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Re: What Made You Decide To Get Married? by Nobody: 11:00am On Sep 30, 2014 |
jennylove7575: Because the society and our family said so..even though we are not happy in it, let us remain inside and die unhappily inside to please people. And isnt that a miserable life to live? The only one life you've got, you then decide to live it miserably and start ageing faster than your peers when you have the choice to be happy? Thats just too bad. 2 Likes |
Re: What Made You Decide To Get Married? by ghettodreamz(m): 11:09am On Sep 30, 2014 |
Tdrumz: According to the online dictionary Rearing - bring up and care for (a child) until they are fully grown. 2. (of a horse or other animal) raise itself upright on its hind legs. With the aforecited, we are both right, and my use of the word 'rearing' in this context is so apt. |
Re: What Made You Decide To Get Married? by ghettodreamz(m): 11:10am On Sep 30, 2014 |
moriton: According to the online dictionary Rearing - bring up and care for (a child) until they are fully grown. 2. (of a horse or other animal) raise itself upright on its hind legs. With the aforecited, we are both right, and my use of the word 'rearing' in this context is so apt. |
Re: What Made You Decide To Get Married? by ghettodreamz(m): 11:13am On Sep 30, 2014 |
Philadelphia: That's very correct sir. Apology for the omission. Spiritual aspect of ones life is imperative in all dimensions and facets of life, with no exception to settling down. 1 Like |
Re: What Made You Decide To Get Married? by jennylove7575(f): 11:16am On Sep 30, 2014 |
Sophyrocks:abi o 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Made You Decide To Get Married? by ghettodreamz(m): 11:30am On Sep 30, 2014 |
rawpadgin: please can u throw more like on the 'physical readiness' Kindly refer to 'Metamorphosis'. We could say your look, body structure ,and most importantly your age, et al. |
Re: What Made You Decide To Get Married? by jennylove7575(f): 11:30am On Sep 30, 2014 |
salt1:you are right. That is why cohabitation is there to avoid loneliness. I know loads of people in Nigeria who cohabit. They move in together and start having kids or decide not to...they agree not to get married. Shared responsibility. The man and woman contribute to pay the bills, rent and others........ 2 Likes |
Re: What Made You Decide To Get Married? by goshen26: 11:32am On Sep 30, 2014 |
observing mood |
Re: What Made You Decide To Get Married? by Missmossy(f): 11:55am On Sep 30, 2014 |
freeradical: Not as amusing as why you are still single honSuch a silly conclusion |
Re: What Made You Decide To Get Married? by babygirlfl: 12:07pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
Chrisbenogor: For me, human beings can withstand so many things.....loneliness is not one of them. May God bless your home |
Re: What Made You Decide To Get Married? by YoungDaNaval(m): 12:16pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
benromeo39: I'm married to Jesus. Reason? Because he's my lord and savior.Gay Alert!! |
Re: What Made You Decide To Get Married? by YoungDaNaval(m): 12:22pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
pyyxxaro: because I have always wanted to be a member of MEN FELLOWSHIP in my ChurchLmao! |
Re: What Made You Decide To Get Married? by YoungDaNaval(m): 12:30pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
I'm A Reverend Father. |
Re: What Made You Decide To Get Married? by Dcmg(m): 12:49pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
Well as for me,the reason i might get married would be because of having children and pleasing the society. If she has given me 1 or 2 kids,i would find a way to divorce her or i put on an attitude that will make her want to divorce me.And i would pay her off well. After that,i no marry again.Atleast i was married 1 Like |
Re: What Made You Decide To Get Married? by cozy7(m): 12:52pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
Exjoker: Everyone knows that getting married is aI LOVE GOOD FOOD YWT I HATE EATING OUTSIDE |
Re: What Made You Decide To Get Married? by Nobody: 12:58pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
My room is getting bigger by the day, and I'm becoming very lonely. Time to make a difficult decision |
Re: What Made You Decide To Get Married? by Nicepoker(m): 1:10pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
Am happily divorced. Can I comment? |
Re: What Made You Decide To Get Married? by darlingnuel(m): 1:17pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
Dcmg: Taaaaaaah.I feel you big time! |
Re: What Made You Decide To Get Married? by Nobody: 1:26pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
I really like this thread the way men comment,there is no female here,let put up my own for advice sha.I will be 30 by next year that is when am probably goin for NYSC.have not been working or find any means of income,my parents still give me money but brothers am tired of loneliness,right now am d only one living in 3bedroom bungalow with big palour,the question now is can I get married without any means of personal income,or can any responsible lady date me without any work or somethings doing,though I have flings that I rush to incase any serious urge,but I want a serious lady.pls advice not to scold me. |
Re: What Made You Decide To Get Married? by Pimples(m): 1:37pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
I got married so that I can finish training my children on time...I do not want to have Gray hairs and still be paying school fees. God bless my Household. |
Re: What Made You Decide To Get Married? by meghie1(f): 1:42pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
lol ayukdaboss: So now that these lousy single NL folks have filled the Front Page with silly comments how will the married people who are definitely asleep with their spouses air their views on the FP? Abi wuna no fit read? "What prompted you to get married" |
Re: What Made You Decide To Get Married? by uchdollar111: 2:27pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
Nothing cos I'm not yet married. Anyway, why don't you check out www.myeventsgallery.com and sign up before the official launch party! |
Re: What Made You Decide To Get Married? by Nobody: 2:33pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
Dcmg: Well as for me,the reason i might get married would be because of having children and pleasing the society.Nah, don't make any innocent woman go through that. A lot of women these days are comfortable being baby mamas. Look for them and make your choice. |
Re: What Made You Decide To Get Married? by beeevan: 2:45pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
Too drunk in love to do otherwise, i would have eloped with him if anyone dared suggest we wait . Marriage shouldn't be prepared for like one gauging for war, once the two are willingly to walk together, they will. Submitting to each others brilliant suggestions won't be an issue as ego doesn't get to over ride common sense. Once you see each other as one and not opponents, every other thing runs smoothly. Compatibility is very important, if you are not compatible with your spouse, it will be a rough ride. Most importantly, marriage is never a do or die affair, so I took the plunge with the mind that if it ain't working out, i beat it, no fraction of my life can be wasted on anything that isn't progressive . No 1 marriage killer is following protocols, the " that's how it's done " mentality. The fact that your parents did it that way doesn't make it right or profitable. People must unlearn all stereotypical ideals before they stand a chance at seeing the light. |
Re: What Made You Decide To Get Married? by Dcmg(m): 2:46pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
koyyes:Haha,i just want the soceity to know i was married,atleast that would keep my heart at peace.Single with kids "NO',Married with kids but divorced sounds "Better".By the way i would pay her off better.If i'm worth 10b naira,then i can give away 1or 2b to her{only if she deserves it}i.e,she din't cheat,she was lovin,caring and respectful.She can then go ahead and marry the man of her choice that would give are all care and attention she deserves |
Re: What Made You Decide To Get Married? by fpeter(f): 2:52pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
1) To flee fornication 2) To procreate 3) For companionship 4) 2heads are better than 1(most cases) |
Re: What Made You Decide To Get Married? by Larrey(f): 3:11pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
I got married dis year cos 1st,I looked at my self and concluded that,my hubby would be a perfect partner in my life,cos I find joy and lot of happiness around him ,it was d right time 4 me, d right man 4 me,old enough,experience too. 2nd,I wish i had known more of his mood and his heart. 3rd,what I can share with people considering to getting married is, marriage isn't about u alone but all about 2 people working together for a common goal,he/she shud wait 4 dere time, u dnt marry because ur friends are getting married or because u are tired of staying in ur parents house,u shud marry because u love ur partner,compliment each others attitude and u are ready to spend d rest of ur life with him/her 1 Like |
Re: What Made You Decide To Get Married? by profemoral(m): 3:24pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
nacosprof: Am due to marry but n't too finacial balance, dis makes the one I luv got married late last year,.praying provide a better one 4me soonest in d same boat with u, mine married months ago after 7yrs of been together. it is well |
Re: What Made You Decide To Get Married? by profemoral(m): 3:25pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
nacosprof: Am due to marry but n't too finacial balance, dis makes the one I luv got married late last year,.praying provide a better one 4me soonest in d same boat with u, mine married 3months ago after 7yrs of been together. it is well |
Re: What Made You Decide To Get Married? by theshadowknows: 3:26pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
I decided to get married when I realized that it was time to wake up from fantasy land....ie. facing the realization that most of my weaknesses was here to stay,...knowing that perfection in a partner was only an illusion,... and knowing that the universe wouldn't even notice if I didn't get married.....all that with the discovery of the one person who didn't mind my weaknesses and the one person I didn't require too much from....in summary.. finding contentment. |
Re: What Made You Decide To Get Married? by BOUNTYDOG(m): 3:31pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
ghettodreamz: The op asked why you decide to marry and not ur experience now that you are married, ofcos sexual intercourse might B D reason some virgins rushed to marriage! |
Re: What Made You Decide To Get Married? by Nobody: 3:37pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
dancok: I really like this thread the way men comment,there is no female here,let put up my own for advice sha.I will be 30 by next year that is when am probably goin for NYSC.have not been working or find any means of income,my parents still give me money but brothers am tired of loneliness,right now am d only one living in 3bedroom bungalow with big palour,the question now is can I get married without any means of personal income,or can any responsible lady date me without any work or somethings doing,though I have flings that I rush to incase any serious urge,but I want a serious lady.pls advice not to scold me. almost 30... bro you're just 10 years away from being a fool for life... keep it up and you shall achieve your goals no offense o |
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