SeaGold:


Great analysis. Easier said than done with a palpable cause to justify it.

Glad to know you uphold marriage in high esteem.

Hollyb:
There,s a saying that you can't know all about your spouse's behaviour no matter the year of your courtship. Is this saying true? Is it true that people really change in marriage? Where a caring and loving man in courtship suddenly turns to a man who doesn't care anylonger or turns to someone who batters the wife or sleeps around. Or a once caring, submissive and supportive lady who now turns to the lady of the castle that doesn't care about the husbands welfare and starts manifesting bad behaviour? Married people in the house please enlighten us. Could this change in behaviour after marriage be the one that leads to divorce? Please share your experience with us and if the saying is really true what can be done to change it. Thanks

justmag:



Like someone from nigeria once told me that you never really kno your wife until you have a child with her. People change! As we get exposed to the world we all change. For good or for worse!!

Hollyb:
hmmmm God help us

SeaGold:


Our ladies should unsubscribe gender equality

Women should also adopt bible teaching on marriage

@sophyrocks...should we discontinued the old belief of staying married and getting old together, then divorce should be encouraged as a norm in the emerging new world.

Like I said, no one is perfect so it's possible a woman will have 5 husbands in her life time and this is totally unacceptable and unwise if religion should factor in.

SeaGold:


The bible stated that's enough reason for divorce

Fa fa faaaaaa...fowl!!! This is pure fallacy of modern day rhetoric.

The mentality you exhume is what is killing marriages nowadays. Real marriage can never be in equilibrium so it requires sacrifice, understanding and patience. So garbage in garbage out is pure mechanism of evil enterprise.

Marriages are failing nowadays because the traditional concept that instituted marriage is no longer acceptable to the women folk who believe in equal representation. The core value of marriage had been eroded by western style liberalisation and if we Africans will continue to upheld this "cultural shock" on our belief system, things could get even worse.