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Re: Single Mothers Experience by prettiest1(f): 10:05am On Oct 16, 2014
Dorisk I have seen you. Pls try complete it, it's getting interesting.
Re: Single Mothers Experience by DorisK(f): 6:39pm On Oct 17, 2014
...He later came by to visit me. Sed he was sorry nd we shud continue like bfo. My kids were all ova him nd he refuSed to go till I agreed. I told him it was unsafe to be spending much time in his house. Den he promised to keep away nd let's jst be like broda nd sister. They went hom nd we started visiting him again. But we rarely slpt ova. Tins were moving on well. But bfo I knew it I fell again.

It started one rainy day. We were at his house wen it started raining heavily till 7pm. We decided to sleep ova. The kids laid down in d visitor's room nd it was awkward of me sleeping in d sitting room so I slept in his room, maintaining a decent space. Three tins contributed to wat happened dAt nyt. I started feeling cold. I was heavily sex-starved. Nd a well built willing nd able man was lying down beside me. But den I was d one who made d rules. I turned to face him nd turned back. As I turned to face him again he was staring at me. Wit a wicked grin on his face. I was frying by den about to burst. He helped me by jst touching my face. Dat was it I jumped ova him kissing madly. As I was opening his PJ he stilled my hands. "Babe pls let's nt do wat we r goina regret later pls. I love d way we are right nw" "it doesn't mata. It won't change anytin" I promised. He told me to jst lie down nd rest on his chest which I did. I felt like I was in labor. My whole body was in pains bt I jst lay down nd he jst held m wasit nd my shoulder smooching lightly. As I wAs about to faint I called him "Sam" "yes swt" he answered "Please...." I started bt he dint wait for me to finish..."Come here" He rushed my PJ off as I did his, it was faster dan d first, hot nd satisfying. He was strong nd swt. He was almost healed by den bt his legs still disturbed bt he did jst fine. We went rounds after rounds dat nyt after which We became lovers. I cudnt jst get enof. Seems I hav been in bondage nd was jst released. Its been more dan five yrs since I had a kiss nt to talk of sex so I was jst greedy about it as was he.

I went for an official trip for one whole week nd he looked after d kids. I called every nyt jst like a married woman. Wen I returned I felt lilke My life was back. We neva quarrelld. Cos I wasn't used to nagging nd he knew wen to keep quiet. He dint ask questions about me nd I loved dat. We jst avoided topics about our pasts. He had alredy told me pArt of his time to time bt I dint pay interest.
One night after such bliss he sed he loved me nd he asked me if I loved him. I kept quiet for a long time nd said yes. He kiissed my forehead. Again he asked if I trusted him of course I don else I won't trust u wit my kids. He sed "I want to ask u sometin." My hrt flipped "wats it" "its sometin personal" I alredy knew wat it was so I kept quiet. He removed my head frm where it lay on his chest nd made me face him. "I want to be part of ur life. I want to have all of u bt ur holding bac a lot. I jst wish to kno wat happend to such an angel to make her so crushed. I want to kno about u, ur family nd ur past. Pls quit locking ursef up nd open up swt. I love u nd I want to kno u" "U don't nid to. I can't" "please" he pleadded. I flared up " if u don't like me d way I am den let's quit it. I am me nd dats jst me. No past no family no Story. Got it? If ur done wit dis or if u can't do dis witout a story. Jst lemme kno. Am donne wit dis conversation". He jst stared. I was standing alredy. He heaved a sigh shruggled nd sed finally "Its ok if u don't wanna talk about it. Come sit" but I was alredy hurt. My old wounnd had reopened. " Am out of here I sed nd turned to leave. He grabbed me faster dan I tot a sick person cud. I was alredy on d floor bfo I knew it. I was kinda scared wen he stArted kiising me hot. I tried to push him away bt he kept on. He tore my shirt open nd continued kissing. I got really scared. My hands dat he held open were paining me my lips must be bleeding nd my legs ached. I saw Ralph's face nd memories gushed in... Horrible ones. Tears started rolling den he stopped "U kno d difference btw we men? Some know wen to stop nd wen to continue. Some hav respect for their ladies. Some don't. Nd some can't bear to see diz tears from a lady while some bring dem out. Some are in love odas lust. Nd wen a man ddoes sometin wrong all d men folk don't hAv to pay for it. If a man loves u,d least u can do is trust him nt to hurt u. Wat differentiates us is dat we are nt all d same. There is no way all men in d whole world cud be d same. D earlier u get dat d beta for ur hrt. Stop hurting ursef nd get a life. I neva meant to rape u. I was jst trying to demonstrate wat I had to say. Am sorry if I hurt u ......" He stood up nd drew me up to seat on d couch. " U can let ursef out ltr... See u.. Weneva." Nd he stormed out. I had neva seen him angry bfo bt he was vibrating as he walked out. Later in d day he sent me a text saying he was sorry. I dint reply. I switched off my fon nd cried for days. After some day I swiTched on my fon nd a text came in. It red... "It ok if u don't wanna see me again. I tried to show u wat I felt for u bt it seems I was pouring water on a rock. Ur alredy shattered nd u don't wish to be mended. Sorry for interrupting. Pls move on wi ur life d way u feel is best. I wish u luck nd God bless u. I went outta town nd I don't kno wen I'll be back. Pls my regards to d kids tel dem I love dem..... P.S- Nd weda u belive it or nt I Loved You nd I tink I still do. Take care Sam
Re: Single Mothers Experience by dapsy4u2(m): 6:49pm On Oct 17, 2014
If you say you didn't marry this guy...... I'll tell you you deserved whatever pain come ur way after!

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Re: Single Mothers Experience by prettiest1(f): 1:33pm On Oct 18, 2014
dapsy4u2:
If you say you didn't marry this guy...... I'll tell you you deserved whatever pain came ur way after!
Just chill and read her next episode where she will plead him to come back.

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Re: Single Mothers Experience by dapsy4u2(m): 2:45pm On Oct 18, 2014
prettiest1:
Just chill and read her next episode where she will plead him to come back.
. Fingers crossed.
Re: Single Mothers Experience by corisande: 3:32pm On Oct 18, 2014
undecided
Re: Single Mothers Experience by prettiest1(f): 3:51pm On Oct 18, 2014
dapsy4u2:
. Fingers crossed.
As it unfolds.

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Re: Single Mothers Experience by DorisK(f): 4:04pm On Oct 20, 2014
.... I continued my sad life. Started taking d children to nd from sch. Bt because I was scared of meeting him in sch I dint go close. I always dropped dem near d scool nd sent a taxi to get dem after school. It continued for two months. I got worried nt because I missed sam bt cos I felt I still hav somtin for my husband Ralph. I missed him too. D good times we had nd all d nice tins he did for me nd my family bfo he changed. I always prayed for him nd wished tins hadn't gone wrong. I tot about wat sam said about me moving on nd to stop hurtin mysef bt I wasn't ready. I kno it sounds crazy bt I was comfortable wit d sadness lonliness nd no FAF life. The kids shared my reason nd dint bother me much about their uncle sam. George always hushed his sister if she wanted to nd I adored him for dat. He looked jst like his dad,

One day I decidded to go pick dem mysef. I just wanted to see if I wud see him nd ask hw he was doing bt hhe dint com. Someone else had been picking his boy. I asked d man hw he was nd why he dint com. But all I go was "I don't kno ma" ha! "Is he around?" I asked. He sed yes. "Is he feeling well?" He sed yes. "Ok o. Bt don't bother telling him someone asked of him. Am his son's teacher nd I wanted to kno why someone else was picking him. The man left like I was alredy wasting his time. I tot ok if he was comfortable keeping away, why won't I be? I tot he was stil outta town nd that was why he dint look for me. So I stayed on my own

One sunday I decided to go to church. Its been a long time I sought God. After church we were waiting for cab. Suddenly my kids left my hands and started running. I ran after dem to see where they were going they were nt even answering as I called. I looked up nd saw Sam nd Danny his son! Oh no! Nt here! I wasn't prepared. I stared for a long time. I dint kno weda to be sorry angry surprised happy or wat I jst stood. Nd jst like him he was smilling bt deliberately nt saying anytin, jst Hugging nd pecking d kids. I forgot hw dat felt. I talked fist after parying nd waiting for him to do it. "Hi. Its been so long..." I sed weakly. "Really? I dint kno u wud notice. Hw hav u been swt" swt? I tot he was mad at me. I nodded d fine.he was chatting wit dem nd All of dem started strolling towards d car naturally. I was not existing. I tried calling d kids bt they dint answer. Wen we got to d car. I told him I nd d kids wud prefer taking a cab home. He smiled still nd sed I cud take d cab nd he wud jst drop d kids home nd leave. Wit dat they got in. George wanted to com down nd folo him bt I nodded he shud stay. I dint hv d legs to go in. I dint want dis. I jst want my life to go on simply. Why does he kip stealling dez kids frm me?!? why can't things jst be simple! I got to my shabby house. Prepared food nd dished it. Bt d kids sed they won't eat dat Uncle sam promised to take dem out. Wat? Including me?". "No" jst me nd Mirah" he answred. I felt both gud nd disappointed. I dint go out wen he came. Nd wen they returned they had sometins for me. I jst typed a THANKS text to him. On monday he texted dat he wud bring d kids bac. D next day same tin. SomEtimes he bot dem lunch so I dint hav to cook nd sometimes he took dem to his house bt he dint invite me nd I dint go. We comunicated thru text. It bcame unbearable. I needed to sort things out nd straighten facts out. Let's kno our stand nd why I can't be wit him.....
Re: Single Mothers Experience by itstpia1: 4:15pm On Oct 20, 2014
I was heavily sex-starved. Nd a well built willing nd able man was lying down beside me

just had to lol at this, sorry.

it is funny though.
Re: Single Mothers Experience by itstpia1: 4:17pm On Oct 20, 2014
i havent read the story, wbb
Re: Single Mothers Experience by DorisK(f): 3:02pm On Oct 21, 2014
.... I came out to meEt him as he came to take d kids to sch nd told him I needed to see him. He smiled as usual nd asked if I'd com ova or he shud return I told him I wil go ova to his house. I always felt uncomfortable having him ova cos my place was...kinda.... Smal shaa. I went. Nd we talkd. I told him I was sory for d break nd evry oda tin I loved him bt I stil hav sometin for my husband. He was kinda surprised. "Ur married" I nodded. "U tink my kids are bstds?" "Nop bt I tot u were widowed separated or sometin" "well ...." I hesitated" its a long story" I ended. " Look here swt, I excused mysef frm work today nd d kids won't b bac till noon. I hav all d time in d world... Jst let it go. Wat happend.. Dats if u wish to talk about I oo". Den I told him my story. I told him d whole truth nd d way evrytin happend up till wen I met him nd after dat up till dat moment. D story of my marriage nd single motherhood. Wen I finished nd looked up he had tears in his eyes as I did. He dint com to console me. He jst sat. Nd jst sed "am soryy" like three times. "But its well, wat about ur mum nd siblings" he asked after I calmed nw "wen last did u speak wit dem?" "I call my sister from time to time up till last year wen her numba stopped going. Probably she lost d line" " and all d time u neva spoke to ur mum" He sounded accusing nd disappointed. well, sometimes wen I called my sister she wanted to speak to me bt I always cut d call nd dey wudnt call me bac cos d numba is always hidden.... I dint kno wat to say to her nd I dint want to hear wat she wud say bfo she asks me to go bac to my husband. I jst asked my sis hw hey were, told her we were fine weneva she asked me where we were. The calls were neva mor dan a minute. Dats hw bad it was. Nd I told him. Long silence... Den he sed "Well am nt here to judge u. U had every right to be angry wt dem nd be sad d way u are bt permit me to say it was a lil bit too harsh. They dint ruin ur life dearie u did. U ran from ur problem instead of attacking it. U cud hav started a new life witout ur husband bt wt anoda person. Not all men aree like dat. Am sory u had to go tru all dat wit one man bt its nt always lik dat. Its well ok?. He went on nd on wit d sermon about life. I jst sat nd nodded. Den he came ova nd placed one arm on my shoulder. "I want yu to do sometin for me" he sed sexily. Bt I knew wat he meant. He cudnt be talking about sex right nw. I winced. "I don't kno if I can do it" "yes u can he encouraged. " I don't tink so it has been so long... I can't". He shook my shoulders, raised my head to look at him "Yu can" he sed into my eyes. "I don't even hav their numbers anymore. My sisters number was d only one I had off hrt bt it doesn go tru anymore" he chuckled "I don't bliv u" "its been seven yrs!" I resisted "Yes I kno. Bt It can't be true. U must hav anoda number u remember. Esp ur husband's. Am sorry I mentioned him. Bt jst check". Bt bfo dat... I missed u". Now ur talking!! At last I hugeed him nd tore off his clothes. Gush its been long. "I missed u too" I murmured inbetween nd devoured him..... I am bac!

Honestly I had no oda numba frm hom to call bt he suggested hw I cud get dem. We tried my brothers' facebook pages den got one number. I called it. He picked bt I cudnt talk. It was on d third trial dat he guessed my name "is dat u sis?" He asked "Yes" I answered. "Sis ur wicked! Ur heartless! U seriously hav no human sympathy in u. I wonder if we were siblinGs! Blah blah blah!" I just held d fon I cudnt move. I started crying. Dat was wen Sam took d fon frm me nd switched it off. So I was den d prodigal daughter only dat I was rejected. Some hours later I got a text from d number sayin I AM SORRY. I WILL CALL LAteR. I toldx Sam I cudnt answer d call bt he encouraged me. The call came nd wen I answered it was my younger sis. She was delighted to hear from me she was even crying dat they tot I was dead. Den anoda voice came on nd it was my mum. I greeted her. She shouted my name. After rejoicing for a while she started apologising. Dat I neva gave her d chance to apologise for rejecting me nd trying to force me on my husband. It was on Speakout so Sam confirm d story I told him. She sed she missed me nd had always regreted her actions. She wanted me bac. They all spoke wit me. Odas were in school so I spoke wit five of dem including my mum. They asked me where I was nd if I was cominG home or they shud visit. Sam signaled to say I was coming home which I did. They asked of George alone. Guess they neva blived Mirah Lived. I told dem I was sorry nd I wud contact dem if I was coming bac. because I dint hide d number mum pleaded I shudnt sqitch off my fon so dat they cud call from time to time. She was starting to say somtin else wen my broda hushed her nd cut d call. I was short oF words. Was I really going home. Sam was smiling at me. "Weldone he sed" I dint kno wat to feel. I just hugged him in appreciation. "Thank you" I sAid quietly. "I love yu".....TBC

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Re: Single Mothers Experience by kennylizzy(f): 11:56am On Oct 25, 2014
U r keeping us waiting Dorisk. Pls cum n finish what u started
Re: Single Mothers Experience by Rosarie(f): 7:01pm On Oct 25, 2014
babe i hate ur TBC!!
Re: Single Mothers Experience by TCF1980(m): 8:56pm On Oct 25, 2014
Rosarie:
babe i hate ur TBC!!

As if you don't watch Nollywood movies... Lol

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Re: Single Mothers Experience by DorisK(f): 7:38am On Nov 27, 2014
Days later they called again nd invited me home. I kept promising to go bac. Bt I kno I wudnt. I missed dem bt I can't face dem. I felt I was truly harsh making dem miss me all dez yrs. Sam kept persuading I visit. He also wanted to meet dem bt I told him am nt ready for another marriage. I wud quit our rship wen he finds anoda girl to marry. He jst smiled scoffed nd dint say anytin.
Weeks ltr d kids went on vacation. Sam came to my house one day nd gave me some tickets. It was for flight to my state for me him nd d three kids. I was unprepared for dat kinda stuff. D kids were excited. To travel o. They wudnt understand, even George who had been on my side all dez while was thrilled bout it. They l joined voices saying "plsssssss". I felt like hitler. I agreed to d travel nd we all went. We lodged in a hotel. Sam nd d kids had shopped for us so we were almost all wearing same type nd style of cloths, Everyone dat saw us said, "wow U have a lovely family" "I wish I had a family like urs" it was so embarrassing. More becos Sam kept saying "Really?? Tnx"" it dint move me I jst looked at dem nd continued wat I was doing. My mind was occupied at d type of family reunion I wud meet. D nxt day I nd my two kids started preparing to visit my house, Sam started preparing too. Ah ah? Where re u going? I asked him. "Ah ah?" He mimicked me "where did we com to go??" Tot I was going alone. He sed I dint need to go alone dat he was there to protect me. "Dey don't kno u. Who am I going to tel dem u are??" I protested. "Who am I ?" Hm! I stopped preparing nd sat down, I haven't told my family about him. I wasn't taking him as serious as he was taking me. Again I dint want to hurt his feelings. "If u don't want me to come I'll stay bac, it's nt a big deal. He said nd started removing his clothes. I felt bad cos he looked hurt. I thought since I don't care wat my family wud tink bt I care about him let him com wt me just dat I don't want him to be there nd I introduced him as JUST FREND. He was alredy pouting like a baby. I told him dat it's ok let's go togeda. He refused nd lay down on d bed. I had to go thru apologizing explaining nd persuading for him to grudgingly start preparing again. Men!

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Re: Single Mothers Experience by stinggy(m): 10:15am On Nov 27, 2014
You see yourself now?

Almost a month and you didn't update. Can't even remember where you stopped in your last post. undecided
Re: Single Mothers Experience by chikkyberry: 3:34pm On Nov 27, 2014
Intresting and touchin story .followind patiently
Re: Single Mothers Experience by dapsy4u2(m): 3:43pm On Nov 27, 2014
stinggy:
You see yourself now?

Almost a month and you didn't update. Can't even remember where you stopped in your last post. undecided

dont mind her. Coming here to tell us fiction!

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Re: Single Mothers Experience by anthoniaz(f): 4:30pm On Nov 27, 2014
DorisK:
...... He went to my employee nd raked hell hw they are enticing a woman to disobey her husband. He came bac nd after shouting at me told me dat my employee sed he will only withdraw d job if I came personally nd sed I dint need d job again, of course I refused. He used different mechanism to make me succumb including raping me at a point after of which I got pregnant again!

To cut d long story short after six months i cudnt continue wit d job cos I was nt emotionally balanced. I still had house chores to deal wit so I quitted d job n had my baby. I thank God I dint hav miscarriage so I named her miracle. Her father always mocked us by calling her obstacle bt it's well.
Wen miracle was 1 yr nd eight months old I wanted to start job again I decided dis time to inform my loving husband bfo going nd he sed over his dead body n dat I shud consider mysef dead if I take a job. I shud stay home nd bear him kids dats why he married a poor church rat like me. He asked me why I needed a job was to flaunt mysef for guys. After all he was taking care of me nd my wretched family. I replied dat if he dint allow me I wud go bac to my family after all mum had rained me almost to d end bfo I met him. He laughed at me nd said he knew I won't go anywhere cos my family can't do witout him as their only source of income dat he was sure they wud chase me bac ( truly he had been caring for my family despite treating me like a ware) I complained to my family nd received d same advise they gave me wen I was getting married so I swallowed my suffering until one day a letter came frm a company I had gone for an interview alas he received it.
Wat I hrd as I was bathing was " honey I tot I told u dat u can get a job only if u wanted to die" confused I asked "nd so?" He drew me out of d tub nd used his belt thoroughly on me I pretended to hav fainted wen I cud bear it no more nd he sed "wen u wake up we shall continue from where we stopped nd stormed out, Eh?? I packed out dat very nyt with d help of a neighbor. Early d next morning I went bac to my fathers house. They wept wit me on seeing my body nd rained curses on him. For one week hussy dint call. My sis nd her husband called him to kno wat happend bt it's either he dint pik or he abused dem. so my inlaw nd my mum nd bro went to see him to ask wat happened. They got theree nd saw him merriing wit harlots. He even pretended he dint know dem. they tried to speak wit him bt he told dem to leave his house nd Neva com again to beg him for money since their goose at laid the golden egg has decided to run to her numerous boyfriends. They came bac nd we started managing life togeda. My sister had married but her husband wasn't dat rich they jst helped a little so after some months my mum started her own war.......... Just like my sister earlier predicted........ TBC
Speechless lipsrsealed
For real! angry
Re: Single Mothers Experience by anthoniaz(f): 5:14pm On Nov 27, 2014
DorisK:
.... I came out to meEt him as he came to take d kids to sch nd told him I needed to see him. He smiled as usual nd asked if I'd com ova or he shud return I told him I wil go ova to his house. I always felt uncomfortable having him ova cos my place was...kinda.... Smal shaa. I went. Nd we talkd. I told him I was sory for d break nd evry oda tin I loved him bt I stil hav sometin for my husband. He was kinda surprised. "Ur married" I nodded. "U tink my kids are bstds?" "Nop bt I tot u were widowed separated or sometin" "well ...." I hesitated" its a long story" I ended. " Look here swt, I excused mysef frm work today nd d kids won't b bac till noon. I hav all d time in d world... Jst let it go. Wat happend.. Dats if u wish to talk about I oo". Den I told him my story. I told him d whole truth nd d way evrytin happend up till wen I met him nd after dat up till dat moment. D story of my marriage nd single motherhood. Wen I finished nd looked up he had tears in his eyes as I did. He dint com to console me. He jst sat. Nd jst sed "am soryy" like three times. "But its well, wat about ur mum nd siblings" he asked after I calmed nw "wen last did u speak wit dem?" "I call my sister from time to time up till last year wen her numba stopped going. Probably she lost d line" " and all d time u neva spoke to ur mum" He sounded accusing nd disappointed. well, sometimes wen I called my sister she wanted to speak to me bt I always cut d call nd dey wudnt call me bac cos d numba is always hidden.... I dint kno wat to say to her nd I dint want to hear wat she wud say bfo she asks me to go bac to my husband. I jst asked my sis hw hey were, told her we were fine weneva she asked me where we were. The calls were neva mor dan a minute. Dats hw bad it was. Nd I told him. Long silence... Den he sed "Well am nt here to judge u. U had every right to be angry wt dem nd be sad d way u are bt permit me to say it was a lil bit too harsh. They dint ruin ur life dearie u did. U ran from ur problem instead of attacking it. U cud hav started a new life witout ur husband bt wt anoda person. Not all men aree like dat. Am sory u had to go tru all dat wit one man bt its nt always lik dat. Its well ok?. He went on nd on wit d sermon about life. I jst sat nd nodded. Den he came ova nd placed one arm on my shoulder. "I want yu to do sometin for me" he sed sexily. Bt I knew wat he meant. He cudnt be talking about sex right nw. I winced. "I don't kno if I can do it" "yes u can he encouraged. " I don't tink so it has been so long... I can't". He shook my shoulders, raised my head to look at him "Yu can" he sed into my eyes. "I don't even hav their numbers anymore. My sisters number was d only one I had off hrt bt it doesn go tru anymore" he chuckled "I don't bliv u" "its been seven yrs!" I resisted "Yes I kno. Bt It can't be true. U must hav anoda number u remember. Esp ur husband's. Am sorry I mentioned him. Bt jst check". Bt bfo dat... I missed u". Now ur talking!! At last I hugeed him nd tore off his clothes. Gush its been long. "I missed u too" I murmured inbetween nd devoured him..... I am bac!

Honestly I had no oda numba frm hom to call bt he suggested hw I cud get dem. We tried my brothers' facebook pages den got one number. I called it. He picked bt I cudnt talk. It was on d third trial dat he guessed my name "is dat u sis?" He asked "Yes" I answered. "Sis ur wicked! Ur heartless! U seriously hav no human sympathy in u. I wonder if we were siblinGs! Blah blah blah!" I just held d fon I cudnt move. I started crying. Dat was wen Sam took d fon frm me nd switched it off. So I was den d prodigal daughter only dat I was rejected. Some hours later I got a text from d number sayin I AM SORRY. I WILL CALL LAteR. I toldx Sam I cudnt answer d call bt he encouraged me. The call came nd wen I answered it was my younger sis. She was delighted to hear from me she was even crying dat they tot I was dead. Den anoda voice came on nd it was my mum. I greeted her. She shouted my name. After rejoicing for a while she started apologising. Dat I neva gave her d chance to apologise for rejecting me nd trying to force me on my husband. It was on Speakout so Sam confirm d story I told him. She sed she missed me nd had always regreted her actions. She wanted me bac. They all spoke wit me. Odas were in school so I spoke wit five of dem including my mum. They asked me where I was nd if I was cominG home or they shud visit. Sam signaled to say I was coming home which I did. They asked of George alone. Guess they neva blived Mirah Lived. I told dem I was sorry nd I wud contact dem if I was coming bac. because I dint hide d number mum pleaded I shudnt sqitch off my fon so dat they cud call from time to time. She was starting to say somtin else wen my broda hushed her nd cut d call. I was short oF words. Was I really going home. Sam was smiling at me. "Weldone he sed" I dint kno wat to feel. I just hugged him in appreciation. "Thank you" I sAid quietly. "I love yu".....TBC
Wow! cry
Re: Single Mothers Experience by KanwuliaJara: 8:07pm On Nov 27, 2014
Apparently you never learned to KICK A MAN IN HIS BALLS. . .go and learn it sweetie! He will never touch you again! kiss
See your life?
ALLOW ONE USEEEEEEEEELESS MAN TO TURN YOU INTO AN ANIMAL BECAUSE OF LOVE O?
Nonsense!



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7w5YIvP2Gps

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Re: Single Mothers Experience by KanwuliaJara: 8:12pm On Nov 27, 2014
In this day and age? undecided
Abeg change the title of your thread to:

DEAD WOMAN WALKING! kiss

Nor be YOUR MATE BE THIS?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4G_uEAElyEQ


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=84gdMfKMQjM

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Re: Single Mothers Experience by KanwuliaJara: 8:17pm On Nov 27, 2014
YOU BLACK WOMEN SHOULD KEEP DATING AND MARRYING ANIMALS! grin


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nR7VZBjTrS0


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vkkeRFtXEBU

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Re: Single Mothers Experience by KanwuliaJara: 8:23pm On Nov 27, 2014

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Re: Single Mothers Experience by prettiest1(f): 9:31pm On Dec 14, 2014
After like one one month hmmm. Keep it coming.
Re: Single Mothers Experience by Baddowski(m): 3:48pm On Jul 21, 2015
DorisK:
She started complaining hw my kids ate a lot. If I had money for dis or dat. I Neva sed anytin until my sis visited home wit her kid nd I was asked to move frm my room for her I refused nd hell was let loose. I reminded her hw she was d one dat pushed me to marry Ralph. D nxt day mum askd me to either o bac nd beg my husband or find were to go. I was expecting dat so I called my roommate wen in sch nd asked if I cud leave my kids wit her for a while to sort mysef out. She agreed nd we moved out during d weekend despite my siblings plea to ignore our mum. I left my kids wit christy nd went to anoda state far from my state I squatted in d Catholic Church boys quarters until I found a private N/P sch dat pays enof money to at least pay house rent nd feed my kids

I went nd collected my kids nd we started life anew. I was a sad lonely lady. Who was mad at d whole male gender. Weneva I went to seek for job nd the proprietor was a man I left d job. I had so much hatred for men dat I wished my two kids were girls. I was angry at life generally. My only source if joy was seeing my kids sef nd far from doz dat caused me misery. I switched of my line nd was like lost to d world. Sometimes I used hidden lines to speak wit my siblings maybe on Xmas nd birthdays bt u Neva went home for five yrs. No one in my area knew me I lived a simple life. Had no friends safe fo few neighbors nd colleagues at work who I dint allow close enof to visit. My kids knew jst me nd I knew jst dem. they were going to public schools nd wore jst okrika clothes. So were we feeding frm hand to mouth nd content wit wat we had till one day as I was bringing dem bac frm school some church crusade people stopped their vehicle beside me to invite me. I was in a haste nd was trying to let dem kno I won't visit their programme as I hardly go to church. Another man frm behind me collected d tract nd told me "we shall com u guys can leave as u can see she is in a haste nd he whiskd me away. I thanked him nd he wanted to introduce himself bt I left him. He persisted nd offerd to take us home, That made me stop a taxi nd told him to speed us. Luckily Mr whoeva dint folo us. On returning to pik d kids d nxt day I saw him bt weneva he tried talking to me I jst passed him nd Neva spoke to him... On d Friday after dat I went to pik my kids bt d teacher sed their uncle Samuel alredy took dem I shouted at d teacher nd threatend to kill her personally if they were nt at hom. I reached d gate nd saw mr whoeva smiling at me at d gate..... Wt my kids alredy in his car..... TBC
Re: Single Mothers Experience by Jammiiee(m): 10:24am On May 07, 2017
Stop quoting the whole post nao angry sad
anthoniaz:

Speechless lipsrsealed
For real! angry
Re: Single Mothers Experience by millyj(f): 11:43am On May 07, 2017
The story don finish?

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