In your search for prince charming, you are definitely going to kiss a couple of frogs (and it will be gross). The truth is that with the right guide, you do not have to kiss a single frog.

An important aspect of dating is knowing when to just walk away from a relationship no matter what a guy has to offer. These men are the undateable men. Yes, a breed of undateable men exists – guys that women wouldn’t even want their enemies to date. These breed of men are created to remain single – at least until they decide to repent of their ways.

Since we gave you a list of Women You Should Never Date, we are in the spirit of fairness going to give you a list of Men You Should Never Date.

1. Peter Pan

This guy has vowed to never grow up. He is childish and immature by default and wants things to remain that way.

We are not saying that there should to an age restriction when it comes to dating; we are saying that a guys age should match his emotional maturity.

This kind of guy is good for having, a lot of fun; in the streets and in the sheets. And that is as far as it gets; just fun.

In no time, he is going to promote you from the post of his lover to his mother and before you know it, you are stuck with an emotionally stunted man-child who wants to re-live his childhood forever.

If you’re the kind of girl that is ready to tie his shoelace, select clothes for that everyday outing of his, cook for him and feed him, among doing his other chores, we say, congratulations and good luck with life.

2. The Slave Master

He does not see you as an equal in a relationship. He sees you as a maid and he is ready to abuse you verbally, emotionally, and physically. Our best advice is that you should get out while you can.

He scoffs at your opinions and advices. His sole purpose is to bend/manipulate you to his will. He feels because you are his lover you are obliged to do his laundry, cook for him, and clean up his dishes, while he watches TV.

As a rule, if a guy hits you once, we lay emphasis on the number ONE. If a guy hits you once then you should be out of his life. Do not be deceived by his apologies, do not be deceived by his tears, if a guy hits you once, he is going to do hit you over and over again. If hits you when you are dating, what makes you think he is going to change when you get married?

Remember, you are his partner, not his maid and if you continue in this relationship, you will know what it is like to be a slave for the rest of your life.

3. Mr. Constant

Everybody has rules, principles, beliefs or anything they hold dear to them. Once you are in a relationship you are going to let go of some of these things. Sacrifice is an important aspect of every relationship. Once you are in a relationship you are going to make a lot of sacrifices, a lot.

You should be ready to give up some of your principles, beliefs or rules for your lover and he should be able to do the same for you. There should be a balance.

At the same time, you should be careful not lose who you are totally, just because you are in a relationship.

If you are with a guy who insists that he will not change anything because of you then he is not a dateable type. This guy will only become more rigid over time. Dating someone who refuses to do anything new makes for a long-term relationship that is both boring and one-sided.

Assuming that he will eventually change, open up to you and make some changes because of you is misguided. This will likely never ever happen.

4. The Unemployed

This is not about supposed to make relationships about money and this is a snobbish attitude towards the poor, but nothing could be further from the truth.

A guy could be unemployed for a while, yes, agreed. But there are those who do not have a job and the feel that the most important thing in their life is to hook up with a girl. That is the category of unemployed that this refers to.

You can barely take care of yourself and you want to take care of another person? A Nigerian proverb says, “Person wey them carry for back, no day carry another person.” This is kinda difficult to translate to English, but our Nigerian folks know what this means.

There are plenty of guys who make a career out of living off their girlfriends and we all know where such relationships go and how they end.

5. Jon Snow

In as much as you do not want a master and slave relationship, you do not need a guy who does not know what he wants out of life.

He has not figured out what he wants to do with his life, he does not know where your relationship is going; he does not have a plan. In short, he is Jon Snow, he knows nothing.

You should never go out with a guy that cannot make a simple decision about anything. Ask him, “Where are we going today?” he replies, “Anywhere you want”.” What are we having for lunch” he replies “Anything you want”.

If your man cannot make simple decisions for you, or give his opinion on simple issues how do you expect him to man up when life threatening situations occur?

Duh?

6. Hot and cold

Of all the men you should never date, he is the most frustrating of all. He treats you like a princess when you are about to leave him and treats you like dirt when he knows you are back. He says he loves you but his actions say the opposite.

He is the king of guy who will disappear for months without a single word of explanation and then comes back, expecting you to continue the relationship form where he left it.

You should give this type of guy a chance if he works with the Nigerian Army and he went on a peace keeping mission on the moon and we all know no Nigerian is going to the moon anytime soon.

7. Downhill guy

Many men hit the romantic break early on in the dating process, by the fifth or sixth date; the laziness starts to creep in. Things do not have to be all gooey from the beginning of a relationship to the end, but because you agree to become his girlfriend he decides that he should stop calling you the way he used to.

After a few months, he no longer takes care of himself, he is no longer romantic. He is the type of guy that feels that a fisherman has no need to give worm to the fish is in his basket

Another way to recognize this kind of guy is to watch his behavior towards you after you go to bed with him. If he truly cares about you, his good behaviors will grow stronger. This type becomes a monster after taking you to bed, proving to you that he was after only one thing in the first place.

This type of guy thinks the battle has been won, you are now his lover and he is sleeping with you and so there is no reason to be romantic, what he doesn’t know is that relationships grow and that you are strong enough going to dump him even after going to bed with him.

What other type of guy do you think should be on the list of men you should never date? Let us know in the comment section below

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