The success or failure of your marriage
relationship depends on how well you handle
a number of personal issues. Review these
questions with your partner.
Relationship Goals & Personal Habits
1. Why are we getting married?
2. What do we as a couple want out of life?
3. Do you think our relationship will change
after we are married?
4. What do you think we'll be doing in thirty or
forty years?
5. How often do you drink?
6. Have you ever hit someone?
7. Do you have a criminal record?
8. How would you describe yourself?
9. How do you think I see you?
10. Do you think it is important to know one
another's physical and mental health
histories?
11. Will you clean the toilet?
12. How are we going to divide up the
household chores?
13. Does religion play an important part in your
life?
14. Do you think faith and spirituality are
important in a marriage?
15. What is your image of God?
Finances
16. Can we talk about money?
17. Are you a saver or spender when it comes
to money?
18. How much do we owe in debts and what
are our assets?
19. Do you want to have a budget?
20. Where does our money go?
21. Should we have a joint checking account or
separate accounts or both?
22. Who is going to be responsible for making
sure that bills are paid on time?
23. Do you consider going to the movies and
having a vacation every year a necessity or
a luxury?
24. What are our financial goals?
25. Do you have any outstanding fines or
debts?
26. What are our future plans for purchasing a
home?
27. Do we both know where our important
financial documents are located?
Family
28. Do you want to have children?
29. Do we want to have children?
30. If we decide we do, how many children do
you want to have?
31. How long should we be married before
having children?
32. What kind of parent do you think you will
be?
33. What is your parenting philosophy?
34. Will one of us stay home after we have
children?
35. What type of birth control should we use if
we want to postpone or prevent
parenthood?
36. How do you feel about adoption?
37. Do you have any children already?
38. What was your childhood like?
39. Was your family an affectionate one?
40. Do you think we will have problems with
your family during the holidays?
41. What values do you want to bring from your
family into our marriage?
42. What do you like and dislike about your
family?
43. What do you like and dislike about my
family?
44. What do you like and dislike about your
parents' marriage?
45. What do you like and dislike about my
parents' marriage?
46. How much time will we spend with our in-
laws?
Sex & Intimacy
47. Can we talk about sex?
48. Should we talk about sex?
49. Are you comfortable discussing your sexual
likes and dislikes?
50. What are your expectations of our sexual
relationship?
51. Am I a jealous person?
52. Do I have trust issues or feel insecure?
53. How important is affirmation to me?
54. Do I handle compliments well?
55. What is your love language?
56. Do you think we listen to one another well?
57. Do you think it is important to be faithful to
one another?
58. How do you want to spend our days off?
59. What are your expectations about how we
will spend our free time?
60. Do you believe that we should be doing
everything together?
61. Can we each pursue our own interests?
62. Do you need time alone?
63. How would you feel if I want a night out
with my friends now and then?
64. How will we make sure we have quality time
together?
Conflict & Communication
65. How will we make decisions together?
66. Are we both willing to face into difficult
areas or do we try to avoid conflict?
67. Do you think we have problems in our
relationship that we need to deal with
before our wedding?
68. Do we handle conflict well?
69. How are we different?
70. Do you think our differences will create
71. problems in our marriage?
72. Do you expect or want me to change?
73. Can we both forgive?
74. Are we both willing to work on our
communication skills and to share
intimately with each other?

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snowprince07: i go read this long thing say nah exam i de write ni

Lol...This isnt ment for you after all, there are many people here who are preparin for marriage...

snowprince07: i go read this long thing say nah exam i de write ni

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farano: hmmm

what did I do? that you do this to me?

I thought the list's gonna hit 100 as I keep strolling down but



But wait o, after I review the question...wetin go come follow?...analyse the data?...SPSS or Shazam?

Crocz: I thought the list's gonna hit 100 as I keep strolling down but



But wait o, after I review the question...wetin go come follow?...analyse the data?...SPSS or Shazam?

lol