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My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Therock5555(m): 11:51pm On Nov 23, 2015 |
Please this is a long write up so please pardon me I choosed not to used an alternative moniker because I want my dad to see this, I introduced him to Nairaland and he's a frequent front page reader so I hope he sees this. I hope my fans in the literature section know why I get depressed always. Tonight's event has proven to me that I mean little or nothing to him. I won't say I did nothing wrong but sometimes you do something without much thoughts but he feeds on it like a leech and finds everything wrong. Sorry for the long epistle, I'm broken and seriously need advice, I hope he gets to see this and then kills me afterwards. Cc. Ishilove Lalasticlala Sean RoyalRoy 83 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by eigmaticme: 11:54pm On Nov 23, 2015 |
Na wa o 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by bronzegoddess(f): 11:57pm On Nov 23, 2015 |
Pele. Dunno what to say. I'll say a little prayer for u and the broken hearted alluva the world. Beht rock555 you need to leave that house, depression is gon kill u. 31 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by chocolateme(f): 11:57pm On Nov 23, 2015 |
Hmm!! Most times, the blessing and curses of our parents affects our lives positively or negatively and yours is constantly and won't stop till you become broken. This can lead to child rebellion against his parents, an over clouded judgement which it's result can be disastrous. I suggest that you leave that house now while your sanity is still intact to avoid landing in prisons soon due to lose of control and the devil took over. You must have relations or friends in case your dad asks your relations to throw u out. Find a way yo stay away from him and pursue your career and get your life together even if you have to suffer through physical hardship but I bet it's better than staying at home and been bounded by curses and bad luck. Remember you are a man, if you continue absorbing this, you may end up like him to your children tomorrow and eventually they will never be a blessing to u. So fight hard and trust God, with all pure heart, you will be a blessing to your family if not now, then later. Sorry for what you are passing through. 216 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Danpersie31(m): 11:59pm On Nov 23, 2015 |
really sorry abt DAT rocky.. I really am speechless 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by LogoDWhiz(m): 12:03am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Hmm. This is deep. Lemme share a true life story. I was in church one day, and the pastor admonishing us is actually the state youth coordinator. Also for SW zone. He's influential and also an erudite. But the problem that he has to him is that his son doesn't listen to him. He tried every thing he could, Prayers, Scolding and the likes. It even got to a point he said he had to burn all his clothes that he doesn't like and other stuff like that. But this didn't change the guy. And then he tried something he hasn't done. He decided to leave him alone and simply show him more love. And continually pray for him. Today, the guy doesn't oppose him, he isn't strong headed. And he even goes to church willingly as opposed to previous time. The essence of this is that parents shouldn't fight fire to fire when they feel their children aren't doing their will. Let him/her see things in your way in a loving manner. There are different ways to kill a rat. Fighting it fire for fire will only spur the fire and make it bigger. Why don't you try fighting the fire with water and things will work well. TheRock555, just take it easy. And don't go Psycho please. Try and see if you too can make compromise for him. 74 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by jaymejate: 12:11am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Haa, this is heavy. You really need to ask your mom some serious questions. Cos there are things that can make a man behave like that to a child. Please Question your mom. 1... How he met your dad 2... Were you given birth to out of wedlock 3... Sorry for this buh ask ask all the same. Is that man really your dad? 4... Think on more question to ask her. Her replies will give you a bit hint to get a solution. Pls ask Wisely. And also please pray very well. You can even get to consult any counselor for counsel or a PASTOR. I hope ur dad will read this... Dad, beating and hatred can't change a Child. If he/she becomes great later, you might not be recognized and you don lose be dat. Why don't you treat with Love and care. And pray also for your children. God bless you! 31 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Therock5555(m): 12:19am On Nov 24, 2015 |
jaymejate: My parents married legally in church and I'm the second child and first male I have doubted my parentage lots of times because I was the only child among my siblings given birth to in the village, maybe I was exchange by some faggort nurses because I don't behave one bit like any body else in the house The cower in fear while he speaks, I oppose him when he speaks uncorted lies. BTW he's a preacher so nothing seems wrong to him. If I begin to spill everything, I might run out of pages 22 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Monalisa185(f): 12:23am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Therock5555 first...your father is a wizard... forget the fact dah you think he's a preacher or whoever... now,being a wizard does not necessarily mean one must fly at night or do stuff like dah...for someone esp a man you call your father to wish you same fate that befell kogi Guber candidate, then I'm sorry to term him a 'wizard'... now I'm not asking you to kill him because of that, buh trust me,those negative words he constantly speaks into your life definitely have effects on you,if you don't see those effects now, then you sure would see 'em in the near future..and you definitely can't leave the house now since you said you are already in the higher institution, you sure need someone to pay your bills and all... the question is 'what can you do?' -first,you need Jesus in your life,you gas embrace Him,only Him can give you peace in that house... -you need to pray more, always use your dad as a point of contact, and whenever he speaks any negativity into your life,do not hesitate to reject it(in your heart of course) to avoid aggravating him(he's still your father and your elder) -try to make yourself invisible in that house,even when he blows the biggest lies in the world, do not challenge him or try to show him you stand for the truth,that would make him feel you're trying to rub shoulders with him,he's still the head of the family and of course, there can't be two captains on a ship, instead, channel that energy into your educational career... -I can't type much,buh I hope you find peace. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by jaymejate: 12:28am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Therock5555: Okay, but seriously you can overcome him. Why don't you try to move even more closer to him. Behave good. I remember when i was growing up. My dad beat he out of me but as i begin de grow... I started behaving like a man as in i moved close to him. Anything he wants to do i help him to do it immediately. Im in skul now, and he is missing, same thing with my brothers. You just have to know that even if he carry Fire for head, you can quench it. Be a man bro and don't think that NURSE miscarry u o. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Atmmachine(m): 12:33am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Let me tell you something. You're still a kid, you live with your parents, they feed you. African parents derive joy in beating their children. One day you will get rich and he will want you to buy mansions for him and give him money, It will be up to you to choose how to repay him. Let me use Emmanuel Adebayor as an example, His family got what they deserve because they treated him like a slave. If you want your dad to stop beating you. #Fight him, i repeat, #Fight him. He will never touch you again. 51 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by lasisi69(f): 12:33am On Nov 24, 2015 |
End time Dad 50 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by ModiKen(m): 12:35am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Ishilove: So u quote the whole post to write dis small tin....? Receive sense! The poster above me also need to "Receive sense"! @OP....move out of that house, no matter what it takes cos if you don't, due to your depressed state you may even begin to consider taking you life. No excuses, move out of that house and stay as far as you can from your dad or you would lose you sanity or even worse, commit suicide. 28 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Sweetyie(f): 12:36am On Nov 24, 2015 |
This one is strong 1 Like |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by SlimBrawnie(f): 12:36am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Its not easy been a preachers child because they want you to be a PERFECT example to others out there. I can relate to this but your own strong sha... just put him in prayers. Proverbs 21:1 The king's heart is in the hand of the LORD, as the rivers of water: he turneth it whithersoever he will. Develop yourself positively, and when you finally leave home for school, try to make them proud. All these will pass, that is one thing I'm sure of. 8 Likes |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Nobody: 12:37am On Nov 24, 2015 |
ModiKen: lol. And it's "receive" not "recieve". oh! you're welcome 7 Likes |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Nobody: 12:38am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Can't You like poison him or something?? I'm sure even God would Understand... 42Lashes for what abeg 2 Likes |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by bellong: 12:40am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Therock5555: I guess the bold is the root of the issues. You must have been too curious and challenging since a toddler. He probably see it as a deviant behavior and in a bid to straighten you, he adopted the"negative " approach which many parents do adopt. Get to the library, buy him a book on child developmental psychology. He needs to learn some stuff. Meanwhile, you need to learn how to pass across your opinion without him seeing you as rude and disobedient. 23 Likes |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by TrollTrap: 12:41am On Nov 24, 2015 |
"Made to kneel down"... Bruv, how old are you? I would suggest you moving out of your parents house. That'll do you a lot more good 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Nobody: 12:45am On Nov 24, 2015 |
Men usually suffer from this kind of domestic torture for long.The best you can do is to endure him for sometime till you get to an age when you can peacefully leave the house. Sometimes walahi our parents can say very demeaning things to us, not knowing such words finds a very dark place in our heart to settle. Seriously, I really do not take such words from anybody, not even my parents. There should be a limitation to the kind of insulting words that should be used on a child, else that child will in the long run have terrible low esteem. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by ModiKen(m): 12:45am On Nov 24, 2015 |
evegran: Thanks. No mind me. Typo. BTW, na u dey ur profile pic 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Dad Wishes Me Death, Please Help by Eleniyan15: 12:47am On Nov 24, 2015 |
lasisi69 end time my Broda you are a man oooo, forget military man ooo e fit still rugged ooo Buh yu no go gree. just keep on praying ooooo,cos your fada his gonna be a hard nut to crack. whenever you have a seminar/event please Go ooooo, because you attend or not this man will still hunt you.. definitely you are the one loosing and you keep on be spank if you also no any of your fada bestie in the military my Broda run too that man and explain things oo, trust me your fada would listen unto don't ever dream of living the house oooo #WHATDOESNOKILLYOUMAKEYOUSTRONGER #BEMEEK #PRAYER #KEEPWORKING OR TAKE KNIFE GO AND MEET MUM IN HER ROOM THREATEN HER that you will kill your Self LET HER TELL YOU WHO YOUR REAL FATHER HIS,MAKE SURE YOU DOING ALL THIS WITH PASSION 1 Like 2 Shares |
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