jokinexcel:
The bitter truth is that u will definitely come back to claim the child in the future, because your conscience will never be at peace knowing that u have a child out there, blood is thicker than water. U can help her by arranging anonymous person to assist her not you.

silentdon:


Thank you. Her husband doesn't want the donor stuff, he doesn't even want to hear such. He's been unsupportive nd insensitive.
Thinking of making her sign some papers that'll secure my involvement in it..

egopersonified:
Seems you just want to be pushed on. A year isnt enough to be considered infertile. Why not advice the husband to go for tests too, she learns this ovulation period thing, etc. Please, give this couple space to build their marriage, it is just too early. Btw, hope you intend telling your gf when u go to do the deed? If you dont have one, go get yours now.

Priceless24:


BTW, has he gone for any tests? There's a 50% chance it's his fault, he cannot just be bull headed, doesn't she have any say in her marriage, if he's being unsupportive then let him prove that it's not from his end

silentdon:

I don't, would've pmed you but you're in far away Benin Lol..

silentdon:


I don't think I'll go bk 4d child tho, I can assume its one of those semen flushed with condoms. Tnx tho.

silentdon:

Lol. Thanks. You really think I should go on?

thandii1:


I have a feeling you really want to do this and only need a few posts that will encourage you to do so.

If my post will make any difference, I'll advise you to waive this crazy thought. How can you not feel horrible about this thought ? You mean you don't mind sleeping with her once or more till she conceives while in her husband's house?

Just put yourself in the husband shoes for 5secs and tell me if you'd want to be a victim of such deceit and betrayal.

If she were to be single and just needs a sperm donor to have her kids, then it would have been a different ball game, but sexing a married woman to make a baby, and then you watch her take the your own child into another man's home. Haba, bro, that's just wicked on the part of you both. I beg you, drop that thought.

Ps- what makes you certain that you can father kids with her. Better let her bear her cross and sort things out with her hubby. There are no advantages here. The short and long term repercussions are better not experienced.

silentdon:

I don't, would've pmed you but you're in far away Benin Lol..

silentdon:


He hasn't, in fact he refused all invitations for investigations. He said he's perfectly fine nd will go nowhere.

carefreewannabe:


I think he might have some sort of suicidal tendencies.

thandii1:


I have a feeling you really want to do this and only need a few posts that will encourage you to do so.

If my post will make any difference, I'll advise you to waive this crazy thought. How can you not feel horrible about this thought ? You mean you don't mind sleeping with her once or more till she conceives while in her husband's house?

Just put yourself in the husband shoes for 5secs and tell me if you'd want to be a victim of such deceit and betrayal.

If she were to be single and just needs a sperm donor to have her kids, then it would have been a different ball game, but sexing a married woman to make a baby, and then you watch her take the your own child into another man's home. Haba, bro, that's just wicked on the part of you both. I beg you, drop that thought.

Ps- what makes you certain that you can father kids with her. Better let her bear her cross and sort things out with her hubby. There are no advantages here. The short and long term repercussions are better not experienced.

carefreewannabe:


I think he might have some sort of suicidal tendencies.

coogar:


don't let these people discourage you. once they shut their laptops, they simply forget about you - you would be on your own again with your conscience carrying the weight of betrayal.

your ex needs you - make it count!

silentdon:

Hahaha, this really cracked me up.

thandii1:


Lol, you can say that again. How one can wholeheartedly rope himself into such is beyond me.

egopersonified:


But seriously, just give her space, form that you are busy, so she can concentrate on her husband.

silentdon:
Hello family section guys, you guys have been doing a lot of good works, this is my first post here nd I know I'll be glad I posted this.
I'll try to be as simple and short as I can be...
There's this girl, she's 25 and married but has been unable to conceive. Tho she Got pregnant (wch she aborted) before she married, she has been unable to repeat the feat with her husband after over a year of marriage. She's done all investigations trying to ascertain the cause of her infertility (frm HSG to hormonal assays, to hysteroscopy nd all) but they have all come out normal.
Now to the issue, she was my girlfriend in the past (we've long forgotten eachother since when she became seriously engaged as I was not even thinking marriage at that time) and she now wants me to get her pregnant. She knows me well and believe I can keep everything secret. Honestly, I don't mind because I'll just see it as being a sperm donor but yeah, there's a but..
What I'm also concerned about is the fact that I'll be sleeping with a married woman nd I've always said I'll end my marriage if my wife does that.
I really wanna help her, she's someone dear to me nd truth is, she's been ridiculed for it. I'll like to have different school of thoughts and opinions on this issue, anybody with an experience on a similar issue should also please share your wealth of experience (esp possible repercussions ) here. Thanks.

silentdon:


Thank you. Her husband doesn't want the donor stuff, he doesn't even want to hear such. He's been unsupportive nd insensitive.
Thinking of making her sign some papers that'll secure my involvement in it..

OnyeEgo1:


has her husband check him self too?

silentdon:

No..

silentdon:

No..

phabulous88:
Op if I understand you well, she had a baby for you when you guys were dating and you consented and funded her aborting the baby. Now after destroying her womb, you refused to marry her and you're here asking for permission to bleep her again because she's dear to you and you wonna help her. Chai! Chai!! Chai!!! The devil is soaking your cane in kerosene.

silentdon:


Thank you. Her husband doesn't want the donor stuff, he doesn't even want to hear such. He's been unsupportive nd insensitive.
Thinking of making her sign some papers that'll secure my involvement in it..

silentdon:


Thank you. Her husband doesn't want the donor stuff, he doesn't even want to hear such. He's been unsupportive nd insensitive.
Thinking of making her sign some papers that'll secure my involvement in it..

lynpetra:
A tale of a worthless,i:idioti,and notorious cheating wife with her indisciplined,insensitive and cursed boyfriend(she is not your ex,you are already fuckkkkking the mistake of a wife).i only pray you Guys are caught and she is thrown out to the street!Usless combo.