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Premarriage Questions List by Exjoker(m): 10:03pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
The success or failure of your marriage relationship depends on how well you handle a number of personal issues. Review these questions with your partner. Relationship Goals & Personal Habits 1. Why are we getting married? 2. What do we as a couple want out of life? 3. Do you think our relationship will change after we are married? 4. What do you think we'll be doing in thirty or forty years? 5. How often do you drink? 6. Have you ever hit someone? 7. Do you have a criminal record? 8. How would you describe yourself? 9. How do you think I see you? 10. Do you think it is important to know one another's physical and mental health histories? 11. Will you clean the toilet? 12. How are we going to divide up the household chores? 13. Does religion play an important part in your life? 14. Do you think faith and spirituality are important in a marriage? 15. What is your image of God? Finances 16. Can we talk about money? 17. Are you a saver or spender when it comes to money? 18. How much do we owe in debts and what are our assets? 19. Do you want to have a budget? 20. Where does our money go? 21. Should we have a joint checking account or separate accounts or both? 22. Who is going to be responsible for making sure that bills are paid on time? 23. Do you consider going to the movies and having a vacation every year a necessity or a luxury? 24. What are our financial goals? 25. Do you have any outstanding fines or debts? 26. What are our future plans for purchasing a home? 27. Do we both know where our important financial documents are located? Family 28. Do you want to have children? 29. Do we want to have children? 30. If we decide we do, how many children do you want to have? 31. How long should we be married before having children? 32. What kind of parent do you think you will be? 33. What is your parenting philosophy? 34. Will one of us stay home after we have children? 35. What type of birth control should we use if we want to postpone or prevent parenthood? 36. How do you feel about adoption? 37. Do you have any children already? 38. What was your childhood like? 39. Was your family an affectionate one? 40. Do you think we will have problems with your family during the holidays? 41. What values do you want to bring from your family into our marriage? 42. What do you like and dislike about your family? 43. What do you like and dislike about my family? 44. What do you like and dislike about your parents' marriage? 45. What do you like and dislike about my parents' marriage? 46. How much time will we spend with our in- laws? Sex & Intimacy 47. Can we talk about sex? 48. Should we talk about sex? 49. Are you comfortable discussing your sexual likes and dislikes? 50. What are your expectations of our sexual relationship? 51. Am I a jealous person? 52. Do I have trust issues or feel insecure? 53. How important is affirmation to me? 54. Do I handle compliments well? 55. What is your love language? 56. Do you think we listen to one another well? 57. Do you think it is important to be faithful to one another? 58. How do you want to spend our days off? 59. What are your expectations about how we will spend our free time? 60. Do you believe that we should be doing everything together? 61. Can we each pursue our own interests? 62. Do you need time alone? 63. How would you feel if I want a night out with my friends now and then? 64. How will we make sure we have quality time together? Conflict & Communication 65. How will we make decisions together? 66. Are we both willing to face into difficult areas or do we try to avoid conflict? 67. Do you think we have problems in our relationship that we need to deal with before our wedding? 68. Do we handle conflict well? 69. How are we different? 70. Do you think our differences will create 71. problems in our marriage? 72. Do you expect or want me to change? 73. Can we both forgive? 74. Are we both willing to work on our communication skills and to share intimately with each other? |
Re: Premarriage Questions List by Nobody: 10:04pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
i go read this long thing say nah exam i de write ni |
Re: Premarriage Questions List by Nobody: 10:05pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
hey farano watsup |
Re: Premarriage Questions List by Exjoker(m): 10:10pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
snowprince07: i go read this long thing say nah exam i de write niLol...This isnt ment for you after all, there are many people here who are preparin for marriage... |
Re: Premarriage Questions List by farano(f): 10:21pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
snowprince07: i go read this long thing say nah exam i de write nihmmm |
Re: Premarriage Questions List by mynd44bankrall: 10:27pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
farano: hmmmwhat did I do? that you do this to me? |
Re: Premarriage Questions List by Crocz(m): 10:28pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
I thought the list's gonna hit 100 as I keep strolling down but But wait o, after I review the question...wetin go come follow?...analyse the data?...SPSS or Shazam? |
Re: Premarriage Questions List by Nobody: 10:50pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
Crocz: I thought the list's gonna hit 100 as I keep strolling down but lol |
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