: Pls,help Me Locate My Dad(mr Dayo Adesanya) by ProfGday(m): 1:44pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
Enahi: @Op may God bless you for your efforts,but I think you should search for him on Facebook and some other social networks.the main problem is that only grandma can identify him. I personally have searched facebook to no avail. But I think I will try and ask from his former employer cos I heard he has left the company since 2002. |
Re: Pls,help Me Locate My Dad(mr Dayo Adesanya) by kreamidiva(f): 2:57pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
5minsmadness: . My brother no vex. The moniker dey sweet me...lol... 2 Likes |
Re: Pls,help Me Locate My Dad(mr Dayo Adesanya) by kreamidiva(f): 3:02pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
ProfGday: That explains his reluctance to admit paternity but 13yrs has gone by and he still doesn't feel anything? Hmmm... na wah o. |
Re: Pls,help Me Locate My Dad(mr Dayo Adesanya) by Amhappy(f): 3:22pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
Stories that touch. Why abandon a baby you made? Front page may help sha 1 Like |
Re: Pls,help Me Locate My Dad(mr Dayo Adesanya) by cococandy(f): 4:29pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
When the boy is fully grown and successful,then daddy will come for re-union. And someone will say 'forgive him he's your father' 2 Likes |
Re: Pls,help Me Locate My Dad(mr Dayo Adesanya) by Nobody: 5:18pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
Any picture of the run-away dad? It might go a long way to help. Sorry for the loss of your sister who is the boy's mum. 1 Like |
Re: Pls,help Me Locate My Dad(mr Dayo Adesanya) by Haywhymido(m): 5:23pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
R u too abt to deny ur pregancy or a new born baby dat belong to u Think abt it no one knws 2moro |
Re: Pls,help Me Locate My Dad(mr Dayo Adesanya) by musicwriter(m): 5:30pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
You heard someone did all this to your mother and you're still looking for him?. For what?. The best way to locate your father is make sure you go to school, read and read, and hopefully become a successfully person and he will start looking for you. Do you know that Steve Jobs the person who own the company that makes Iphone, Ipad, Iwatch, e.t.c was thrown away by his father?. When he became rich and famous the father was so ashamed to come to declare himself as the father. Instead he wrote him a long letter of many pages explaining why he didn't take care of him when he was a kid. After Steve Jobs finished reading the long letter, he replied to the father and the only thing he said in his reply is "THANK YOU". 7 Likes |
Re: Pls,help Me Locate My Dad(mr Dayo Adesanya) by ProfGday(m): 5:47pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
musicwriter: You heard someone did all this to your mother and you're still looking for him?. For what?.inspiring,thanks for that. |
Re: Pls,help Me Locate My Dad(mr Dayo Adesanya) by ProfGday(m): 5:52pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
ProfGday: My name is Adesanya Oluwafemi Philip.I was born in Aug 4,2001.(13yr old boy) My mother'ss name is Miss Funmi Oladeji.My mother met my father in Abuja in year 2000.He was d SALES MANAGER IN CARLINK MOTORS ABUJA BRANCH(WUSE). 6 Likes
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Re: Pls,help Me Locate My Dad(mr Dayo Adesanya) by Nobody: 5:58pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
kreamidiva: Why did he refuse to take responsibility of the child? Was he married to another lady at the time your nephew was conceived?and women should stop opening legs anyhow 3 Likes |
Re: Pls,help Me Locate My Dad(mr Dayo Adesanya) by eigmaticme: 6:46pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
Wow! Such a cutie 2 Likes |
Re: Pls,help Me Locate My Dad(mr Dayo Adesanya) by bebe2(f): 7:07pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
Poor boy I fear that man will never appreciate this child, He has shown enough hatred for the boy. Op u need to step up and play a fatherly role in his life. One more thing, just make the boy known to the mans family, so when he dies he can just go and inherit his properties. Am so hoping he is his first son 1 Like |
Re: Pls,help Me Locate My Dad(mr Dayo Adesanya) by egopersonified(f): 7:24pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
musicwriter: You heard someone did all this to your mother and you're still looking for him?. For what?. Mehn, I gats to hear the full gist about this. Let me ask google. Btw, op what if you find the dad and he isnt interested in having anything to do with the boy? Dont you think it would make matters worse? For someone to be abandoned for 13 yrs, it would take a miracle to be accepted now and if your sis has been gone for a while, he might have heard about her death and yet he didnt come calling. I dont know the financial situation, but there are still some good public schools around that have dedicated principals. All he needs is the textbook for each subject so he can study on his own. Please you guys should take care of this boy and dont let him suffer becos his mum is not around. Take care. 4 Likes |
Re: Pls,help Me Locate My Dad(mr Dayo Adesanya) by Pavore9: 7:27pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
OP, lt is rather disheartening but your family should channel their effort to raising this boy into a man that will inspire others, some day his dead beat of a father will look for him, it is then left to your nephew whether to accept him or not. 1 Like |
Re: Pls,help Me Locate My Dad(mr Dayo Adesanya) by Pavore9: 7:34pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
lt reminds me of the facebook page- deadbeatkenya that has been raising a storm in kenya in the past few weeks, where pictures & at times phone numbers of baby daddies who have refused to take up financial responsibility for their kids are uploaded! |
Re: Pls,help Me Locate My Dad(mr Dayo Adesanya) by MizEmpress(f): 8:27pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
Awww poor sweetie, I wish him all the best in life..I feel you are taking the right step, expand your search-let the dad be located so he can provide for his child as long as he's a responsible man and he can shoulder it. No need for your family to take care of his upkeep alone. 1 Like |
Re: Pls,help Me Locate My Dad(mr Dayo Adesanya) by kreamidiva(f): 10:09pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
lofty900: and women should stop opening legs anyhow Lol and Men should stop asking for show! Eiyah... lekwa fine boy. Ekwensu your father! 1 Like |
Re: Pls,help Me Locate My Dad(mr Dayo Adesanya) by kweenkong(f): 1:10pm On Sep 26, 2014 |
Another thing that could help is to know the state of origin and local govt of the father. Adesanyas are from Ijebu Ode,Sagamu etc |
Re: Pls,help Me Locate My Dad(mr Dayo Adesanya) by Jobabori(m): 2:06pm On Sep 26, 2014 |
Please Mr Ayo Adesanya where ever you are appear to this boy and give your own side of the story, if necessary. There are other men around before his mother named you as the person responsible for the pregnancy. I am not trying to force you to assume responsibility that is not yours but the fact that your name was mentioned and consistently too, for the past fourteen years indicated that you have case a to answer . The woman is no more. The boy is desirous to meet you. Please show up, at least to give your own side of the story since every coin has two sides. The issue is not as easy as some viewed it especially among the Yorubas. The emotional attachment and the pride of knowing his father cannot be easily replaced at this age. Your name is in his lips. Come and accept or reject as the case may be. MOD you may please move this to FP to help the boy. 1 Like |
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