bigiyaro: Some wives know how to use the hairy remote.

BananaBender post=/post/26830159:
@op: You are not a good neighbor.

You are a gossip and you need to mind your business. Why are you playing God?? How dare you house him (brother-in-law) after he has been thrown out? You need to respect yourself Mr.

You could have given him money but let him go, it's not your place. You are only causing trouble and breeding negative energy between you and your neighbor.

You did a nice thing by housing the father temporarily, but don't go further. You can't continue to offer a ear to his begrudged family members.

SeaGold:

Funny you. It is bad when a man disrespect his parents just to be in marriage but treats the wife's parent like demigods

bigiyaro: OK. Between ur parents and ur marriage, if you have to choose, which one will it be?

Acidosis: Topic should be "Why do wives manipulate their husbands?

SeaGold:

I will choose my parents over an insensitive wife that wouldn't condone me treating her parents the way she'd approve I treat my parents

bigiyaro: Na simple question, which one you go choose between ur parents and ur marriage. If Na marriage say it n if na parent say so. We the wait.

SeaGold: I have come to observe this anomaly with a particular neighbour acting weird and insensitive,bidding to the whims and caprice of his darling wife.

His father came visiting sometime ago and he did one despicable act I don't like. He went with his family to the wife family house within the vicinity and locked his popsie outside. The old man went out too to see some relatives and when he came back around 8PM, there was no one in the house to open the door for him as his Son and family have gone to his inlaws place. The old man call, call and called the son yet the son kept telling him they are coming and at a point he refuse picking his fathers call. It was around 10PM I ushered the man into my house and he complained bitterly to me about the harsh treatment his son is meting out to him. Son finally came back from his inlaws place with his family around 11:20PM before he retrieve him from my house

One time I went to watch a match involving Barcelona with a girlfriend to my neighbours apartments and equally met some dudes in the sitting room watching. When we were all settled to watch the match...lo and behold, the channel was changed to cartoon network from the adjoining room and husband couldn't protest and we all dismissed! Football ended that minute.( wife overruled football).

Just yesterday, this neighbour threw out his brother in law(the person marrying his junior sister who recently lost his job and came to squat with his family while doing some menial jobs to survive) things out last night and according to the guy, this was instigated by the wife. All my neighbour's mother pleading has turn on deaf ears...as at now, my neighbour has refuse picking his mother calls nor the father over the issue and here, I am hosting a totally stranger in my house as a good neighbour.

The father has complained to me why will a son he gave quality education be treating him this bad even though he knows it is the wife engineering things and he wouldn't want to mention her to me.

The bitter truth is that it seems the wife picks the bills in the house as the husband lost his paid job few years ago. But one thing that puzzles me is that the woman appear to be a good person cos I have never seen her insult, quarrel or denigrate the husband before. She hardly talks.

I should have mind my business but I am always the last resorts cleaning up their marriage mess indirectly not affecting them anyway.

My question is, WHY WILL A MAN ACT WEIRD COS OF A WOMAN?

berem: All these stories you get from your neighbors,it seems you're the only sane person living in your neighborhood. There's no day you won't open a thread saying "my neighbor did this,my neighbor did that".
You suppose pack out of that area make dem no carry dia werey give you o!

Daresh:

Typical Nigerian mentality, blame the wife.

Wetin dem no dey blame wife for?

Very soon they will start blaming wife for rain fall.

If you no marry wahala, if you mary wahala.

One time I went to watch a match involving Barcelona with a girlfriend to my neighbours apartments and equally met some dudes in the sitting room watching. When we were all settled to watch the match...lo and behold, the channel was changed to cartoon network from the adjoining room and husband couldn't protest and we all dismissed!

Daresh:

Typical Nigerian mentality, blame the wife.

Wetin dem no dey blame wife for?

Very soon they will start blaming wife for rain fall.

If you no marry wahala, if you mary wahala.

troy20: .you know a good woman by how she treats vulnerable people she gains nothing from.

berem: All these stories you get from your neighbors,it seems you're the only sane person living in your neighborhood. There's no day you won't open a thread saying "my neighbor did this,my neighbor did that".
You suppose pack out of that area make dem no carry dia werey give you o!

SeaGold:

Expose...

The kids of the house aged 5 and 4 do tell the guy insulting, "mummy say you must leave our house", "we don't want you" "mumu uncle" etc...how about that?

Is that a Nigeria Man mentality?

carefreewannabe: What do all these stories have to do with manipulation?

Acidosis:

Psychological manipulation is a type of social influence that aims to change the behavior of others through underhanded tactics. By advancing the interests of the manipulator, often at another's expense.


Do not pretend or act like you don't understand the situation here.