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Who Is A Husband Material? by nonsonnamani: 7:30pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
The most advised set of human beings are women; everybody seems to be an expert in telling them how to dress, how to cover up their body, how to act, How not to act...HOW TO BE A WIFE MATERIAL The other day I was having this interesting conversation with this particularly smart girl, it's not every day you meet a girl that smart and so I was terribly enjoying our conversation. Something lead to something and we started talking of indecent dressing and how it was so "un wife" material-ish to show off boobs. Like a typical guy I dove into the wife material preaching we guys are very fond of giving..."Cover up yaself", "know how to cook" and so on. Mid way into the conversation she looked at me with this piercing gaze and asked: "What of husband material, who is a husband material" For a moment I hesitated.. That was when it struck me; we guys are so good in giving wife material advice while we are not exactly husband materials. I mean, here I was, trying to tell a girl how to be a wife material when I wasn't even a husband material myself. It was more or less a case of trying to remove dirt in the girl's eyes while I had a log of wood in my eyes. The girl smiled as she saw that I was getting her point, then she moved in for the attack. "That's the problem with you guys". She said. "So quick to calibrate us women and tell us what to do and what not to do, how to act right, dress right and talk right. What happens to you people - are you husband material enough?" At that point her point were really driving home. It struck me then, It's not just for the women to work on being wife material, we guys also have to work on being husband material... - How stable are you? - Can you provide for a woman? - Can you provide for a kid if a woman gets pregnant for you now? - Can you stick to a woman and not feel like going after the next hot thing with skirts on? - How well can you handle crisis? - Can you handle a woman's drama, can you bear her hysterias without snapping? - Can you care for a woman, make her feel like a queen? - Can you take a woman out on a date and give her a romantic feeling? - Are you ambitious enough, do you protect your own, can you face failure without giving up. Can you? Can you? That day, I just sat down listening to the girl's angle and it just hit me that if I invested more time working on being a husband material I will have no problem having headaches about weather a girl is or is not a wife material. Why? Simple - we will always attract what we are like. The higher our quality the higher the quality of people we will attract. Like my mentor will always say, if all your friends are broke then chances are that you are broke too. If you end up with a woman who is not a wife material then you were never a husband material. Shalom... 1 Like |
Re: Who Is A Husband Material? by Nobody: 7:55pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
A husband material is one who owns a stove, pots, plates and accommodation; rented or owned by self. |
Re: Who Is A Husband Material? by Nobody: 7:59pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
A husband material is basically a wife material. A financially independent man A handsome man. His body also has to be on point. A man that can cook A man that is submissive A man that knows how to take care of the home. |
Re: Who Is A Husband Material? by Nobody: 8:01pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
BananaBender: A husband material is basically a wife material. U are d real last banana bender. |
Re: Who Is A Husband Material? by Nobody: 8:16pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
nonsonnamani: Wonderful Piece. |
Re: Who Is A Husband Material? by lirusehn(m): 8:31pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
A husband material is that Niggah who can manage his home while having both MUM and WIFE under same roof. |
Re: Who Is A Husband Material? by emperorchedda(m): 8:33pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
A husband material is that man who can manage a home, by home I mean wife, kids and extended family. You don't have to be the richest man on earth to do that you just have to apply a good sum of care to every party and provide the needs of your wife kids. A man who can put up with all the momentary imbalance of a woman, a man who is willing to give up his pride just to please his woman and make her happy. But trust me all these won't be possible if u tie the knot with a typical Nigerian woman who feels a man is indebted to her and her family |
Re: Who Is A Husband Material? by Godmother(f): 5:27am On Sep 26, 2014 |
BananaBender: A husband material is basically a wife material. This is not all there is to being a husband material. A man should be a provider ( show that he is capable of taking care of a family), he should be understanding n calm( cos sometimes u wud need those to handle a woman's irrational behaviours), Godfearing |
Re: Who Is A Husband Material? by Nobody: 5:51am On Sep 26, 2014 |
Godmother: I don't need a provider, I can work to take care of my family. I need a man that is good in the kitchen and knows how to clean. I am not an irrational woman and I do not cosign the bullsh1t that women are irrational. I don't need my man to fear an imaginary 'being'. He has to be good in bed though, that is key. |
Re: Who Is A Husband Material? by Godmother(f): 5:57am On Sep 26, 2014 |
BananaBender: To each his own babes . For me o, a man has to have those qualities. |
Re: Who Is A Husband Material? by EfemenaXY: 7:29am On Sep 26, 2014 |
Good stuff, @OP. In addition to that, it's the responsibility of both parents to teach their sons what a good "husband material" entails. This should be backed up by their actions - lead by example. What I mean is this: if the child sees his / her parents practising what they preach, then doing so later in life should be second nature to them. |
Re: Who Is A Husband Material? by Nobody: 10:54am On Sep 26, 2014 |
White knighting crap. |
Re: Who Is A Husband Material? by Godmystrength: 11:40am On Sep 26, 2014 |
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