Your constant questions seemed like nagging to me.
It also seemed like you don't trust my word.
Why don't you believe me?
Have I given you any reason to doubt my word?

Apatheist:

I'm sorry.
I feel like a bad person.
I didn't follow the thread and was waiting for your mention.
Forgive me.


Continuing...

MizMyColi:


Apology is accepted.

I'll post Pam's reply shortly.
Happy weekend.

Pam: If you still love me, why call it quits with me.
Pam: Don't you believe in us anymore?
Pam: We used to have mutual respect and trust for each other, don't you think something must have gone wrong on your part too?

Andre: Tell me, what did I do?
You're the one who's always nagging.
Who doesn't trust me enough to leave my phone alone

Pam: Much of what you accuse me of, the intrusions et al stems from the fact that I needed to reassure myself that you were still connected with me. I admit that I might not have acted rightly, but you left me no choice.
Pam: How do you explain the fact that when we first knew eachother, you were warm and receptive to me, you'd listen to my gibberish and always help me make sense of my sometimes confused self.
Pam: Lately, you've grown cold and quiet, you no longer communicate as usual, I have calmly asked you what you think might be going wrong, yet, no cogent reply.
Pam: It seemed you were not ready for commitment to begin with, maybe you pretended to be what you're not, or gave me a false impression about you.
Pam: Where do I go from here, what do I do now?

Pam: My heart, this is beyond not leaving your phone and other gadgets be.
Tell me, for once, have you stopped to objectively ponder over what might have elicited such reactions from me?

Andre:
I've "grown cold" because I've been burdened with work.
Work I do because of you and the children we will have.
I come home late from work because I'm working overtime to be able to finance the large wedding you want.
And when I come home late, you burden me with questions about where I've been.
You constantly read my messages, even pick my calls.
You weren't like this at the beginning either.
Why the sudden change?
why don't you trust me anymore?

Pam: Love, I knew you were going thru' stuffs.
I knew you had challenges.
All I ever wanted was to be there for you.
I wanted to be present in your pains as much I would in your joys.

I desired to be carried along
But I was shut out.

Love, we've misunderstood eachother.

I still believe in us, I'm willing to make amends.

Please don't go, please?

Andre:
Hello, bae.
How you doing?
We need to talk

Pam: Good morning Andre.

Talk?

Okay first off, you leave me hanging for 3 straight days.

I became fully convinced you meant to get rid of me.

Now you want us to talk?

Shouldn't I be left alone to pick up the pieces of my already shattered to smithereens heart?

Andre:
I'm very sorry, Pam
If it makes you feel better I've been miserable without you too.
I don't want to get rid of you.
You know you are the love of my life.
I actually want to make amends
I'm sorry for any hurtful word I said to you.
Please, forgive me.

Pam:

Okay, I'm surprised and skeptical at the same time.

Did you really spew those words up there?

I mean!?

Just 1 week ago, I LITERALLY BEGGED TO HEAR YOU SAY SOMETHING IN THOSE LINES.

orrr
Maybe you miss the good sex we used to have?

Andre:
The sex is part of it, but not the main reason.
You know I love you, not for your body, but for yourself
I love you-- body, soul and all.
Please, forgive me, Pam

Pam:

*faints*

Andre: Pam?

Pam: Yes, Yes, I'm here
*coughs*
*clears throat*
Where were we?

Andre: You were about to forgive me and take me back.

Pam: *thinking* is he being this sweet because he wants me back in his life?

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Okay, let's make promises to each other.

Tell me the things you intend to start/and stop doing if we get back together.

I'll follow your cue

Andre:
Ladies first.
I'm being polite.

Pam: *Grins*
Wikkid you

We aren't going at logger heads over this, are we?

Waiting..........

Andre:
I'm being a good boyfriend.
You talk and I listen.
You complained that I haven't been listening to you.
Well I want to start now.

Pam: Seriously?
Are we really doing this?

You say you want me back and you're not willing to tell me areas where you're willing to improve on?

Andre:
Since you don't want to go first......


1: Stop your incessant nagging. I know you have good intentions but it comes off as nagging .

2: Privacy: I an not cheating on you, you know that.
You can stop checking my phone every time it beeps.
I put a password on my laptop not because I'm hiding something but because I have sensitive work info.

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That's all for now. It's your turn.

Pam: Errrr
I asked you to tell me things you're willing to do and things you're willing to stop in a bid for us to be better couples at loving.

And you had to remind me of my faults?
Like I haven't done enough of that?

Touche!

Andre:

I guess I'll stop telling you your "faults".

Pam: I take it we've hit a roadblock?
Well, it's been nice knowing you.
Thanks for your time too.

Bye.

Andre:
Come back, Pam.
I don't want to lose you

Pam: Okay, I'll go first.

I'll work on my insecurities.
I'll get a life outside you.
I'll reconnect with my friends that I shut out because of love.
I'll stop being passive aggressive.
I'll stop whinning, being bitter and grouchy.

I'll do my best to be the woman you desire.
The kind you wanna build your future with.

You?

Andre:
I'll stop coming back late, so we can spend more time together-- maybe get another job.
I'll start listening to you more; you can tell me anything you want however trivial.
I'll stop trying to change you and accept you the way you are.

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Will you accept me back into your life?